The psychological confusion in homosexual love is more complicated than heterosexuality, which often involves multiple factors such as society, family, personal inner expectations and so on. First, homosexuals often feel remorse and guilt when facing themselves. Homosexuals often try their best to cover up their homosexual behavior, so that self, family and society disagree on this issue. In this environment, homosexuals are more prone to anxiety, depression, compulsion, self-humiliation and self-punishment. Secondly, in the face of family and society, homosexuals often have fierce conflicts, worries, avoidance and marginalization, and have no sense of belonging. Homosexuals can't have their own offspring and stable families, which is not allowed by their parents. Facing their parents, homosexuals are in great pain. Coupled with different views on homosexuals in society, homosexuals often have symptoms such as interpersonal barriers, social fears and even delusions. Finally, homosexuals broke through many difficulties and came together, but because both sides carried too much, they expected more. Because homosexuals are marginalized by society and not protected by law like heterosexuals, homosexuals are often vulnerable, prone to emotional problems caused by high expectations and low gains, as well as depression and anxiety caused by confusion about future life.
The psychological obstacle of people who seek psychological counseling because of homosexuality is often not their sexual orientation, but their fear and fear of society and people around them. Therefore, the focus of psychological counseling is not to adjust one's sexual orientation, but to make visitors increase their psychological endurance and know how to deal with and resolve emotional troubles caused by stress. If visitors have strong motivation, efforts and perseverance to change their sexual orientation, comprehensive therapy combining hypnosis, psychoanalysis and behaviorism is often adopted in the process of psychological counseling.
At present, the society is more tolerant of homosexuality, but it is far less free than heterosexuals and cannot walk in the sun. Homosexuals are often discriminated against and pressured by their surroundings, and are on the edge of society. Facing the criticism of family and friends, they are often very painful. If you want to change your sexual orientation, or get rid of the distress caused by family and social pressure on the basis of maintaining your sexual orientation, you can ask for help from a psychological counselor. Therefore, homosexuals, like others, should also have psychological counseling when they are confused.