Once Xiaodong (pseudonym) was very upset, worried about some trivial things in her life, and there was no one around to tell her troubles, so she posted on the Internet for help.
Xiao Dong said that her family was divided into two sets of demolition houses, and her parents did not give them to her. Her brother's name is written in both suites. She asked her parents for a theory, and the answer made her even more angry. Xiao Dong: "They said I would get married sooner or later, and then I wouldn't be a family with them."
At the time of demolition, Xiaodong was still in college, and she was not very clear about the specific compensation terms. Afterwards, Xiao Dong also asked his parents about the situation, but his parents kept it a secret and refused to tell her. Later, I was told that I had two suites, one for my brother and one for them. As for her 35㎡, I'll give her a discount after she buys a house. Xiao Dong said that she also agreed at that time.
You can wait until Xiaodong University graduates to work and plan to save money to buy a house. According to the house price at that time, it was 4,000 yuan/㎡, so she asked her parents for her 1.4 million. However, I never expected that this request was rejected by my parents because the man had a house after marriage and Xiaodong was unable to repay the mortgage.
Xiaodong doesn't want to put forward100000 or more. Then consider that she borrowed money from her parents and paid it back every month at the bank's interest. But my parents still disagree. No matter what Xiaodong said, his parents' attitude has always been tough. After the two sides expressed their anxiety, Xiaodong's parents even said: This money will not be given to Xiaodong, nor will it be borrowed. After she got married, she was not a family with them.
This remark completely broke Xiaodong's heart. Her parents vilified her in front of relatives and friends, saying that they would fight for property if they didn't give money, and immediately broke off relations. Parents' nonsense made all relatives and friends believe it, and everyone called Xiaodong to accuse him. Xiao Dong hopes to safeguard his legitimate rights and interests through legal channels.
This matter has also caused a heated discussion among netizens. Many netizens think that parents have gone too far. Since parents are heartless, there is no need for children to do their duty of support. As long as an agreement is written, parents will have no responsibility and obligation to support them when they are old.
As parents, they should treat their children equally. Maybe they can't give their children exactly the same love, but they should give them as much material as possible. They can't attend to one thing and lose sight of another. They are also their own flesh and blood. Don't turn your children into your enemies because of selfishness.