Aunt Xue and Mrs. Wang are both young ladies of the Wang family. They married Xue Jia and Jia Fu respectively. Originally, they lived far apart, but because Xue Jia was going to send Baochai to Beijing for the draft, they met in Beijing. When I arrived in Beijing, my aunt chose to live in three places, her brother's Wang family, her sister's Wang family and her house in Beijing.
It is reasonable to say that it is best to live in one's own home, but Aunt Xue chose to live in Jiafu without hesitation, so I won't delve into the reasons. Then, why doesn't Wang's sister-in-law go to see Aunt Xue?
When Aunt Xue first arrived in Beijing, her brother and sister-in-law happened to be out of Beijing, but the Wang family's sister-in-law didn't often visit Aunt Xue. One of the restrictions is that the Wangs are not in Beijing. When Aunt Xue just planned to come to Beijing, Aunt Xue's brother Wang Ziteng had just been promoted to nine provinces and needed to work in other provinces, so the Wangs were away from Beijing for a long time.
It was very late for the Wangs to return to Beijing. At that time, Aunt Xue's relatives Xue Baoqin and Xue Ke also came to Beijing with them. Since then, the communication between the two families has become more frequent. Although I don't often walk around, it is still very common to send things to guests.
From Xue Pan's fear that his uncle will be strictly controlled when he goes to Beijing, we can know that the relationship between their family and the Wangs has always been very good, so it is not that the Wangs' sister-in-law is not in contact with Aunt Xue, but that there is a space constraint. The Wangs have never been to Beijing, so it is impossible to visit Aunt Xue.
The Xue family's house and the Jia family's house are connected together, but they are not connected. I don't know that Jia's family is very big in private contact, and I am also very considerate to Xue's family. The house Jia Fu gave to the Xue family was originally "pear fragrance court", but it was later changed to another hospital. These courtyards are connected with Jiafu, but they are not, that is, they can have independent doors and enter and exit by themselves. In this way, the lives of the Xue family and the Jia family will not disturb each other.
Wang's sister-in-law will go to see Aunt Xue alone without going through Jia's house. She just needs to go through this door, so the Jia family doesn't necessarily know about their personal contacts. This means no writing, but it doesn't mean it's meaningless.
The Xue family is an imperial merchant. They run many shops in the capital, including pawn shops, pharmacies and antique shops. So it is normal for the Wangs and the Xue family to have contacts when they have no time. They don't meet at Jia's house. The Xue family stayed in Jia's family, and there was no intersection with Jia.
Jia Fu is very big, and the Xue family knows what happened inside, but Jia Fu doesn't necessarily know what happened to the Xue family. The Xue family should know the Jia family, because it is easy to know many things when living with others, but the Jia family doesn't have to know the Xue family. So, this is that the Xue family knows everything about Jia Fu, but Jia Fu doesn't know anything about the Xue family.
Wang Jia and Jia Fu have frequent contacts. In fact, Aunt Xue had already participated in this period. Wang Jia and Jia Fu have been in frequent contacts, such as Baoyu's birthday, and Wang Jia's gift is the first time. Once the Wangs sent someone to ask Wang Xifeng for something and asked her to go out to visit a young lady. At the banquet held in Wang Jiaju, all the ladies and sons of the Jia family were invited to attend. The Wangs and Jiafu are both in Beijing, so they naturally need to take care of each other.
Aunt Xue lives in Jiafu, so the Wangs associate with Jiafu, and Aunt Xue will naturally participate, so the Wangs' sister-in-law will take care of Aunt Xue.
Moreover, it is not convenient for the Wangs to come to Jiafu frequently. Aunt Xue lives in Jiafu. If the Wangs come here often, people who know it naturally mean that the two families are close. People who don't know it will think that Jia Fu is not good for the Xue family, so Wang Jiacai will come here often.
In order to avoid these unnecessary gossips, Sister-in-law Wang should not visit Aunt Xue too often. It is better to go to Jia's house first and then invite Aunt Xue. This kind of communication is also reasonable.
Generally speaking, the Wangs' eldest sister-in-law doesn't come to see Aunt Xue very often, for a reason. Aside from the problem of not dealing with secular sister-in-law and sister-in-law, there is also the problem of etiquette. The Xue family lives in the Jia family, and it is inconvenient for the Wangs to take care of them all the time, otherwise it will be difficult for Jia and Xue to face. Jia Fu's guests are not taken good care of by Jia Fu, which is like something.
Therefore, there is not much interaction between the three families, as long as they get together from time to time during holidays and get together every three to five. In this way, we can not only enhance our friendship, but also we won't bring too much trouble. This is the art and discretion of communication.
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