Looking for a better parenting sister-in-law:
Make clear the purpose of finding a parenting sister-in-law first. Almost all families want to find a comprehensive, capable, loyal and reliable parenting sister-in-law, but the reality is that few people can find better skills and experience in some aspects and it is impossible to pursue all-round generalists. Therefore, before looking for a parenting sister-in-law, you must think calmly. What is the most important purpose of asking a parenting sister-in-law?
Second, before looking for a parenting sister-in-law to determine the scope of work, it is best to make a job description for the future parenting sister-in-law-the scope of work, what standards need to be met, and then conduct an interview.
Third, learn about parenting during the interview. Understand the situation of the parenting sister-in-law through the interview questions and judge whether the parenting sister-in-law is the person you are looking for. For example, does aunt have a criminal record, is she an old lai and so on. You can check the background information of Aunt Yu's credit information in my wife's file.
Fourth, common interview questions.
1. Aunt's age? How many children are there at home? How old are they? Family status, demand for income. If income is more important to her, the elder sister-in-law will cherish the job opportunities; If her child is too young or about to become a grandmother, it may be "unstable".
2. My aunt has been a child-rearing elder sister-in-law for several years. How many children did she bring? How stable is the experienced parenting sister-in-law in the end? There are not many children to take care of. If there are many children and each child is not long, then the stability of parenting is not high.
3. Have you ever taken a nap? How many milk meals does the child eat at night? How to bathe a child?
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Sister-in-law is an outsider in our life. But when they came into our life, in a sense, she had become a member of this family. Therefore, it is necessary for both sides to maintain a good attitude and live in harmony.
I hope it helps you!