Even though parents can give their children very little, everything they pay is done with all their strength. Parents' love is great, but now many parents are getting farther and farther and more anxious in the process of trying to create conditions for their children, but they often forget why we are working so hard.
The reason why we work so hard is that we want our children to have a good future, so that when they grow up, their lives will not be as tired and difficult as ours. But what parents want most is for their children to grow sturdily and become a healthy person.
Different parents have different educational ideas, but among many educational methods, beating and cursing is the worst and most harmful way for children. Disobedient children can be guided in other ways, and finding out the reasons for disobedience can solve the problem. Beating and scolding children will only stimulate children's rebellious psychology, and children will feel that their parents do not love themselves, resulting in cowardice and inferiority, resulting in personality defects.
On March 9, 20 13, in a small village in Yunnan, a 6-year-old child, Xiaobo, came home from school with his brother and sister. Before he had a bite to eat, Xiaobo was "interrogated" by his father. His father took him aside and said seriously that he had finished his homework. Xiaobo said that he had no homework today. Xiaobo's brother and sister booed, saying that Xiaobo lied to his father. Father's name is Li.
Li asked Xiao Bo if he had done his homework. Xiaobo was too scared to speak. Judging from this state, Xiaobo should be beaten and scolded at ordinary times, so he is so afraid of his father. Li was even angrier when he saw that Xiaobo didn't talk. The 28-year-old boy kicked a 6-year-old boy in the chest, dragged Xiaobo around and violently beat him. Later, Li picked up his son and threw him outside the door. He saw a big stone hit his son, who was hit in the back of the head by the stone and fainted on the spot.
Li looked at his motionless son on the ground and went out to work quietly. Later, Xiaobo's sister ran to Li and said that Xiaobo might die. At this time, anyone with a little humanity would send the child to the hospital for treatment, but Li said a word and buried him.
Everyone in the family dare not ignore Li's words and bury them under a thin layer of soil with almost no breath. However, this demon Li trampled firmly on the soil and broke the last hope of living. Later, when the forensic doctor examined the body, it was determined that Xiaobo was buried alive to death. In other words, if Xiaobo is not buried, he has the hope of survival. Tiger's poison is not enough, and Li is worse than an animal.
In March of the same year 1 1, Li's father reported to the police that Li had killed his grandson. The police arrested Li, but Li didn't feel that he was wrong, and even told the police that he educated his son and didn't need others to take care of him. 20 12 On March 22nd, Li was sentenced to death.
After giving birth to a child, he is responsible for the growth and health of the child. Even though Li hates Xiaobo, frequent beatings and curses have cast a shadow over Xiaobo, and even cruel treatment of children has taken his life.
Xiaobo is only a 6-year-old child. He is not sensible. He doesn't understand the importance of learning. He also has children's innate childishness and playfulness. There are still many wonderful things in his life that he has not experienced. He died of his father's atrocities because he didn't do his homework. What did Li do as a father in Xiaobo's short life journey? Therefore, on the issue of educating children, we must choose a correct and most suitable way for children.
Many new parents have no idea about their children's education, and often make mistakes and don't know how to solve them. At this time, you can refer to "Don't yell, don't ask children to manage", maybe you will have a bright future and suddenly realize how to deal with children's education.