Later, my sister met a boyfriend through the introduction of her family, and the relationship between them was not bad. The boy takes good care of her. They talked for a year, met their parents, and wanted to talk about marriage. However, the woman has never told the man that she has depression and has been taking medicine. The elder of the woman's family said: Stop it, what is there to say? This is not a fatal event.
In fact, as we all know, the older generation is more conservative, afraid that the man's parents will mind after saying it, and then let them break up.
But standing on the truth, really don't say it?
This must be said. But the key is how to say it.
If you don't tell me, you are cheating on your marriage. After marriage, the man knows that it is a divorce application. Even if you apologize and say you didn't mean to hide it, will the man forgive you and won't have a knot in one's heart? Won't he doubt your words all his life? Also, can the man's parents forgive you? This is undoubtedly a time bomb.
Besides, you will have children when you get married, right? If you continue to take medicine, the child will be disabled at birth. Who will blame? Then where are you going to cry?
Sincerity is the key to marriage, so you should tell the man before marriage. But the way to say this should be considered: maybe you can say it in a joking tone; Or find a suitable place where only the two of you are together and say, when I was depressed before, what happened ... the speaker didn't care, maybe people didn't care at all.