Throughout the ages, any successful person has completed his career alone, and there is always free help behind him. Behind every successful man, there is such a woman. Find her, and you are not far from success.
Even if the other half is not good for your career, a person's family is his harbor, where he can rest and relax when he drives home from the outside world.
Don't reject love. Love is a condiment and booster on the road of career pursuit. With the nourishment of love, the pursuit of career is even more powerful. There must be a responsible husband behind a happy woman. In this case, it will save this woman a lot of things and make her happy for the rest of her life.
For example, her husband is as good as you. It's sunrise. They met by chance, fell in love at first sight, got married and had children, and had a happy family. 0 1
Self-acceptance and happiness often go hand in hand.
Recently, the child is particularly clingy and almost always wants me to find me.
Usually working in the study, I will close the door, but from time to time she will cry and shout "mom" and then knock at the door desperately. If I can't open the door, I will cry very sadly. No matter how cruel I am, I can't shut my children out every time.
As a result, I couldn't do any work at home, so I had to escape from the sticky children and go out to work. At first, it was in the nearest shopping mall, but the shopping malls didn't open until after 10, so it was a bit far to walk.
Later, I chose to work in the public welfare study at the door, but the problem is that the administrator will catch people after six o'clock in the afternoon, and my work in the afternoon often lasts until around seven thirty.
However, because I couldn't take a regular lunch break and got up early and didn't have time to catch up on sleep, I was particularly tired last week. Getting up early was a bit unsustainable and my work efficiency was greatly reduced.
But this week, I was surprised to find that children are very adaptable. I just tried to go out to work for a week. From this week on, she changed from being attached to her mother to being attached to her grandmother, and I can return to my normal work. 02.
Sincerity is also energy.
Last week, a partner came to see me and said that he had been paying attention to me for a long time. He thinks I am sincere, serious and responsible to my students and wants to establish cooperation with me.
I was quite surprised at the time. Usually readers and students evaluate me as sincere enough, but this is the first time I have got opportunities and resources in my work because of "sincerity".
This caused me to think about sincerity.
What is "sincerity"?
Sincerity, in addition, is the combination of truth and integrity.
It should be said that these two are indeed my most obvious personality characteristics. I grew up in a family that pays attention to honesty and simple personality. My parents are hardworking and down-to-earth, and they don't know how to pretend to flatter. In such an environment, the background color of personality is basically formed. But it is undeniable that everyone's personality will form an energy field. This unique energy field will attract like-minded people to approach, while those who disagree will stay away.
Don't worry, because in this life, we can only meet and blend with our own kind after all.
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Husband and wife should be friends.
Brother Bin once said that he likes being with me because I am the only person he can open his heart to.
I asked him a question the night before yesterday. The partner you need seems to be your friend first, right?
He smiled noncommittally, maybe he didn't quite understand, or maybe he didn't agree. But I think the ideal relationship between husband and wife should not only be lovers, but also give each other care and emotional comfort in life. More importantly, two people can discuss many topics and are completely equal. Moreover, they must be able to play together and do many things together.
In such a marriage relationship, no one should be strong and no one should be weak. Both sides are completely equal.
In the face of family decisions, the two sides should be able to discuss with each other. There is no winner, no compromise, no winner, no sacrifice, only the maximization of family interests, mutual understanding and mutual achievement.
Not only can we live happily together, but we can also bear the wind and rain together.
This kind of marriage can last. Focusing on work can improve the mind.
Today is Sunday and the first day of the Mid-Autumn Festival holiday.
In fact, since I became a freelancer, I know almost nothing about holidays.
It seems that work is life and life is work. When one combines interest with work, there is no obvious difference between entertainment and work.