Sister Chen: He has hired that woman for almost a year. In this year, he bought a car secretly. At first he didn't tell me the truth, saying that the car belonged to his friend's wife. Who can lend you a new car to drive every day? It's not like there's no car at home. When I got a car, I drove it to that woman. They often travel, spend the night outside, and beat me with that woman. Once before, after quarreling over this matter, he said to give me 500 thousand to divorce him.
Mr. Wang: I bought this car with a loan. If I told her the truth, there would be a quarrel, so I didn't tell her. I didn't go out to play with that woman. We are colleagues. She is my driver. Usually on business or something, I'm sure I can drive. I said about the divorce, and now I have this idea, and I can't go on anyway.
This matter in Bian Xiao's eyes is actually very clear. Sister Chen is suspicious because her man's career has just started, he buys a car for other women and often goes out. Anyone who does this will think that two people are different. However, instead of comforting his wife, Mr. Wang abused him and refused to admit his mistake. The mediator said, "since your wife suspects this person, it would be nice if you were fired." Indeed, the quickest way to solve this problem is to dismiss female drivers, but Mr. Wang doesn't think so.
Mr. Wang: I can't resign. The doctor said I had severe narcolepsy. I can't sleep talking to you now. I just need to stay in one place quietly for five minutes, and I will fall asleep! It's the Spring Festival, and there's a lot of business. How can I find a convenient driver quickly? Besides, I hired a female driver for a reason. Male drivers want more money. How can I afford a male driver?
From this perspective, Mr. Wang is not aware of his own problems at all. In front of the mediator, the two also quarreled several times. On the topic of divorce, neither of them felt anything wrong, but they had differences on the issue of children. Parents naturally want their children to follow them.
Sister Chen: Children can't follow him. His behavior had a great influence on the children. My children are ten and eleven. Sometimes he takes the children out to dinner with that woman. Children can understand what their father is doing. Once I went out to work, he cooked for that woman at home, and my son asked him what he was doing. He told his son that his aunt had no one to cook for him, and sometimes he told his son that it was for me. You said he lied to the child like this!
Mr. Wang: The children can't keep up with you. You do nothing this year. Even if something happens to your child, you don't care I mop the floor at home instead of cooking. It's boring to live like this. Divorce if you want. The children must follow me.
It can be seen that the husband and wife compromised on the child. Although they quarrel endlessly, when it comes to children, both of them feel that they can't give up. With the help of the mediator, Mr. Wang promised that he would never stay out at night again and would keep a certain distance from the female driver. In fact, in my opinion, the husband's behavior will really have a certain impact on the children, so what parents should do is really important. Sister Chen's behavior is not correct either. Although Mr. Wang may really have an affair with the female driver, in any case, he can't leave the child behind.
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In the end, the couple decided to live a plain life and did not choose to divorce, but in my opinion, if the couple still choose not to change, then divorce should be a matter of time, but it will have a great impact on the children. Work and life must be clearly separated, otherwise there will be huge contradictions. It is that person or thing that often destroys a family. Don't do anything stupid. Extramarital affairs are really harmful to others and themselves. After getting married, you should get rid of these bad ideas as soon as possible.