Ask simple questions. Ask quality questions. These two requirements must be met before anyone is willing to answer!
Because the users of these platforms are mainly entertaining, I can help you only because I can answer easily, because I am kind and willing to talk to you, and you make me unable to start, so I have to ignore it.
Sometimes they just click in, even write something, and finally come back without sending it, because I feel that some questions have no meaning to answer at all.
What is an easy question to answer? Simply put, it is not too much trouble for seniors.
For example, where to take the school bus, how about choosing a teacher in xx, and what should be paid attention to in the field practice in Tianmu Mountain. Of course, because no one knows the answer to some questions, there may be no answer.
But if someone knows the answer, they will usually answer such a question because it is very simple. If I know, I can answer you immediately without collecting any information. What is a difficult question to answer?
For example, the senior can help me take some photos of the school landscape/architecture college/dormitory, and ask for a xx software. Which senior can help me with my C++ homework? Xxxx homework has these requirements, and it needs 500 words, so please kneel down ... don't say kneeling, it's no use lying down! Don't be an outstretched hand!
What is a quality problem?
First of all, this question is not a bad one. If the platform has a search function, search first. Don't disturb others directly. Collect your own answers, Baidu and other search platforms, or some corresponding official website have answers. Try not to disturb others.
Then update your questions according to the information you know, grasp the key points, and don't ask them intermittently at once. For example, I also want to ask a question about transferring to statistics. Someone asked, is there a senior in statistics?
Write rt (such as a topic) in the text, or write something to ask.
This is completely low-quality problems and bad reviews. Similarly, do you have a senior majoring in xx? 17 is the guidance for postgraduate entrance examination. And some people will ask, I have an average grade point of xx, I want to transfer to statistics, what textbooks do I need to brush for the written test, and what should I pay attention to during the interview?
I'm going to take the postgraduate exam of xx major, but there is no bibliography on the admissions network. Are there any reference books recommended by predecessors? At least this kind of problem is much more specific. If you know, you will definitely be more willing to answer (of course, the premise is to know ...
2. Ask questions in private.
Private letters are generally the same as above, but because you have the contact information of the other party, your relationship is relatively closer than that of strangers on public platforms, so seniors will be relatively more willing to answer you.
For example, if someone asks me a question on the public platform, I definitely don't want to work it out with paper and pencil, basically depending on my mood. However, if a classmate occasionally asks me a question on qq, I will still be willing to answer it.
And I asked for materials such as courseware. Basically, I will definitely give it to them. If you ask me about my experience and my views on the courses I have taken, I will definitely tell them.
For example, our school is a learning guidance system, and there will be a senior and a senior in this major to help freshmen adapt to life and study. Maybe you are in a WeChat group and a qq discussion group at this time.
Sometimes seniors offer some help, or if you ask questions and seniors help you, you must give some responses.
Because this is a long-term relationship, you have been unresponsive, and your seniors and sisters have no motivation to continue to help you. For example, I compiled a semester's courseware and sent it to Baidu's network disk. I sent the address, but none of you spoke, which was even more frustrating.
Author: Lu Xiaoyan
"I don't know how other schools arrange this experience. In our school, every two dorms will have a dormitory senior or senior to take care of the new junior regularly ~
They are experienced and patient seniors, and I usually ask them directly if there is anything. We usually use wechat.
First of all, your tone and attitude should be modest and sincere, and you need to ask for advice.
And what you want to ask is best to come straight to the point. Don't make a lot of useless complaints there and let the seniors guess what you want to ask.
Generally speaking, they are busy. If they are not interested in you, they have no time to talk to you.
Then seniors and seniors will usually tell you what you need to know immediately after you ask, and they will tell you their experiences in good faith.
At this time, we must remember to express our gratitude, and don't think that this is what they should do.
After asking thank you, just say goodbye politely. Maybe it would be better for you to send a gift to show your gratitude on their birthday.
Author: Feng
"In fact, as long as you are humble and polite to your elders at ordinary times, they will help you when you need help, as long as they have the ability and conditions.
Few seniors and sisters will refuse the request of their younger brothers and sisters, unless they are really willing but unable, or their younger brothers and sisters are usually impolite, and everyone doesn't like them very much.
Seeking experience is definitely not annoying under normal circumstances. Generally, there are three kinds of situations that are more annoying.
One is that your suggestion delayed your seniors' affairs.
When they say they have something to do now and will reply to you later, stop asking questions immediately, otherwise it will be annoying;
Another situation is that you don't even know what you are asking, and you keep beating around the bush and don't go straight to the point, which will make seniors and seniors feel that you are wasting their time, and they don't want to waste their time on you.
The third situation is your tone, as if seniors should do it for you, leaving them with an overbearing feeling as if they owe you money, which is the last thing most seniors like.
As long as you avoid these three situations, the average senior will not bother.
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