Seeing two places, I think it is necessary to look for this book. First of all, it said that he knew that the economic situation was not very good before the economic crisis. I wonder how he knows. Second, after he got married, he met a confidante, who is still married. When he hesitated, he surveyed 65,438,000 couples from all walks of life. Then he found that no couple were satisfied with his family. Finally, he gave up his confidante and returned to his wife. I think this man is quite interesting. Other entrepreneurs or celebrities may, as the news broke out, become gossip in everyone's mouth. I don't think there's anything he does. So I went to the library to look for it, and I finally finished reading it in two nights.
The marriage between Cao and his wife is like "the life of parents, the words of a matchmaker" often seen in costume TV dramas. Two people who have only seen black and white photos get married. I didn't like it at first. The wife silently supports her husband behind his back. Once her business failed, she not only lost the dowry money, but also owed a lot of debts. He sent his wife and children to his mother-in-law's house and said to her, "If I go, I won't come back if I don't make money. Just let Feng Ying remarry someone else." Mother-in-law was very angry at this, but encouraged him to cheer up. She believes in Cao's ability.
Later, he met a confidante outside, and the other party believed that he could make a career. They said everything. At this time, Cao Zheng wanted to divorce him. He wrote to his wife, and the illiterate wife was still listening to Cao's letter. The wife said that divorce is ok, but the house and children should be left to herself. On the one hand, I was married, on the other hand, I was a confidante. Cao was caught in a dilemma. Later, as said at the beginning, he found that there were no couples who were satisfied with their lives. Even though they looked perfect on the outside, they were constantly arguing and dissatisfied with each other, so he gave up the idea. Later, he registered all the assets of the company in his wife's name.
But Cao's confidante was not mistaken. Cao said in an interview, "But at that time, I secretly vowed that I would fight for her in my life, so that her sisters could say that she loved a decent person and a worthy person."
Although Cao's education level is not high, he reads widely and studies all his life. He never stopped learning books or technology. Someone recommended an accountant, and he studied, which was of great help to the management of the company later. I also bought books such as Xinhua Dictionary and Cihai. A friend sent books to Zeng Guofan and others, and he also read them, which was quite rewarding.
Although Cao's ancestors were the richest people in the area, by the time of his grandfather, they had gradually declined. His father also supported his family by doing business, which gave Cao a lot of business education. His father's words and deeds have a great influence on him. In his autobiography, he can be seen in many places recalling his father's words.
When Cao was a child, he was very diligent. He gets up early every morning, and his mother can't stand it. Every time she wakes up, she sometimes sees that her mother's tears are still wet, and she has to bear the burden of her family at an early age.
He is good at learning and has great courage. When I was in the factory, I became an expert in car repair in less than a month. He is sociable and has a wide range of friends, which is very helpful for him to run a factory and become an excellent entrepreneur. People are also kind, whether they are worried about passers-by getting sick from drinking water, pouring tea for others, or treating employees in the future.
What surprised me most was that at that time, it was the reform era, and all the rules and regulations might be imperfect, even different from the first day of the 15th National Day, but he dared to explore, and even saw that some standards were not in line with the actual situation, so he urged the relevant state departments to correct some problems and promote the improvement of standards. After the victory of anti-dumping, we also set up relevant research rooms with universities. I think for individuals, many people will find an objective reason to retreat when they encounter similar situations.
As a nobody, it seems to me that some big people seldom want to talk or always say something politically correct in public. Maybe they have passed it on to their children.
At first, I thought "Heart is Bodhi" was written by interviewing Cao or someone in their company, but after reading the postscript, it was all written by the author. When reading a book, you can feel that there are many vernacular languages. If it weren't for the author, I might not have written such a mental journey.
Because I am interested, I search for information about books and documentaries on the Internet. Many comments include words such as "some people in North Korea are easy to become officials" and "capitalists". No matter what the reality is, I think we can learn nothing except a quick bite. As he said in the book, if we can learn something from him, it will be quite valuable.
Limited by space, this paper only wrote a few of them, and there are still many places that are not involved. Generally speaking, Heart is Bodhi is well worth reading.