Since the year of Gengzi, the whole country has been locked up by an "COVID-19" epidemic that frightened/kloc-0.4 billion China people, and everyone volunteered to join this "war epidemic". Medical workers, people's soldiers, enthusiastic volunteers-a flood of support flocked to Hubei and devoted themselves to the front line of war and epidemic. As eat drink man woman and the general public, the only thing we can do is to respond to the call to "stay at home", not to add chaos to society, and to protect ourselves and our families from infection.
This is an epidemic that swept across the vast land of China and even many countries in the world. Everyone's nerves are more and more tense than ever before. For a time, all kinds of voices and speculations were complicated: all kinds of experts and all kinds of revelations filled our senses. We are inundated with all kinds of epidemic information every day. This is the best time: we have all kinds of information channels, official, unofficial, avenue, alley, mainstream media, self-media, news release and anecdotal communication-this is also the worst time. We can't clearly distinguish and judge the authority and authenticity of information, which makes us anxious.
The epidemic has been pushed to dominoes: alcohol and disinfectant are out of stock, materials are in short supply, many companies have difficulties in operating, many people have their salaries reduced, and many companies have laid off employees-all these things seem far away from us, but they are closely related to us. Perhaps at this moment, you are being anxious and tired by all kinds of news about the epidemic every day, and suddenly you get the news that your salary has been reduced or dismissed, and your life is getting more and more bleak with the extension of the epidemic.
In the spring of 2020, fate gripped our throats, and long-term closure and various "heavy punches" pounded our hearts. Many people were torn apart by the epidemic. It is predicted that psychological counseling will be popular after the epidemic, and a large number of survivors need psychological treatment or counseling.
Think back to a video in which the protagonist is a little boy who was fired by his boss. He was not born depressed. He chose to walk out of the manager's office with a smile and bid farewell to all his colleagues warmly. He walked out of the office building with all his belongings in his arms, but the big cardboard box was knocked over by a bold guy who came face to face. The rude guy didn't seem to feel that he had knocked down anyone, so he kept calling him. Instead of arguing with him angrily, the boy smiled smartly. When he walked to the parking lot, he found that his car had been towed away by the police. He didn't complain and chase, but also faced it with a smile. Arriving at the door, he took out his key to open the door, but he fell into the sewer at the moment when the key was not inserted into the keyhole. The unlucky boy still faces with a warm smile. After watching this movie, I can't help but see the deep meaning behind the author's humor: even if you encounter great difficulties, you should face them calmly, whether you are happy or sad.
When fate grips your throat, please face it frankly, because even if you are flustered, even if you are distracted. Even if you fight for the land, all this will not help, and it will only make your already discouraged mood even lower. Only by facing the difficulties calmly can we grasp the "opponent's mistake", make a comeback and regain a new life. When encountering difficulties, you should be brave. Of course, things often develop to the good side because of your strong will and positive attitude, and will not find you in the end.
Be strong and firm, and rebuild your confidence.
Speaking of which, some people may think of Ah Q, yes, people need spiritual victory, at least not to make themselves depressed. Ah Q has a shining side, but unfortunately he lacks courage, and more often he is running away. Courage is Li Yunlong's firm but gentle spirit: If you meet in a narrow way, you should be brave and show your sword even if the other side is the first swordsman. This is the sword spirit. Here I think of an example around me. He is my former boss Wang Jiangmin, the chairman of Jiang Min Science and Technology, and the father of antivirus software.
When Wang Jiangmin is mentioned, people will naturally think of words such as entrepreneurial legend, software hero and Zhongguancun myth. However, from the confrontation with him, I saw the optimism and strong character behind his success. When Wang Jiangmin was three years old, his right leg was crippled by polio. For ordinary people, this may be the best "excuse" to be destroyed. "Fate is not to pity people's misfortunes, but to struggle and struggle for those who are struggling in pain. I have been teaching myself for so many years, and now it is no exception. " The courage to shine a sword made Wang Jiangmin personally seize the fate by the throat. Graduated from junior high school, with more than 20 inventions including national scientific research achievements; At the age of 38, he began to learn computers, and now he has become the Taishan Beidou in the domestic anti-virus field; At the age of 45, he broke into Zhongguancun alone and became the first person in China to kill virus.
China people under the heavy pressure of the epidemic need Ah Q's spiritual victory method at this moment, which can help people forget their fears temporarily, and also support people to dare to show their swords and challenge, so as to hold the fate by the throat. Bright swords come not only from the method of spiritual victory, but also from the courage to go forward, and more importantly, from their own transformation-"it is necessary to be hard while the iron is hot." You who are slaughtered by fate need to be "hardcore"!
In times of disaster, apart from being psychologically firm and strong, it is more important to truly "hardcore" yourself. Some people panic and lock themselves up, worrying all day long, and the days pass by in fear; Some people soak themselves in alcohol or games, leading a drunken life, and the days are wasted in the shaking of the glass and the movement of the cursor; Some people put themselves in books, charging actively, and the days become heavy in the fragrance sublimation of the pages. Opportunity is called opportunity because you just need me and I have the ability to meet it. During the epidemic season, plan the future road, fill in the shortcomings of knowledge, improve your skills and make yourself a hard core. The epidemic may have passed suddenly. Can we immediately respond to the changes in the post-epidemic era?
Toughness may have different definitions for many people, which is caused by the environment. However, all strong people have a * * * nature, that is, to overcome difficulties, to overcome fears and to overcome inner hesitation. There may be too many difficulties, too many reasons to escape, too many excuses to hesitate, but we must be strong.
Think about those lofty aspirations that have touched us countless times, and think about the ardent expectations of many relatives and friends-we have no reason not to be strong, and there is no reason to let ourselves be decadent and indulgent. The epidemic will eventually pass, maybe it's just a flick of a finger in a long life, and life goes on. At this moment, when we lose our strength, we are likely to suppress our "internal injuries". It is very likely that the sunshine after the storm will never shine into our hearts, and we will become the weak and self-destructive people in life.
From individuals to nation-States, we all need to be strong and have the courage to show our swords. What would it be like to lose them? Like China during the Opium War?
Since being strong is * * *, it also needs people's admiration and care. For a natural person, you need the strength of self, and for a social person, you need the strength of group and team. When you see your friend and companion in trouble, please pat him on the shoulder, buddy, be strong. Being strong makes our life radiant.
Plague is not terrible, unemployment is not terrible, poverty and hardship are not terrible. As long as we have a calm attitude, the courage to show our swords, the constantly improving skills and enterprising determination, a strong and tenacious mind and a sense of mutual encouragement and care, we will eventually win.
Sunshine is always after the storm, please believe there is a rainbow!