Sister Hua is 5 1 year-old this year and has been divorced from her husband for some years. In those years before that, Sister Hua lived alone with her children. At that time, she felt that life was busy and full, and most of her energy was spent on her children. Naturally, she didn't feel any loneliness.
It was only when the children went to college that the family suddenly quieted down and loneliness became more and more obvious. If you are never alone, you will never know what it is like. Just like why people want to get married, in fact, many times they are afraid of loneliness and want to have someone to accompany them.
Sister Hua feels the same way. She also wants someone to accompany her. In that case, someone can chat, eat and watch TV together. Even the smallest things in life, it will be much more interesting to have personal company.
Then floret met a man on his mobile phone. They have never met each other before, but they feel like they hit it off. It seems that they know each other very well, and there are endless words. Sometimes I can talk until midnight, and I don't want to put down my cell phone.
With more and more chats, floret and this man developed feelings, that is to say, they were inseparable. Although he is not in a city, he still said that in the future, the man told Sister Hua that he would like to live in Sister Hua's city for her sake.
With such a promise, the two began to discuss the date of meeting. After everything was settled, Sister Hua made a small request to the man. She told the man that it was the first time we met, and I hope you can give me a gift. The price is not important. I just want to keep it as a souvenir.
As a result, Sister Hua didn't expect that as soon as she said this request, the man over there flew into a rage and directly scolded Sister Hua, saying, I didn't expect you to be such a woman, and all the feelings after talking for a long time were fake. So you want something from me.
Therefore, no matter how Hua Jie explained, men refused to believe her again, telling Hua Jie that it was impossible to contact her again, saying that he was also a man of several decades old, and he was not stupid. Let Hua Jie die and you can't get anything from him.
Two people talked about their feelings for half a year and collapsed in an instant. Floret's heart ached, but he didn't feel that he had done anything wrong. She just thinks that men are too sensitive and wary, and she can't get through such a small thing in her relationship.
Floret didn't feel wrong, but because of such a thing, her heart was sad.
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Last year, after years of divorce, 53-year-old Sister Zhao was introduced to a man of her own age and good conditions. The most important thing is that Zhao Jie has the same hobbies as men, both like music and dance. When they are together, it is often men who play the piano and Zhao Jie who dances.
Such two people can be said to be very right two people. So after knowing each other, the feelings of the two people have advanced by leaps and bounds, and gradually they are inseparable. What's more, when you are in your fifties, what you really need is a like-minded partner to talk to.
Zhao Jie's decision to remarry was not opposed by her daughter, but she was very supportive. In fact, my daughter was married two years ago. At that time, Zhao Jie had been living alone with her daughter. Her original plan was to wait until her daughter got married before thinking about her own problems.
Therefore, after her daughter got married, even her daughter felt sorry for Zhao Jie and told her that she had suffered for most of her life. Now she doesn't have to worry about her anymore, and it's time to find a good companion. Contrary to Zhao Jie, the man has a son. Although my son is married and has a little grandson, he met with resistance on the issue of remarriage.
The reason why a man's son doesn't agree with his father's remarriage is of course selfish. He is afraid that after his father finds a wife, he will be used by her, such as spending money or taking the house away. It is because of these false fears that a man's son strongly opposes his father's remarriage.
In this opposition, the man finally chose to break up with Zhao Jie. He told Zhao Jie that my son didn't agree with me to find another job, and I didn't want to make my family angry. From then on, this person never contacted Zhao Jie again and disappeared completely.
After all, there are feelings. After the man left, Zhao Jie was in deep pain.
03
"Can a woman find true love after fifty?" "Do women over 50 still need men around them?" Divorced women talk about their pain.
Sister Hua said that she must be looking for a partner. But at this age, after all, married people are somewhat selfish. It is too difficult to understand and trust a person. It's even harder to find the right person for company. A small misunderstanding may lead to a breakup.
Zhao Jie said, I want to find a partner, but at our age, marriage is sometimes not decided by us. After all, people who have children or even grandchildren need to consult their children. If the children support it and those children obstruct it wantonly, then there is no way out.
In short, if you want to remarry after divorce, whether you are in your thirties or fifties, there are too many factors to consider or things to worry about. It is not easy to find a suitable person or to have a warm marriage.
What do you think of this?