1. On the road of children's growth, parents should accompany their children like Olympic coaches, especially paying attention to the cultivation of children's psychological resilience. "Self-confidence (believe in yourself, believe in your unconscious), calmness and concentration" are the key psychological qualities to achieve good results in the Olympic Games.
2, the psychological impact of the epidemic, inner anxiety and fear, people become alienated, children like to play games, mood swings, we need to give children more psychological nutrition and waiting time.
3. As an achievement of the East Olympic women's volleyball team, coach Lang Ping also admitted that he did not do a good job in psychological work in closed training. The level of the top eight is similar. The key to winning or losing is "how to make your program skills work under pressure (calm down, don't stay in the emotional whirlpool)?" Behind excellent people are good habits-they can automatically develop their subconscious programming skills (steps 1, 2, 3 ...) anytime, anywhere.
Behind the cultivation of excellent children is the cultivation process and the utilization process, otherwise knowledge is just knowledge. For example, children are unwilling to communicate with us, that is, they lack communication skills, that is, they don't understand the process of communication (affirming children-good mood-good relationship-willingness to communicate).
5. Excellent children are the logic behind bragging? Praise means "well done" and will continue to repeat this well done action in the future. Praise is to strengthen a set of behaviors, emotions, cognition, etc. Behind this thing, the process can be solidified and become a subconscious procedure-quality.
6. In the current environment, positive psychological education is very important. In the face of tangled things, it is easy to become relaxed and happy by quickly starting a positive emotional process.
7. Behind the incompetence is the lack of knowledge reserves, and at the same time, the learned knowledge has not been turned into a process.
8. How to achieve a leap in mathematics learning? Find a mathematical model, form a knowledge network, and keep practicing deliberately.
9. Teachers' core skills need to be transformed from "teaching" to "learning", and primary school students' core skills need to be "focused" (specially trained to reduce interference).
10, when knowledge is internalized, intuition becomes credible. Learning helps to build a knowledge pyramid, think about forming a knowledge network, discover laws slowly, integrate knowledge and make it better.
1 1, behind the poor grades is the high expectation. I don't want the result, I just want the process. The influencing factors of athletes' winning are psychology, luck (uncontrollable factors) and strength.
12, the cancellation of school training requires our family to master autonomous learning and training.
13, let children become awesome, learning is a cognitive marathon, everyone can master it, and turn disadvantages into advantages. It is most important to find good educational resources and parental guidance in this process.
14. When children don't have the ability to correct their mistakes, criticism and repression can't teach them humility, but make them feel insecure. In the long run, they will become learned helplessness, and "failure" will become their subconscious process. Therefore, the normal method should be to help establish a set of correction and improvement processes when children are not doing well. For example, guide children to accept bad results first-accept bad normal emotions-see and affirm what TA has done well-guide children to find what it has done badly-analyze possible reasons-guide children to find what needs to be improved-list what needs to be improved-do it again and achieve results-affirm, praise and authorize.
15, children also have a process at school, but many times the details are missing and there is a lack of persistence.
Second, Lianmai answers questions
1, the son of senior two, has contact with his classmates who came back from Zhangjiajie, and his classmates are isolated. He is afraid of crying, and his mother doesn't know how to deal with it.
1) It is normal to cry. I believe in national epidemic prevention measures and obey national arrangements;
2) Tell your child, "No matter what happens, mom will stay with you and support you;
3) communicate with isolated classmates, care about them and give them gifts such as "the way to learn";
4) If you are isolated, trust the professional diagnosis of the health department, face it calmly and enjoy the isolation.
2. Next semester, the daughter of senior one feels very contradictory when she comes to math and physics, and her grades can't go up. Do you want Miss Li to support her?
1) adopts positive emotion intervention SPER technology, mentions mathematics, rewrites the original negative emotions, changes the positive emotions (neither mathematics nor physics), and produces positive behaviors, thus generating new positive emotions and positive behaviors, which is such a virtuous circle;
2) Senior high school mathematics and physics need to be understood. General strategies: preview questions, listen to doubtful questions in class, and review deliberate exercises;
3) When encountering weak subjects and weak units, find the knowledge points of the exam through unit analysis and real test, eliminate the sticking points, and don't confuse the knowledge points before and after;
4) Problem-solving process: examining questions and key information-finding out the knowledge points in the exam-recalling the steps of relevant knowledge-answering questions;
5) Comprehensive learning process: Structuring the learned knowledge-forming a knowledge network (mind map)-deliberately practicing (targeted brushing questions)-cultivating the ability to solve problems;
6) Take children to good universities, find some excellent and important people for them, and help them build better learning goals and confidence;
7) Parents' companionship also needs to understand the process. In the face of children's different situations, we should have corresponding coping processes, and we should not be led by children's problems. Behind anxiety are worries about the future and insufficient internal reserves, so parents also need to keep learning.
Third, perception and practice
1, Lianmai had a mother this morning who said, "If you don't study, you won't understand many problems in educating your children." Another mother said, "When you were young, you were too demanding of your children. When you grow up, your child is not confident, and you are afraid of everything. " Behind these words is telling our parents that only by following the pace of children's growth and being a hard-working parent can you really help children grow up, otherwise it will be resistance and harm.
2. This morning, a mother in Zhengzhou said, "I spent almost 80,000 yuan to make up lessons for my daughter in the third grade, but it didn't work. After listening to Baojun's class for more than 20 days, I have a good relationship with my daughter and understand the reasons behind the children spending so much money on makeup classes. Some parents don't know how to get along well with their children, and some teachers don't teach at all. " Therefore, parents can teach, teachers can teach and children can learn, so that we can be truly excellent.
Today, I saw the teacher send a video of a baby riding a Trojan horse in kindergarten.