First, Xueyan is an untimely free love. When Daiyu went to Jiafu, only her own wet nurse, Mammy Wang, and her little daughter Xueyan grew up with her and stayed with her all the time. At that time, girls' names were generally taken by their owners, which also expressed their love. Snow geese are Dai Yu's favorite birds, but they are out of date.
Xueyan expressed Daiyu's love view of pursuing "free love". Snow geese are wild geese in winter, but they fly south for winter every autumn, while Daiyu's snow geese don't fly south in winter, but fly north, which implies Daiyu's desire to break the conventional bondage and pursue "free love". Daiyu, Baoyu, Tanchun and others are rebels in the Grand View Garden. They have advanced ideas and the courage to break the rules.
In feudal society, there was no love, and marriage had to follow "the orders of parents and the words of matchmakers". A couple didn't meet until they knew the wedding ceremony. If they want to get married first, they have to abide by various rules, so it is extremely impossible to have love in such an environment. But Daiyu didn't want to face such a situation in the future. She wants to pursue her love and find a lover who knows her. When Daiyu met Baoyu, Daiyu bravely fell in love with him. This is love. She is not afraid of worldly fetters, but simply does herself well and loves life with her heart.
Secondly, what Daiyu wants is single-minded and faithful love, and Baoyu's "foolish goose" has also been transformed into the meaning of the ancients. The combination of male and female geese symbolizes the love of loyalty and growing old together, which is also the single-minded love that Daiyu wants. In the ancient society where men were superior to women, "three wives and four concubines" were often the norm, but Daiyu understood that she didn't like such love. What Daiyu wants is the love of geese in pairs for life.
Daiyu likes Baoyu's simplicity and enthusiasm. She loves him only because he is him. If you don't like him, that man, even the King of Beijing or the Emperor, can't make Daiyu look askance. Daiyu likes Baoyu just because he is Baoyu, the boy who is not sensible but makes people feel warm, the one who can always feel her sadness and the one who is willing to let her die. Only in the early days, Baoyu was a "wild goose" and didn't understand Daiyu's mind. He didn't know that Daiyu should be as single-minded and determined as a "wild goose".
When Dai Yu is not sure what Baoyu thinks, she is always worried about the existence of Baochai and Xiangyun, who may be witnesses of the "golden wedding". Xiangyun and Baoyu have brotherly friendship and unparalleled tacit understanding, and Xiangyun also has the token of "Golden Kirin". Baochai also has a "golden collar" as a token, and her own Excellence is enough threat to Daiyu. In addition, the "red musk beads" given to Baoyu and Daiyu during the Dragon Boat Festival in Yuanchun also made Daiyu's heart stronger and stronger.
But Baoyu still doesn't understand. Daiyu understood that Baoyu "has a younger sister in his heart, and when he saw it, he forgot it."
Baoyu's spirit frightened Daiyu, who said Baoyu was a "foolish goose" and didn't wronged him. He doesn't know the specificity of love, and he doesn't understand Daiyu's fear. Daiyu made fun of Baoyu's forgetfulness, in fact, she wanted to express Baoyu's ignorance.
The love development of Daiyu and Baoyu has a growing process. Baoyu learned that love should be single-minded through the girl Lingguan around him. He began to change his attitude towards love, no longer demanding everyone's love, but seriously thinking about people who want to spend their lives together. Daiyu and Baochai are both excellent girls, but Baoyu and Baochai have different outlook on life. Baoyu knew that Daiyu was his confidant and lover, and she also understood that he was all-inclusive, so he finally determined that the love in his heart was Daiyu.
Third, the habit of flying south was not changed by the geese, which is also the reason why Daiyu insisted on love and brave love happened. Perhaps a love can be decided by looking back, but to make a relationship last for a long time, the most fundamental thing is "mutual trust." This can't be done between Wang Xifeng and Jia Lian, nor can it be done between Mrs. Xing and Jia She, because the simple word "letter" really stumbles many marriages.
But Daiyu's love for Baoyu gave her all the trust. When I was young, I would quarrel because I didn't understand each other's thoughts, but when I grow up, I will gradually understand. If you love someone, let him know that you are his only firm choice. Daiyu never despises other men. She values Baoyu and will convey her heart well. Only Baoyu can get the sachet embroidered by Daiyu.
Daiyu knows Baoyu's mind well and believes Baoyu's promise of "rest assured". At this time, Daiyu was very determined about this love, even though she didn't know how far love could go, so she didn't feel uneasy about the excellent "Baoqin". Even when Baoyu and Baoqin were put together, she didn't mind. Daiyu completely trusted Baoyu at this time. Their love has also moved from noisy to relatively stable, with a quiet and peaceful time.
"Ask what love is in the world, and teach people to be committed to life and death. Flying in all directions, the old wings are hot and cold. " Love is not everything to a person, but without love, life will lose a lot of luster. It is easy to fall in love, and the difficulties to be overcome along the way are brave enough. The wine feeding between Daiyu and Baoyu in the Lantern Festival and the fearlessness of the Grand View Garden are all the persistence and courage of Daiyu's love.
Fourth, Daiyu said "wild goose" is for Baoyu's sake, which is a hint of Daiyu's anxiety about love and fate. Everyone celebrated Baoyu's birthday, but Baoyu lost to Xiangyun. Xiangyun asked a complicated reason, but she couldn't say it at the moment. Daiyu let him drink, and she said it for him.
Daiyu's preference for "wild goose" is vividly shown in this wine order, because wild goose is a portrayal of Daiyu's life fate and her perfect expectation for love.
The sunset is lonely in Qi Fei, and the wind rushes across the river to mourn the goose, but it is a goose with a broken foot, which makes people sad. -This is the guest of Hongyan.
Poets often express their feelings when writing poems, and so do Daiyu's poems. The so-called "wild goose" in "Sunset and Lonely Qi Fei, Wind Passing Jiang Lai" is exactly what Lin Daiyu claimed. Daiyu's geese are all lonely, just like lonely geese and sad geese. Whether it is the sunset all over the sky or flying over the stormy river, it is a person's encouragement. Love and life are things that she has to face alone.
Originally, I felt lonely goose was very sad, but she was still a "goose with a broken foot". Although it only borrows the "domino name", it also implies that Daiyu has no father or mother, and her love is a hint that no one can claim. It is called "Nine Ileum", which is the name of Qupai, but it also describes the troubles of running back and forth. Wild goose described her inner anxiety like this. Daiyu is very sensible about the world, but she is helpless about love. She and Baoyu are in love, but she stepped in and changed the arrangement of Baoyu's marriage in Jiafu, and she can't decide for herself. They break away from convention and fall in love freely, but there are still many obstacles to being together.
The last sentence "Hongyan Guest" means that the world is a place to stay, and everyone is a passer-by, which means "stopping" and "staying temporarily". Therefore, Daiyu is like a "guest of the swan goose" in autumn. She came to Jiafu as a "guest stop" and finally left like yan hou ... Jiafu is just Daiyu's temporary residence. Whether it's a joke that Zijuan went back or a tearful sky, Daiyu can't stay on earth after all. Although the Jia family is good, it is not a long-term family.
The geese are not all sad. At least there is a trace of warmth in Li Qingzhao's "The geese return, and the west wing will be full of tomorrow". The love between Daiyu and Baoyu is also hopeless, and there is a trace of hope and comfort.
Fifth, the love that Daiyu wants is to be together, and marriage is indispensable. As for why Daiyu is so partial to geese, one is that geese are sentimental birds, and the other is that the gifts that will not be lacking at the wedding are together, suggesting that Daiyu wants love. The years in the Grand View Garden suddenly made everyone grow up, and two people who love each other can be together, which became the hope of this teenager.
Because Baochai's marriage was pending, Zijuan was always worried, so she made Baoyu seriously ill with a joke that "Daiyu is going back to Suzhou", which also made everyone understand the feelings between Baoyu and Daiyu. If Daiyu leaves, Baoyu can't stay; If Baoyu is gone, Daiyu can't live any longer. They didn't say love to everyone, but they proved their love with their actions. After Baoyu's illness, Zijuan said this to Daiyu. "It is easy to be priceless, and it is rare to have a lover. She hoped that Daiyu would let Grandmother Jia make plans for marriage as soon as possible.
Daiyu and Baoyu read The West Chamber together. Maybe children don't know what love is, but they will also compare the characters in the book. Daiyu hopes that love will be "together" and that love will blossom and have a bright future. Isn't this the expectation of every girl in love in the world?
Generally speaking, Daiyu's preference for "geese" fully expresses her love view. She will be like a rebellious "Xueyan", pursuing free love; She is a loyal "wild goose" and only hopes for single-minded love; She is a wild goose that flies south and never changes. She is persistent and brave in love and never changes her faith. Daiyu knows that the road to love is difficult, but she is still willing to stick to it until she can be "together". This kind of love is what she wants and what she expects. Baoyu's unforgettable person and constant love are all Daiyu, and it is precisely because of Daiyu's love for him that it is the constant heart. Daiyu's concept of love is so simple and clear, but after reading it, she is filled with emotion, which makes people willing to be generous for a lifetime.
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