0 1. Money is the property of husband and wife. The wife bought a house for her brother without her husband's consent. When her husband learned the situation, he said that she earned the money herself, as if it were natural. You know, all the assets of husband and wife after marriage are jointly owned by everyone. Whether you earn a lot of money or are heavily in debt, both of you must bear or share it. Even if you use the money first, the other half can get it back through legal channels after learning that they disagree. Just like the husband takes money to raise a mistress outside, the original match can definitely make the mistress spit out all the money she has eaten! The other party has the right to know where your money is spent, so the husband can get his money back through legal channels, provided that he can tear his face, otherwise he can only suffer a dumb loss himself.
02. You can buy a house. Buying a house without help is not buying food, nor is it as simple as just helping. 200,000 yuan is definitely not a small sum for ordinary families. Give it to your brother and give it to your brother. Who can stand it? This elder sister is definitely my brother's helper, and she will ask her husband to help him if he needs it. Think about it, you can buy a house, and you can talk about raising children and borrowing money in the future. If you refuse again at that time, you will only be kidnapped by all kinds of morality, and it will eventually become your fault. It is better to be the bad guy than to fail in the end. You should stick to the bottom line! Let the wife realize that the magic of helping her brother is bottomless!
You don't have to care about tens of millions of family assets. Normal families can't help. Of course, there is one situation where you can help. Just as the couple's assets exceed 10 million, that 200 thousand is also a small amount for them. It is not impossible to help buy a house, because they can easily afford it. But if this is just an ordinary family, 200,000 is definitely not a small sum. The wife said that if she gave it to her younger brother, she would give it to her younger brother, or she would get her money back or get divorced directly, otherwise she really couldn't live.
Personally, I think that a husband must let his wife know in time that it is wrong to help his family without a bottom line. Everyone agrees that he can help, but mindless help will really ruin the happiness of a family! A husband must make his wife aware of this. If the wife is still stubborn, then the husband should not get involved together. There is no need to help others raise their younger brothers. Life is so hard that they have to raise waste. Why are you so tired?