As we all know, high EQ means being able to talk, and the practice of high EQ can help you tide over the difficulties in the frozen period, so a person who can talk can get the favor of others. Let's share the high emotional intelligence vocabulary used every day.
Daily use of high emotional intelligence speech 1 1, put "I can't drink"
Change it to "I'm good at pouring wine"
Step 2 play "hahaha"
Change it to "You are so funny"
3. Play "You are great"
Change it to "Master is by my side"
4. Write "I don't know"
Change it to "Maybe I can get to know it"
5. Say "Do you understand?"
Change it to "Did I make myself clear?"
Step 6 put "whatever"
Change it to "whatever you say"
Step 7 Buy "buy buy"
Change it to "consider starting"
8. Put "lying trough"
Change it to "A thousand words in my heart"
9. Play "Mm-hmm"
Change it to "no problem"
10, play "I'm so bored"
Change it to "I need to calm down"
1 1, how should I know?
Change it to "I don't understand this either"
12, put "no time"
Change it to "something urgent"
13, put "never seen"
I haven't seen it, but it sounds great.
14, put "Thank you for waiting"
Change it to "Thank you for your patience"
15, put "it doesn't matter"
Change it to "My 0K"
16, put "I won't"
Change it to "Maybe I can learn"
17, play "You are so stupid"
Change it to "That's very thoughtful of you"
18, put "you are too bad"
Change it to "You actually have a lot of room for improvement."
Daily use of high emotional intelligence speech 2 positive energy
An upright man is open and poised, people with high EQ always face life positively and optimistically. When they speak, they can always find pleasant topics, and they can easily master the rhythm of chatting to drive emotions.
There are always some unpleasant things in life, but you rarely hear people with high emotional intelligence complain. It's not that they haven't experienced this, but that people with high emotional intelligence know how to control their emotions and what to say and what not to say.
Imagine if someone complains to you every day that the work here is not smooth and there are emotional problems there. Will you still have a good impression on this person?
respect
Respect each other's feelings before speaking, which is the cultivation of a gentleman; Not to mention violating each other's boundaries, this is an adult's emotional intelligence.
People with high emotional intelligence will put themselves in other people's shoes before speaking, and will not explore other people's secrets. There are always some good people in life who especially like to inquire about other people's privacy and family background. Such people are very annoying.
To be a person with high EQ, you should use words appropriately, control your curiosity and don't gossip. Don't hurt others unintentionally because of the fastest time.
Gentleman's friendship
A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and people with high emotional intelligence will not talk to others easily, let alone make superficial remarks. They know how to get along with friends and what to say in any occasion.
People with high emotional intelligence will not ask about other people's privacy until they become intimate. Even close friends should know that many secrets should not be asked by you, but waited for.
Others don't talk, and we don't ask. Sometimes being a listener is more enjoyable than talking endlessly. People with high emotional intelligence understand this truth, so they are always comfortable to speak.
To be a person with high emotional intelligence, grasp the occasion and opportunity of speaking in interpersonal communication, understand the essence of speaking and understand the way of speaking. I believe you will stand out soon!
Learn to speak well.
The harm of words is hidden harm, which has its own slow-release effect. If no one wakes up, I won't know until I die.
The reason is simple-you can't talk, others can! Laugh it off with a bigger heart, but knowing that you are unreliable and can't count on important things in the future will alienate you. No matter how small my heart is, I don't care about you. I just politely find another reason to refuse you.
Waiting people will even give you little shoes while pretending to be generous. Well, what if the other person is also a person who can't talk? Then pinch it up, but it can't help you, because at this time you will feel that it is someone else, not something, and it is difficult to reflect on yourself.
It is a secret that we live in a modern world constructed by words, and few people know it.
Over the years, we have only learned to squeeze our frustrations, our powerlessness, our self-distrust, our small transparency and our ignorance of everyone into a wry smile-"Oh, I just can't talk very well."
Daily use of high emotional intelligence vocabulary 3 classic humor eloquence to pick up girls
1, chat
If I make such an opening remark, I may end up being beaten to death by a beautiful woman like you. In fact, the opening remarks of every beautiful woman and I are asking the same question: "Beauty, what industry are you currently engaged in?"
This sentence is very corny, but very useful. Do you want to know why? Because the purpose of our coming to this marketing meeting is to learn how to make money and ask her how to make money, of course she won't refuse me. After a few words, I said I would learn from you, and then I exchanged business cards with each other, as simple as that. Two of the beautiful women chatted with me very speculatively.
Brother, do you understand the principle when you see this? What, don't you get it? Then I'll tell you directly, the trick is:
The language and body movements when chatting up must match the environment at that time.
Step 2 strike up a conversation
Many classic accolades in dating science are the products of certain circumstances, such as nightclubs. If you use them in your life, you are sure to fail. Some conventions, you bring into life to strike up a conversation, and you may even be called crazy by others.
The principle of dating science is to show high-value charm in front of strange MM for a short time, thus attracting MM instantly. If you are not Gao Fushuai, I suggest you use it less.
Why are some brothers not even good at chatting up after learning a lot of dating science skills? Because he only knows how to apply convention, regardless of whether this technology is in line with the reality of life.
For example, as we all know, we are now living in an era full of fear of strangers. The most important thing for a beautiful woman to go out is "anti-theft, robbery, cheating and perverting". At this time, if you pretend to be a cool guy and approach MM in an exaggerated or funny way, do you think she will stay away from the bad guys with suspicion?
So the first point of chatting up is to make your behavior conform to the living habits of normal people, that is, your language and behavior should match the environment.
Maybe my brother thinks this sentence is a bit difficult to understand? Let me give you an example.
3. Language and behavior should match the environment.
For example, if you go by bus and see a beautiful MM, how should you go forward and strike up a conversation? It's simple. Ask the way: "Beauty, which bus should I take to the building?" "I just arrived in this city and I'm not familiar with it. How can I get to the station? "
For example, if you go to other places by car and there is a beautiful woman sitting next to you, how can you strike up a conversation? "Beauty, are you going to work in a city or to travel?" "Beauty, this is my first time to go to a city. Do you know any interesting places? "
For example, you often meet a beautiful woman in the office building and take the elevator with you. How do you start a conversation? "Good morning, beauty, you are so punctual every day!" "Beauty, you are so dedicated!" If you smile, will people refuse you? Will a beautiful woman give you a smile back? After two or three interactions like this, is it easy for you to ask her for a business card?
Step 4 interact
For example, how to strike up a conversation when you meet a beautiful woman while shopping in a shopping mall? "Beauty, my mother asked me to buy her a bottle of peanut oil, but I don't know which one is better. Can you refer to it for me? " Do you think a beautiful woman would have the heart to refuse a filial son's request?
Some brothers have been addicted to dating science, but they can't talk normally. Do you find it ridiculous? Some chronology theories are seriously divorced from the reality of life. They always want to attract the attention of beautiful women at the first time, and people are avoiding you. What's the use of your skills such as cold reading, joking and suppressing?
Therefore, the key to strike up a conversation is: the first sentence or body movements must make beautiful women interact with you. Only when she talks to you will you have all the opportunities in the future. To do this, the first is in line with human nature, and the second is in line with living habits.
What does it mean to conform to human nature? For example, if you want to find a beautiful woman to dance in a ballroom, how do ordinary people say, "Beauty, can I buy you a drink?" "Beauty, may I ask you to dance?" Such words convey an obvious attempt: you want to hit on her! If you are Gao Fushuai, it doesn't matter, otherwise you may be killed.
So what should we do? You can sit down opposite the beauty: "Beauty, can you dance so-and-so?" I can never master some of them. Can you tell me how to practice them well? " When a beautiful woman tells you the way, then you can go on to say, "I'm stupid, can I demonstrate myself later?" When you hold a beautiful woman's hand and hug her waist, do you think there is a chance to hit on her?
Why is it so difficult to refuse such a beautiful woman to strike up a conversation? Because being a good teacher is human nature, it has nothing to do with whether you are handsome or not. As long as you understand human nature, it will be very easy to strike up a conversation in life.
What do you mean by conforming to living habits? The examples I cited earlier are all like this, that is, what scene you and MM are in now, so be sure to say something relevant.
Take another extreme example: for example, how to strike up a conversation when you meet a beautiful MM in the hospital? "Beauty, how do you also catch a cold? The recent flu is really harmful. " People who go to the hospital must be seeing a doctor, and the success rate will be high only if the topic and scene of the conversation are related to seeing a doctor.
Why are some brothers more confused when they learn dating science? Because you always mechanically copy some established words, you are either considered as a bad person by beautiful women or you are insane. How can we succeed?
I'm not a good conversationalist. I don't know how to strike up a conversation like my brother. There once lived a beautiful woman in the house opposite my dormitory. I watch her go in and out every day, but I just don't have the courage to talk to her, because she is so beautiful, but I am so ordinary.
I have the deepest experience about chatting up: as long as your attempt attracts the attention of a beautiful woman and makes her feel good, most of the chatting up process will fail. Because you care too much about your image and the reaction of beautiful women, you will have extreme anxiety and fear, which will make your speech and body movements abnormal, thus making beautiful women have strong resistance. Therefore, the more you deliberately show high skills, the easier it is to fail.