Mandy said:
My name is Xiao Min. I left my hometown some time ago, dragging heavy luggage. To be precise, I left my brother's home, because that home now belongs only to my brother's sister-in-law. My father gambled since childhood and often beat me and my brother when he lost money. My mother couldn't stand it several times. Once, my mother advised my father, and he accidentally hurt her. Since then, the mother gave up her father and filed for divorce.
After the divorce, my mother chose to run away from home. At that time, we followed our father. Since then, my father seems to be a different person. He gave up gambling and got rid of the habit of hitting us. Maybe his conscience found it! Because there is only my brother and me at home, and there is no mother, my mother actually feels very sorry for me and my brother, and often sends us money behind my father's back. Every New Year, my brother and I go to my grandmother's house just to meet my mother. We persuade her to go home, but my mother is heartbroken.
My brother doesn't understand my mother. Why does my father get better, but my mother doesn't want to go back? I didn't understand the true meaning of giving up until my brother and sister-in-law broke my heart when I grew up. My mother remarried later, as if life was normal and not very happy, but my mother said she was satisfied. Maybe it was her idea! As long as she feels happy, we can only let her be a child alone. My brother and I grew up under the care of my mother, and my father basically didn't support us.
When my brother got married, my father found him a wife. At that time, I was twenty years old and worked near my home. I didn't want to go out to work, so I found a job at home. Besides my own expenses, I could save 2,000 yuan every month. When my brother got married, my mother paid the bride price herself. My father only knows how to find a wife for my brother, but I have no money to marry him.
After my brother got married, my mother told me that it was not easy for her to do it. After all, she remarried. When I get married, the dowry may not be much. I understand my mother. I said I would prepare for myself. Don't worry about her. After my brother got married for several years, I found that they often quarreled. When my brother quarreled, it was as if nothing had happened. The more my sister-in-law quarrels, the more she hides out. Once my father got angry for the first time,
I woke up one morning, everything was fine, and I heard my brother and sister-in-law quarreling again. I can't take it anymore. I only heard my sister-in-law tell my brother that if you ask your mother for money, she will not let you go. I felt uncomfortable when I heard it. I told him directly, "Sister-in-law, my mother really doesn't have the money to buy a house for you." My brother told me to stay out of this. I pushed my brother's hand away to say something to my sister-in-law, and I heard her say. Hearing this sentence, I realized that my sister-in-law had made up her mind to everyone in the family.
I really can't stand my brother's refusal and my sister-in-law's rudeness. I don't want to pay attention to my sister-in-law I went into the room, packed my bags and left the house where we quarreled every day. I don't want to live with such a family
Conclusion: No one can bear the problem of Xiao Min. It's not that she doesn't want to reason with her sister-in-law, but that she sees through people's hearts in the face of her sister-in-law's unreasonable troubles and her brother's non-refutation. In fact, in this family, we can see that many parents have influenced many children, but Xiao Min has always been adhering to the good side, making clear the choices of his family, but his family doesn't understand, so needless to say too much.