My cousin betrayed me and stayed with the woman I love most. What should I do? Do I still accept their betrayal?

I think your kindness and love for your cousin are far beyond the scope of a normal cousin. In other words, when you treat a person who you think is worthy of being kind to him, your expression, your effort, is a bit excessive and numb. "I gave up my studies for her. I gave up my parents' rescue for her. I lost many friends for her. In order to accompany her, I didn't go to accompany my mother when she was sick. . . I almost gave up everything I had, all because I loved her. I always think that such a commitment will make her feel happy, and I don't want her to see other couples together and feel unloved. . . . . "In fact, love a person doesn't have to be expressed in this way. You sacrificed so much for her that your studies, your family, your friends and even your mother were ill and didn't accompany her. Then, what kind of person will she think you are? Is a person who is only kind to people who he thinks are worthy of love, regardless of others, family and friends. Even your studies? What if one day, you don't think she is good for her? Will you ignore it like family and friends? Won't she be miserable and sad? So, your expression needs to be changed!

"Let him have everything, only him. I have never been jealous of my family's kindness to him and indifference to me. I always think I can share some good things with him. I never forget him every time I go out. When I left school, I was afraid he would be bullied. I sold a lot of favors to others and protected him a little. Don't let anyone bully him. . . My best cousin. . . . "Speaking of your cousin, is he really your best cousin? The best cousin will make his cousin work so hard for him? Perhaps, you have treated him like this since childhood, and he is used to it. He is used to your kindness to him, and he takes it for granted. But since there is such a cousin who loves him, he should cherish it. Why did he go with his girlfriend when he was away for five days? Maybe, if you are nice to him, he will think that you will let him go this time. After all, you are so numb to the way people express themselves. But if he can really think of you, and he is really your best cousin, will he do it?

Besides, your girlfriend has a problem. Maybe your kindness to her made her unbearable, which led to her leaving. But at least, after your's relationship is over, you should be with another person, and this other person is your best cousin? Here again, the way you treat others is radical.

I think you have to let her go now. You should change the way you treat people, and don't say anything about killing yourself or killing others. Losing love is an emotional experience that every normal person has to experience. No big deal. It's just that your lovelorn love is a little troublesome. Your girlfriend is with your cousin. But this situation also exists in reality. Girlfriend and best friend together, don't make yourself sad? But when this happens, its own problems also exist. Aside from their mistakes, at least, your girlfriend can leave you so easily, which shows your own problems. Take a good look at yourself, and most importantly, the way you treat others!

So, it is not that your girlfriend and cousin are right. They are even more wrong, knowing that one is my cousin's girlfriend and the other is my boyfriend's cousin. When a relationship is not over, they start a new relationship. Their coldness and indifference are chilling. For this reason, they don't deserve you to feel sorry for them. Since they don't care about your feelings, why are you so sad?

Live well, they are not worth killing yourself! You killed yourself. What can you get when your family is sad? Cousin's guilt, girlfriend's change of heart and then you'll be gone. Are these still important? Besides, maybe they are still laughing and calling you stupid!

Having said that, what I have expressed is: First, change the way you treat others and give your love to those who should pay. Second, the betrayal of your cousin's girlfriend is just a reminder from God that you should change. Third, live a good life and don't think about stupid behavior. Fourth, excessive love makes people feel a kind of pressure. So, you have to change the radical expression. Perhaps, go out for a walk, concentrate on doing something, and slowly forget the pain of this matter.