British writer Mao Mu once said: "There are no ugly women in the world, only some women who don't know how to make themselves look beautiful."
It's true. Only women who are proud of their appearance are sad. When their youth dies, they lose their beauty. Only those talented women can remain young forever, because they know how to turn knowledge into strength, and they really have eternal beauty. Such a woman is also a wise woman.
To be a wise woman, you need to actively study in busy business activities and actively develop your potential. You should always keep the following points in mind for women:
First, the hardware is not enough software, and the appearance is not enough.
As a woman, it is a good thing to have a beautiful face, but only a face can eat a youthful meal. To maintain eternal beauty, you need to learn and make continuous progress in spirit to stay young forever. For ordinary or difficult-looking women, it is more important to explore their own personality beauty and pay attention to their inner temperament and self-cultivation.
Hu used to work in a state-owned enterprise. There are five girls in their office. One of them was as beautiful as a fairy, so she took advantage of it and met the opportunity of a long salary, promotion of professional title and recuperation. Because of her beauty, she ranks first. Other m-girls dare to anger dare not speak, can only sulk. In fact, Hu is always among the best in ability and business, but leaders only judge people by their appearances. What can you do under someone else's roof?
Faced with these unfairness, Yu Jia didn't say anything, but secretly studied, enrolled in English classes, computer classes and Sherbin training, and "configured" and "upgraded" a lot of excellent software for himself, because Yu Jia knew that he lacked hardware and had to rely on software to make up for it.
Two years later, Yoga Yu resigned and went to a joint venture, starting as a clerk and becoming an assistant to the general manager. After a negotiation, the other boss invited her to lunch. Later, the boss became Mr Yoga Yu. He said that Yoga Yu's calm, supercilious attitude, elegant manners and extraordinary speech during the negotiation that day deeply attracted him. At that time, he thought Yu Jia was the most beautiful woman.
Second, in order to live a better life, you must study more.
After graduating from college, Liping was assigned to work in a public institution. Because she is beautiful, she is often taken care of by others, but Liping has a strong personality and always wants to do something with her real talents. So, she taught herself the computer and applied for a job in an Internet company.
There, Liping felt unprecedented pressure. In order to relieve the pressure, she chose to study. Every day after work, Liping takes a bite of rice or instant noodles in a hurry and goes straight to various schools for classes. Learn computer on Tuesdays, Fridays and Sundays, and learn advanced spoken English on Mondays, Wednesdays and Saturdays. It only took Li Ping three years to get a master's degree and a second-class computer certificate. She organically combined learning knowledge with work, and was promoted to department manager because of her outstanding work performance.
On that day, some friends got together and asked Liping how she became a learner and a workaholic. In fact, she doesn't think so. Studying hard is to enrich yourself, and working hard is to live a high-quality life. What's more, Liping doesn't want to recite a "vase" birthright. Of course, the most important thing is that she has learned a whole set of thinking methods in her study and work, which will help you draw correct conclusions when thinking about problems. Later, Li Ping took these methods to a company as a deputy general manager.
Life needs balance, not only work, but also many other things. In order to clarify that Liping is not a strong woman, she will wash and tidy up the clothes of the whole family on the rest day and cook a delicious meal for her husband. Otherwise, they will travel together, have a picnic in the country and experience the feeling of love.
Ping Li believes that a woman should know how to control herself, and be conscientious wherever she is, and play every role incisively and perfectly. Therefore, a woman in charge of reading is a smart woman.
Third, the days of pampering will make you lose everything.
After marriage, Ai Xiang and her husband * * * opened a small company, and gradually the business grew bigger and bigger, and the profits became higher and higher. Their company has also expanded into three companies. At this time, Ai Xiang was pregnant, and after giving birth, she became a full-time wife with peace of mind.
Ai Xiang lived a pampered life. He didn't read books, newspapers or study. Slowly, she became informal and began to gain weight. Her husband has said to her several times: "Look what you look like, it's like the original lean and elegant Ai Xiang." Ai Xiang retorted, "What, you don't like me because I help you lay the world? I warn you not to do anything that likes the new and hates the old. "
Since then, the time for her husband to go home is getting later and later, and the days at home are getting less and less. Once, he came back drunk and fell asleep in bed. In the dream, he shouted Xiao Yun's name. At this time, Ai Xiang realized the seriousness of the problem. Ai Xiang gave him an angry beating and asked him who Xiao Yun was. At first, he hesitated because of guilt. Finally, under the roar of her lion, he finally got angry: "Look where you look like a quality woman, you are a bitch." Why did I call Xiaoyun? You will know the reason when you see her. "
After much deliberation, Ai Xiang decided to come back. After returning to the company, she found that she knew nothing, nothing. After being sad for a long time, Ai Xiang felt that she should recharge her batteries. She signed up for a computer class and an accounting class. When she first started studying, she found it really difficult. After a period of adaptation, she entered the learning state. Then, Ai Xiang signed up for beauty classes and physical training classes, and her schedule was full.
Gradually, Ai Xiang learned to wear the right clothes, choose the right makeup and hairstyle, pay attention to customs, and show her wise heart. She can be as handy in the company as before. Ai Xiang found that her husband also began to come home on time and often hugged her. His eyes are different from the original, full of tenderness, just like when he is in love.
Women really can't give up learning. Giving up learning means giving up themselves.
Learning is like vast water, while women are like swimming fish. Without study, like a stranded fish, you can only resign yourself to fate. Instead, you can make a lot of money and have no worries about food and clothing.