1. Believe in the power of faith. Do you really know TA?
? 2. Slow is fast, and less is more;
3. Growth is a slow motion, and the day does not increase, and the month sees its length;
4. Do you think what you think is what you think?
Everyone has the ability to heal themselves;
6. We will be influenced by the past, but not determined by it;
7. Worry is a curse and faith is a blessing;
8. There is no should, only rare;
9. Relationship is greater than mode, and mode is greater than content;
10. A small change can bring a snowball effect;
1 1. It's so difficult, how did you get through it?
Don't work too hard, but strive for constancy (Zeng Guofan)
Anything that can't kill you will eventually make you strong; (Nietzsche)
12. Action is a good medicine to overcome fear, and hesitation will breed more fear;
No matter how long the road is, it can be completed step by step; No matter how short the road is, you can't walk without taking your feet;
13. The problem is often the opportunity for growth;
14. Only with the purpose of change can there be opportunities for change;
15. Accept the limitations of life, but never give up hope;
16. Accept, unknown, appreciate and be curious;
17. People are not equal to the problem;
18. It is very important to ask the parties what they need and confirm their views.
19. Repetition effect is more consolidated;
20. Changes continue to occur;
2 1. Everyone has his reasons and difficulties;
22. Ask more questions: When will the problem not happen?
Think more: how can the problem not happen?
23: Don't spend your energy on analyzing problems, but focus on how to solve them;
24. Security and relaxation are prerequisites for openness;
25. Only when there is emotional connection will there be treasure;
26. The pursuit of perfection is a stumbling block on the road to growth;
27: Cracks are where light comes in;
28: Nothing will happen, nothing will happen;
29: Sincerity to the extreme, pure to transparency;
30: first complete, then perfect;
3 1: incompetence means overexertion, and disappointment means high expectations;
32: practice boxing without practicing, and it will be empty;
33: Make an exception,
Counselors observe themselves and visitors experience themselves.
34: Perfection is always on the road;
35. Walk too fast and too long, remember the way you came;
36. All effective communication is based on trust;
37. Everyone wants to be better, and everyone has done his best in his own time;
38. Acceptance and appreciation are the key;
39. Don't let others influence your heart;
Without enough water, you will never learn to swim.
4 1. Talk more and talk less.
42. You must have an important reason for doing this;
43. Behind every complaint is a positive expectation;
44. What can keep things from getting worse?
45. Children come to make us (parents);
46. A person may not walk fast, but he must walk far.
47. Every child wants his parents to be proud of themselves;
48. Consultation is a process of companionship+waiting;
49. Without art, there is still art; There is no way to operate, and the operation ends here;
50. The miracle question is the cloud in the sky, and the evaluation question is the ladder of progress;
5 1. The problem will not always happen, there will always be exceptions;
52. All the problems are related;
53. Relationships without borders are "disasters";
54. Always put the welfare of tourists first;
55. Most puzzles are caused by not doing enough;
56. Express anger instead of anger;
57. There is love in the heart, light in the eyes, temperature in the mouth, and a road under the child's feet;
58. Consultants themselves are the best tools to help others;
59. Man's greatest success is to surpass himself;
60. Write a letter to the difficulties. What would you write?
6 1. The faster you think, the slower you may be;
62. Cloud Hand Trilogy: Hold firmly, retreat with the trend, and push with the trend;
63. Learn to express yourself gently and firmly;
64. Human fireworks are the most pleasing;
65. Four principles of listening: no presupposition, no judgment, no guidance and no suggestion;
66. The solution lies in finding anomalies;
67. Do you really trust your children?
68. I know I don't know, I know you know, what I want to do is to let you know you know;
69. Learning more and more is a daily loss and a loss to the Tao, so that doing nothing and not doing it;
70. What's wrong with justifying a fault?
7 1. from beginning to end, goal-oriented;
72. It doesn't matter who you say, what matters is who you think you are talking about;
73. Cooperate with children to defeat the problem, and do not cooperate with the problem to defeat the child;
74. The premise of empowerment is that you must have the ability first.
75. Accepting incompetence is the beginning of ability;
76. Warm and good parent-child relationship is the most precious gift that parents give their children all their lives;
77. Paying attention to positive demand is closely related to obeying the rules;
78. How many people unconsciously become parents;
79. What experiences will help you achieve your goals?
80. Don't be more anxious, harder, smarter, smarter, faster and more "capable" than visitors.
8 1. Effective continuation, invalid change, yes, no repair, no break, no change;
82. Improper solution is the basis of the problem;
83. Emotions can't get out, and reason can't get in;
84. The so-called shortcut may be the farthest road;
85. What's the difference between you today and you a month ago?
86. The unlovable child needs to be loved more;
87. Everyone has his unique advantages;
88. The "problem" itself is not a problem, but we regard the problem as a problem.
89. Acceptance leads to communication, communication leads to cooperation, and cooperation leads to opportunities for change;
90. What do I want, what resources do I have, and what can I do?
9 1. The only constant is change;
92. Everything happens for a reason, which is the key to solving the problem;
93. Who do you want to say thank you to most?
94. On the road of learning, listening, speaking, reading and writing are indispensable;
95. The more children use it, the more useful it is;
96. Repetition is great, and the rest is king;
97. If possible, what would you like to be different?
98. Slow retrogression is also progress;
99. Three cars on the road of psychological counseling: ethics, self-cultivation and basic skills;
100. Only when there is emotional connection can there be treasure;
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102. Everything, nothing;
103. Try ...
104. Stability is the anchor of change, and stability leads to stability and wisdom;
105. Speak with your heart, not with your mouth;
106. What you have will be owned by it;
107. Don't forget, there will be repercussions;
108. The ability is practiced and the feeling is soaked;
109. Learn to express yourself gently and firmly;
1 10. What you care about will be strengthened; What you strengthen, you will get;
1 1 1. Knock before helping others;
1 12. Don't worry about others and stick to running your own business;
1 13. Slow stew with small fire, full of flavor;
1 14. Expand white, but do not eliminate black;
1 15. Hold for three seconds and let the truth fly for a while;
? 1 16. Labels are most afraid of water "bubble", and learning needs continuous immersion;
? 1 17. Dig a well;
? 1 18. The ultimate of education is the influence of behavior;
? 1 19. Understanding does not mean agreeing;
? 120. Kindness, sincerity, purity and awe;
? 12 1. Complete first, then perfect;
? 122. What difference do you want most after our talk?
? 123. Change the language and change the world;
? 124. Visitors rarely talk, so it is normal not to talk;
? 125.*** Emotions should vibrate to his "emotions" at the same frequency;
? 126. Learn to live with problems;
? 127. If you rate the status quo, with the highest score 10 and the lowest score 1, how many points would you give yourself?
? 128. The problem is the product of interaction, so is the solution;
? Who knows you best? How will he introduce you to me?
? 130. There is no lack of beauty in life. What is lacking is the eyes that find beauty.