My son Xiaohua is addicted to the internet, and his mother advised him many times. Xiaohua didn't listen, but she often didn't go home. "No way, I had to learn QQ chat and then communicate with my son as a netizen." Zhang Ping said that after chatting online for a while, her son asked her to meet. ...
Zhang Ping is a civil servant, and her son Xiaohua 16 years old is in the third grade.
Zhang Ping and her husband are very busy at work and have little time to tutor at home. "Xiaohua's grades have always been good, so we don't have to worry. It's only recently that I found that his grades have suddenly dropped. " Zhang Ping said that his son likes surfing the Internet. Xiaohua always hides in his room after school. Besides studying, he chats online or plays games. "I know that he is always surfing the Internet, so I taught him several times and sometimes beat him. Instead of repenting, he intensified and played at night. "
No matter how Zhang Ping and her husband persuaded her, Xiaohua still went her own way. "You also learn to chat online, and then add your son as a friend to see what he thinks every day." Therefore, Zhang Ping secretly wrote down her son's QQ number as a friend under the reminder of a friend, and communicated with her son as a netizen.
Zhang Ping applied for two QQ numbers and added her son as a friend. While quietly understanding Xiaohua's psychology as a female netizen of the same age, she persuaded her son as a big brother. "He prefers to chat with female netizens and rarely talks about learning." Zhang Ping said that after a long time, her son asked her to meet. Zhang Ping said that under her son's repeated invitation, she still agreed on the meeting time and place with her son.
13 At about 16, Xiaohua arrived at the gate of Shengli Park on time, looked around and looked at his watch. About 10 minutes passed, and he still didn't see the female netizen he had seen. "I was about to leave when I saw my mother coming towards me." Xiaohua recalled that her heart was racing and she wanted to get away quickly. Unexpectedly, her mother ran to him and grabbed his arm.
"Mom, why, how are you? Me, I am waiting for my classmate to send me a book. " Xiaohua said nervously, while Zhang Ping became gentle, which explained the fact that he was met by Xiaohua as a netizen. "You see, the Internet is unrealistic. Can you think that it will be me chatting with you? " Xiaohua listened to her mother shyly, turned and ran.
After Obana's mother came home, she didn't say anything to her mother, so she competed with her mother. "Xiaohua complains that I lied to him."
Zhang Zhenhuan, a psychological counselor, said that children's Internet addiction is mainly affected by the surrounding environment, poor communication with parents, and children's lack of equality and respect in reality, so they want to find a psychological balance through channels such as the Internet. Xiaohua must have been surprised and scared when she saw that the netizen was her mother. Although Zhang Ping's original intention is good, it is likely to cause Xiaohua a crisis of confidence. Parents are advised to communicate with their children as soon as possible to eliminate misunderstandings and guide them correctly. Chen Haining