Jiayi is a pen pal I have known for a long time. She is 26 years old and has a good standard at all levels. The ambiguous object who has been chatting with her very hot recently suddenly stopped looking for her, and she needs to confirm the relationship when she meets. What's going on here? Jiayi asked me what to do. In fact, many girls will encounter such a situation when they are ambiguous with him. At first, his good morning and good night _ one day when he is away, the ambiguous relationship between languages is like chocolate dissolved in your mouth, sweet but not greasy, soft, making you miss him all day. But why doesn't he have that kind of passion in the back? What you said may even make you a little disappointed. In fact, this is a game in which men and women use value. In the intimate relationship stage, a boy must be an attractive host. It is not easy for him to treat you like that. Simply put, his affair is one-to-many, and the time allocated to everyone is limited. After a period of time, your attraction to him will gradually fade away. At this time, he is likely to be attracted by other girls and indifferent to you. After a while, your attraction to him will make him.
Maybe you could say that he did this to me alone. All women who have an affair firmly believe this, because a boy is unlikely to tell the world that he is flirting with many girls at the same time. Naturally, there is another reason. Zhihu has a problem. Why do boys stop chasing girls? In other words, many boys stopped chasing after a few days. There are three reasons: boys are hot and cold, and they are probably attracted by others and don't want to leave you. In this case, you have no chance. If you can flirt, his desire to conquer you can only be stronger. You want to know how to make sure there are no other girls in his eyes. He just wants to touch you. Plus the teacher, I will immediately tell you what kind of girl he loves most on WeChat, and tell you how to easily become his goddess!
What should you pay attention to if you don't want him to be cold and hot to you during the affair? You can't elevate your opponent to the position of a cold male god. There is no cold male god. All his advantages shine in front of your eyes, and you take the initiative to add a halo to their relationship. And girls who call each other cold male gods are unlikely to get him. The name "cold male god" suddenly enlarges the distance between you. And when you call each other "cold male gods", both of you will have a kind of self-suggestion. You can feel that he is all right, so you can be given a sense of rhythm by him; For him, he will think that you are praising him, and being a lover with you is a loss. So you can't attract the cold male god because it's hard to attract the cold male god, but you opened the your relationship yourself. Relatively speaking, if the male god is depressed or attracted by other girls, he will naturally be lukewarm to you.
Men like girls who can release stress, so girls with high interest can usually eat all kinds of boys together and are emotionally superior. If you want him to love you more and more, plus the teacher, you can get 100 soul-hugging movements by replying to the keyword "provocative posture", which is not sexy but can also make him dream about you and turn you into a fresh meat harvester! Feelings are unique, and married life is unique, but flirting men can't be unique. As long as the relationship is determined, the relationship between you cannot be unique. This openness is for each other. For example, if you find that there are other ambiguous girls in the ambiguous object, you will ask, why did you treat me like that? How can this playboy flirt with others? Then he said, are you my girlfriend? I'm not having an affair. Why am I a playboy?
Then you kept telling yourself in your heart that he was a playboy and loved so many people at once, and I hated him from then on. Well, you can feel how miserable you are. Every time you are a fish in a fish pond. In fact, you have to bring yourself into the role of his girlfriend, which means you lose your temper and eat early. Junichi Watanabe, a Japanese writer, wrote in his book The Course of Desire that it is impossible for a person who only pursues two rabbits to have one rabbit. In this book, he encourages those who pursue perfect feelings not to be limited to chasing only one person. If they pursue two perfections at the same time, it is very likely that they will not get either. The reason lies in the shielding of information content. If you flirt with only one man, your flirting skills are unique to him, but if you are ambiguous with several men, you can have a clear relationship with all men at will. Maybe that subverts your traditional love concept, but I don't know that your's relationship is just a layer of looming goodwill at present. If you treat him wholeheartedly, in fact, you have high hopes in your heart and inadvertently have many rules for him.
Boys are not stupid either. In this case, you can't help but force him to use a single-minded, infatuated and intimate relationship, which will only make him feel bored gradually, while you are deeply passive. Finally, you can find that every boy you like, even if the relationship is clear, is very easy to break up. The interactive communication in the goodwill link should be: I have a good impression on you and others are chasing me. I only refuse what I don't like, and I won't resist because of you. In the love stage, your's communication can be regarded as: I love you, and I will clear all ambiguous relationships with other friends of the opposite sex and pursue perfection. So do boys. As long as you haven't established a relationship, he will have a selected indoor space, and so will you.
If you are troubled by a man, you are anxious every time you see him, don't know how to attract him, and don't want to give up like this. In addition, the teacher will teach you how to answer him word by word, help you turn defeat into victory, and become a woman he can't live without. Not long after I entered the field of emotional counseling, I also found that as long as girls have a good impression on boys, they will automatically enter the investment link. If you have a good impression on her, the man will say that she stayed up late and didn't come to breakfast today, and the girl will take the initiative to give him snacks. When in love, girls will help her boyfriend clean up and cook for him. That's no problem, but when you are good to him, what you need to pay attention to is whether he is good to me or not. What did he do for me? Whether it's an affair or a clear connection, these two issues are issues that girls should always think about.
In teasing each other, it is basically impossible to be nice to him and achieve the purpose of determining the relationship. Because you are pursuing perfection, your use value has long been reduced, and you don't need to determine the relationship, so you are good to him. Why should I be a couple with you? So if you invest in him, you should also guide him to invest in you correctly. For example, if you invite him to a movie, can you tell me which restaurant you like to eat in, and can you help him buy a cup of milk tea as a joke? Investment should also be an interactive exchange that often happens to you. Want to know if there are any small ways to get him into the road of investing in you? After adding my wechat, I replied to the keyword "correctly guide investment" and I also sent you 30 small favors that he could not refuse!
Many girls will complain to me about why he didn't take the initiative. He sent a message before waking up, and now he doesn't even take the initiative to say good night and sweet dreams. I think it is a difficult problem that a reflection does not form a connection, for the simple reason. He won't ask you out on his own initiative. Can't you take the initiative to find him? You also regard shyness as a kind of use value, and the girl who actively reduces the price must be the passive party in the relationship, because you want to give your feelings to a man, rather than actively stipulate him. This sense of teasing each other is terrible, and boys will be very tired if they are active for a long time. Almost all of these evil sisters who can be missed by men have the consciousness of taking the initiative to attack. Even Marilyn Monroe, who has never been short of men's favor, will make eyes at boys.
Positive is not to lower the price, but the super-killing trick of female screenwriters to capture boys. Think about it, which boy can resist a guy who will be angry and pretend to be cute, saying that he will smash your evil spirits without kissing before going to bed? Understand that taking the initiative, boys will miss you very much and can't wait to hug you immediately without information. In the game of use value, the big winner is always the positive side. As far as saying goodbye to being single is concerned, you can guarantee that there will be no boys you can't move. If so, add a WeChat friend and give it to me for analysis before starting.
Chatting with boys to discuss the topic of redemption, flirting if you like someone, this is also the mentality, how to flirt, this is also the method. Calling it flirting is no different from always asking how to flirt and play hooligans. Bringing a character into his girlfriend too early can only make your's relationship go further and further. Everyone will teach you to pull his heart according to the other person's situation, so that his heart will stick to you forever. Have a chat with your blind date in Takuwa? What is the topic of chatting with the boy you like? Look at the topic of chatting with the person you like.