Looking for a house with my friend Lingling at the weekend, after looking at one house after another through one intermediary, I finally found a small apartment with two rooms and one living room. Although it is a rented house, she has become a warm and comfortable little home after renovation.
She looked around her little home and said with deep feelings: Finally, she has her own nest, and no one dares to say "roll" anymore. She didn't forget to make fun of herself. "Of course, I will pay the rent on time and pay the utilities and property fees regularly."
"I want to make money, save money, buy a house and buy a house." She suddenly raised her voice and swore nervously.
I have long been used to her being an "intermittent neuropathy". But similar to "buying a house", I believe she is by no means swearing. After fighting and arguing with love rat, she realized the importance of a house to a woman.
Lingling and her ex-husband met through blind date. Let's call her ex-husband's army. The army is very handsome, with a height of 1 m 8, fair skin, a single eyelid and a muscular man. Lingling has always been infatuated with that boy with a single eyelid. Whenever there are stars with single eyelids on TV, from "Uncle" Wallace Chung and David to "Little Fresh Meat" Yifeng Li and Jing Bo Ran, she can't wait to get up and lick the screen.
After seeing the army, Lingling completely "fell", and her eyes were full of troops. Say "commander is short" in your ear more than 1000 times a day, and your ears are almost cocoon. Of course, Lingling is handsome and cute. After they met, they fell in love with each other, and they both fell in love.
Jun is a qualified boyfriend. He sends Lingling to work every day and often sends her a bunch of roses, which makes her laugh. Occasionally in the afternoon, Lingling will receive "Love Afternoon Tea". Although it was sent by the "takeaway brother", the reservation made by the army is enough to show the intimacy of the army.
After being in love for half a year, they lived together in a rented house in Ling Lin and lived a life of fireworks with daily necessities. The army is local and Lingling is a foreigner. Before cohabitation, Dajun lived with her parents, and Lingling rented a house by herself. Your parents bought you a house and have kept it ever since they got married.
After the two lived together, Lingling said that she saw the other side of the army, throwing dirty clothes and socks everywhere, never putting dishes and chopsticks in the kitchen after dinner, never letting her eat snacks and fruits, and always rushing to eat the last potato chip and the last apple. Lingling said that she is both a "nanny" and a "mother", serving "grandpa" and coaxing "unweaned children".
Every time Linlin couldn't bear it and his anger was about to erupt, the mouth of the army was sweeter than honey, and he apologized to Linlin with sweet words and vows of eternal love. Linlin fell into the trap again and again.
A few months later, they got married, they moved into the new house of the army, and Lingling became the hostess. Of course, it is only a nominal "female host". Jun's house is pre-marital property, only under his name.
Men have changed a lot before and after marriage. Before marriage, their mouths are as sweet as honey, and endless rhetoric makes people happy. After marriage, sweet words and sweet words all disappear, and other bad habits are exposed one by one.
Lingling's married life is not happy. She undertakes all the housework, but also takes care of a healthy "disabled person" and is responsible for his eating, drinking and sleeping. Moreover, this person is getting worse and worse, his temper is getting worse and worse, and sometimes he will touch his hands.
Finally, one morning, the army rummaged through the clothes in the closet, turned the closet upside down and scolded Linlin for not sorting out the housework. After the two had a big quarrel, the army pointed to Lingling's nose and said, "Get out of here, this is my home, and don't come back."
Get out of here In a rage, Lingling left home.
She has no relatives in this city, and my family has become her nest.
"I didn't intend to buy a house before, thinking that if I marry someone with a house, I can successfully become the hostess of the house. Now people say fuck off, I have nowhere to go. " She sobbed.
"After staying in this city for several years, I don't even have a place to live. What have I done? " She continued.
I must buy a house of my own.
I want a divorce.
I advised her to calm down. As a bystander, feelings have always been like drinking water, and only the parties make their own decisions. Besides, I can't judge without advice! !
Finally, she divorced the army. Then go back to the beginning of the article and I will accompany her to find a house.
02
This reminds me of the story "Ma Su buys a house" that has spread all over the circle of friends.
At that time, and Kong were a golden couple, and the man was a grand slam champion. He drives a Porsche and lives in an upscale neighborhood. He has fame and money, and he is inevitably complacent. The woman is still a poor student. Because she is in love, she has lived a rich life that everyone envies.
Any loving couple who disagree will blush. And Kong, when a Northeastern meets a Northeastern, two people with strong personality and generous temper will inevitably quarrel.
One winter night, after a quarrel, Kong blurted out the word "roll". When Ma Su left home with his luggage, he realized that he had nowhere to go.
Later, she worked hard to save money to buy a house. She couldn't afford to buy all the decorations at once, so she moved back to a tile and a carpet. I can't bear to buy cosmetics, and the decorations at home are very luxurious.
It took her six years to build a warm and comfortable home for herself, and hung the "Majiazhuang" sign at the door.
03
I have always been especially in favor of girls having a house of their own, not leaving their premarital property out of all their intentions. Of course, this factor is not ruled out.
But more importantly, I think the house can give people a sense of security. More reliable and practical than men.
The house will never be sold, never demolished, and it will always belong to me, and there is a time limit. If you sell it, you will have money, and if you tear it down, you will have compensation. And that man belongs to me today and may belong to someone else tomorrow. He couldn't buy or sell, and then he left, waving his sleeves and leaving nothing behind.
With a house, no matter how late I come back, there is always a place for me in this city.
With a house, I can enter, attack, retreat and defend, with confidence, initiative and choice.
I marry a man with a house, and the other person won't think I am aloof.
When I meet someone I like, even if the other person doesn't have a room, I can bravely say "it doesn't matter, I have it". Then he smiled and said to him, "You pay the mortgage every month."
Maybe you want to say, girl, I also want to buy a house, but I have no money!
Indeed, no matter how great an idea is, it is powerless in the face of money. No, then earn it!
Cai Lan said, "Young people must work hard to make money. One job is not enough for two jobs, and two jobs are not enough for three jobs. "
If the sky-high house in the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen can't afford it, then buy it somewhere else. If you don't live by yourself in the future, buy it and invest it, and then sell it when it appreciates.
Earn hard if you have no money, buy your own house and buy your own red envelope, whether he is a man or not!
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I am a dancing leaf.
Quietly landed on your shoulder.
Have you seen me?
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I am cooking quietly here, waiting for you to taste!
I wish you the best of health!