I remember Xiao Jing didn't go to work after graduating from college. At that time, they rented a house and lived on Zhou Ge's salary every month. Life is very boring. I have never heard of their quarrel.
Zhou Ge is a very thrifty person. Although the salary is not high, I bought a car within two years and became the first person among my friends to buy a car by myself. At that time, I envied Xiaojing and thought that Zhou Ge's kindness to her was a model among lovers.
The love between two people has always been very stable. When their love ran to the fourth year, they went to each other's home for the first time and got the consent of their parents. The old people on both sides also felt that the two were quite suitable and decided to arrange a day to get married, so they agreed.
Just two months before getting married, one of Xiaojing's relatives who worked as an engineer asked her to go to the company to do back office work. It happened that she never went to work after graduation and went to her relatives' company.
But the project site bid is in the southern city, and she needs to go to the south for business. Although Zhou Ge didn't want to give up, she didn't object to Xiao Jing working in the south for a period of time.
When the construction site was first built, a scaffolding of a Sichuan boss was rented, and the workers under the Sichuan boss also ate and lived on the construction site. One night, Xiao Jing saw a boy sitting on a low wall in a daze. She is interested in the past. The boy was born with a face that looked down on everyone. He is thin and has a prickly speech. Maybe Xiao Jing is a person who likes this poor life in his bones and has a cool personality. She once lived in a small circle. This time, she met a man full of freshness. The less he said, the more mysterious he felt. So the first time I met this man, he left a deep impression on Jing.
The next day, after work, Xiao Jing met the boy from Sichuan again. This time, the boy opened his mouth a little, and two people sat on the low wall chatting, talking and laughing until late.
Xiaojing's brother-in-law saw all this and decided to stop Xiaojing from dating that boy. However, on the third day, the boy took Xiao Jing out to play and didn't come back until midnight. The news suddenly exploded at the construction site. Everyone knows that Xiaojing's hometown has a boyfriend who is getting married soon. This will certainly have a bad influence.
On the fourth day, relatives in the workplace began to persuade Xiao Jing to stay away from that boy. However, those persuasion didn't work at all. They just turned off their cell phones and left the construction site until they came back together the next morning to announce their love relationship. Last night, they stayed in the hotel for one night.
When Zhou Ge, who was far away from home, learned the news, he called Xiao Jing in despair. Xiaojing didn't answer any phone calls. He just sent a cold message to Zhou Ge: Let's break up, I already have someone who loves me.
Zhou Ge can't believe it anyway. His girlfriend who has been together for so long can stop loving him at once. Four years together is not worth four days with a stranger!
This bolt from the blue was a fatal blow to Zhou Ge. He loves Xiao Jing very much. In order to give her a good life, he saved money to buy a car and a house. He always thought Xiao Jing loved himself, and he didn't understand what was good about that strange little boy.
Zhou Ge didn't eat a good meal for a whole month, because the blow also branded him with a problem, that is, sometimes his hands kept shaking and he couldn't even pick up things.
During that time, brother Zhou cried every time he called me to tell me what was on his mind, and I could only comfort him that time could heal all the pain.
Xiao Jing has become a different kind of person on the construction site since she was with Sichuan boys. Everyone in the family knows that this boy is five years younger than Xiao Jing. He graduated from primary school and got the disease of thick neck root. This disease is hereditary. His parents divorced long ago, and his mother remarried three times and had three children. He is the second child, and his half-brother is only two years old. The owner of this tripod is his stepfather, and there is no house at home. The scaffolding owner squandered all the money he earned on finding ladies and gambling, and his mother had no time to care about these.
Knowing this, although I feel sympathy for the boy's life experience, I am more worried about Xiao Jing's future life. I can't understand this love at first sight.
The family was deeply hurt by Xiao Jing and broke off the relationship. Xiao Jing went to Sichuan with him after the construction site project. Because neither of them had a job and could not live in the city, they went to the place where his father lived, a small house without internet and TV.
Suddenly one day, Xiao Jing called me and borrowed 3000 yuan from me. She told me that she was pregnant for more than six months, but they couldn't afford to have a baby and decided to abort. I was very shocked. The children are very old. This is their first child. At the same time, I was angry. A man has no responsibility for such a thing. It is not reliable to ask a girl to borrow money for an abortion. But Xiao Jing still made excuses for this man and didn't blame him at all.
After a year, I went there to see Xiao Jing. When I got there, I found Jing pregnant again, and my boyfriend was still playing games in the Internet cafe. The internet cafe is full of smoke, so I let a pregnant woman accompany him in this environment. No matter how to persuade Xiao Jing, she always speaks for the boy on the pretext of his age.
Later, I really couldn't persuade, and I didn't want to waste my breath. I haven't contacted Xiao Jing for a long time. I heard from my family that they got married hastily.
Because the family was poor, Xiao Jing's mother-in-law actually wanted to sell Xiao Jing's newborn child to a distant relative, and Xiao Jing agreed. Fortunately, the baby is just born and can't be weaned. Xiao Jing took her children to eat milk and gradually developed feelings. The two decided not to sell their children.
However, life has to go on. Xiao Jing can't take her children to work. Her husband always plays games and does nothing. The circle of friends has been borrowed by them. Xiao Jing, a junior college graduate of a famous university, has never worked. Her life has been going downhill. Her parents can't hold their heads in the neighborhood, and their children haven't gone to school yet. What should they do when they go to school?
I heard Xiao Jing went back to his hometown these two days. She left her child in the care of her parents. She didn't stay at home with her parents and went back to Sichuan with her little husband.
After a long time, Zhou Ge gradually let go of that relationship, and he became more mature. Later, he met his current girlfriend. This girl is excellent, and Zhou Ge changed into a new car through her own efforts. He has completely walked out of the haze and the problem of shaking hands has disappeared.
There are many choices in one's life. If one step is wrong, the whole life will slide to another track. We can't predict the future, but please consider your family and yourself before you do anything. Are you really happy?