A person who is treated well will also be kind to those around him. This seems to be the most humane way to treat others. However, in today's society, many people have long been blinded by that selfish heart. These people gradually take it for granted that others are good to him. I don't know how to be grateful, I don't know how to repay kindness, and even when others stop helping, I will loudly blame each other. It seems to be the man who gave him free help. Afraid to help the fallen old man, for fear of being misunderstood; Afraid to save those who need help, afraid that they will be in cahoots with the perpetrators ... It is precisely because there are more and more such wicked people that more and more people dare not do good deeds. Just like the singer named Cong Fei, who sponsored more than 200 poor children before his death and was buried with his wife after his death, few people visited him and almost no one cared. It was chilling! Cong Fei, formerly known as Zhang Chong, was born in a poor family in Liaoning in 1969. I love music since I was a child, and I often learn to sing episodes in TV dramas. However, due to limited family conditions, Cong Fei had no chance to learn music theory. Cong Fei, who hasn't graduated from junior high school, entered a bank as a cashier by chance. After work, Cong Fei never forgot his musical dream, and finally got into Shenyang Conservatory of Music with his own efforts. After graduation, Cong Fei plans to travel to Guangzhou. When he first arrived in Guangzhou, he had to take Tianqiao as his home because of financial difficulties. Go out to sing during the day and sleep on the overpass at night. During this period, a girl was deeply moved by his songs and gave him 600 yuan as encouragement. Cong Fei took part in a singer competition with this 600 yuan money and achieved good results. Since then, his road to music has opened a different chapter. 1994 is a year when Cong Fei's efforts for so many years finally paid off. His songs and his people spread all over the country quickly, and he opened up his popularity in the music world. The following year, he took the famous tenor Guo Song as his teacher. However, Cong Fei, who became famous and made a lot of money, did not get carried away, nor did he feel that he was a despicable person after the poor became rich. But gradually began to do public welfare, which lasted for 1 1 year. His first contact with public welfare was in 1994. That year, he took part in a benefit performance on campus. After the benefit performance, he donated all his 2400 yuan on the spot, which can help 20 poor students complete their studies for two years. When Cong Fei knew that his donation could help so many people, he felt unprecedented happiness and satisfaction. Cong Fei once received help from others, and now he is helping others in the same way. It can be said that Cong Fei is a man with a conscience, and his heart has not changed because he has been immersed in society for a long time, so Cong Fei, who knows how to repay kindness, is a real man. Every year after that, whenever there is an opportunity, Cong Fei will do charity and donate most of his savings without mercy. However, due to the stability of the career and the improvement of income, it is no different to spend your life. Compared with other famous singers, Cong Fei's life is not good! Fame and fortune, he lives in an ordinary house with only 50 square meters, and his food and clothing are still the same, and there has been no earth-shaking change. During this period, he also experienced a failed marriage. Cong Fei's first wife couldn't understand Cong Fei's generous charity performance, because on several occasions, Cong Fei not only didn't get any return from his performance, but even borrowed money from relatives and friends around him to pay for the tuition of the poor children he sponsored. By June, 2004, Cong Fei, the first batch of "volunteers" in Shenzhen, had performed more than 300 performances, and the total number of children supported by Cong Fei reached 1.78, so he had already taken on a debt of about1.70 thousand. At that time, 6.5438+0.7 million was not a small sum for any family. After two years of marriage, his first wife finally divorced Cong Fei, leaving a 2-year-old daughter to return home alone. On my deathbed, I don't forget to do good. Shortly after my divorce, Cong Fei met his second wife, a flight attendant named Xing Dan. She was moved by Cong Fei's persistent kindness for many years and decided to marry him. From these two marriages in Cong Fei, we can find that we must find a person with the same three views to get married, otherwise the process will be extremely painful and eventually we will go our separate ways. However, for Cong Fei, he finally found a wife who can understand and support his charity. God seems to have a kind of "love" for him and wants to pull him to his side. After three years of marriage with Xing Dan, Cong Fei was diagnosed with gastric cancer, and the next day, his cancer cells spread in the body. However, during his illness, Cong Fei still insisted on participating in charity performances and donated his own medical expenses. During this period, Cong Fei finally realized a long-cherished wish: to become a party member. During his stay in Cong Fei, many people went to visit him, including relevant leaders of local government departments, army officers and soldiers who participated in the benefit performance in Cong Fei, and relatives and friends of Cong Fei. However, only the poor students sponsored by Cong Fei lack sympathy. Although they call and write letters. But the content is a query and urging to Cong Fei. Because during Cong Fei's illness and hospitalization, children and their parents who no longer accept Cong Fei's assistance thought that Cong Fei would not provide any more financial assistance, they called "dunning calls" one after another. If this is because they don't know that Cong Fei is ill, it is understandable. After all, it's too much for people who don't know. However, after Cong Fei died and was buried in the cemetery with his wife, few people visited the more than 200 poor children who had received his support. That's really a chilling thing! But even though he was treated like this, Cong Fei never complained. On his deathbed, he still did not forget to do his charity work. He asked to donate his cornea and body to medical college for research after his death, and refused any financial help from the government, and asked his family not to reach out to the society under any circumstances, but to make contributions. In 2005, Cong Fei won the honorary titles of "Top Ten Outstanding Young People in Shenzhen" and "Top Ten Outstanding Young Volunteers in China". It can also be said that Cong Fei deserves these awards. Regrettably, in the fifth year after Cong Fei's death, that is, in 20 1 1 year, his wife Xing Dan died in an accidental traffic accident. Since then, the couple's graves have been buried together in an evergreen garden in Shenzhen. Usually, few people visit except their families! I wonder if the children who have received their donations still remember the appearance of an uncle named Cong Fei in their lives? Although it was only a short stay, it gave them infinite help and love!
The natural mentality is to kill a well-meaning killer. As a grassroots vocal singer, Cong Fei realized his wish step by step by relying on his own efforts, although his economic conditions were limited. After gaining wealth and fame, he did not forget to give the greatest return to the society in the local area. As a famous singer in the 1990s, Cong Fei's economic income was not low, and he could have lived a good life on this income. But instead of doing so, he donated most of his income for free, and thus lost his first marriage. However, Cong Fei, who spent most of his life doing good deeds, left us in his best years. Even before he left, in the face of unfriendly voices, he still did not forget to do good deeds. Such Cong Fei has made hundreds of poor families with his own ego, so that their children can go to school, study and eat. Although he failed to save his own life, he saved hundreds of out-of-school teenagers! This is not what Cong Fei wants to do, but he regards it as his duty and mission. There are countless people like Cong Fei in this society. They are unknown and do good deeds without expecting anything in return. What would our society be like without these people? We should be grateful for them, not take them for granted.