This kind of thing, if you were your wife, would you like to tell me everything about your miscarriage before marriage? Originally it was just a painful memory of one person. Once you say it, it becomes the pain of two people, right?
When you put yourself in the other person's shoes like this, will you feel that she is doing you good? Do you think she is a Buddhist woman who bears all the pain alone, much like the compassion of Buddhism that "I will go to hell if I don't go to hell"? Is such a woman more worthy of your love?
Even if we are not completely transposed, but only halfway through, you will still come to a similar conclusion. How to "change to half"?
Let's make a hypothesis. Suppose you once won a girl because of carelessness. Coincidentally, the girl won the lottery, got pregnant, and finally ran away because she had no conditions to have children. Will you take the initiative to tell your wife about it before marriage?
If you tell her, she will definitely consider it. She will think over your position that you won another girl. When you know that girl is pregnant, she will imagine that you are on pins and needles. She will imagine how embarrassed and helpless you are when you accompany that girl to have an abortion ... are you willing to make your wife so miserable?
Are you sure you don't want to? So you will hide it.
Therefore, abortion is nothing. I just hide you because I love you and don't want you to suffer. As a man, you should feel happy. It is not easy to marry such a good wife. Of course, what you should do now is not to ask questions, but to be doubly kind to her. Tell her that you have understood her good intentions and thank her for loving you so much. ...