A woman who loves for love will take such a risk. After breaking up, they will not only lose love, but also lose the possibility of marrying this person. This is simply a catastrophe. But what if we just want to get married and fall in love? What is the best answer to this question? I still don't know.
If you tell me this question, how do you respond? Do you fall in love with someone first _ or remember first: do you have to find someone to marry? Of course, some girls will respond: we all fell in love at first sight. But please note that experts suggest that love at first sight only accounts for 2% of dating between boys and girls, so you are likely to have such good luck, and your love is likely to find another way.
Many girls will certainly go to great lengths when they are in their twenties: will emotional counseling give them a refund? It's time for me to fall in love In fact, this sentence goes without saying: I want to prepare a partner for my life path in advance. I have to say, it is a group of girls who are full of overall planning for daily life and know when to do what. Their goal of falling in love is clear. It is quite possible that they chose that person in college. It is also very likely that they found it in blind dates again and again at the beginning of the development of primitive society. It may also be found in the address where they may meet on the bus or by the subway. In short, it is not easy for them to lack boyfriends in their daily life, and one of them will become their little husband.
Naturally there are girls like that. They have grand and beautiful ideas about love. "I am still young, and I must have a relationship that will live up to my youth" is their common idea. They are practitioners of "Do not love, give me death"; They have high aesthetic standards for lovers, and their social development is standardized. They want to taste the benefits of love more than married life, which is connected with their strong senses. They want to participate in the feeling of falling rocks and feel the infinite spring in the dangerous peaks. They want to add spices such as sadness, waiting, obsession, hesitation and self-distrust to their love. They value feelings more than themselves. Because they just want love, they naturally think that married life is a selfish desire formed by obvious love.
Up to now, I still feel that these two life paths are inseparable, and both are girls' natural ideas. Naturally, some people will get emotional or married life by sticking to their own life path. Let's talk about the first kind of girls first. When they were young, they read "I'm not teaching you to cheat" more often than Qiong Yao's novels. In their view, there are more important things than happiness. Blind date marriage is for them to make themselves happier. During this period, they may be very rational, not easy to get hot-headed and nervous, and have started a better life with their boyfriends step by step. _ There are too many unexpected surprises and stimuli, and the skills of love are properly used around them. But they are particularly concerned about the wedding banquet and the preferential treatment for their mother-in-law. Why? Because what they want is a happy, warm and quiet life path. Naturally, they are also the easiest people to live a married life. We can't say that they can't get love, just that they like to do it in a happy and indifferent way on their side. They pay far less attention to others than to themselves. Girls like that are born with a day. Naturally, there is a premise here, that is, it is not easy for them to keep this mood all their lives and suddenly expect a tangled relationship at some point in their lives. You know, everyone can't control their enthusiasm for selfless dedication to some people.
What about the other girl? They pursued a perfect and complete relationship from the beginning, and their heart rate was their only feeling in love. With a boy, the irrationality of falling in love itself becomes all practical significance. They will get a great favor according to their own requirements, but as I said before, and they may also experience emotional injury, the probability of their emotional injury is much higher than that of another kind of girls. This is because they want to be with you and can't leave the idea of marrying each other, which will make her do stupid things beyond her feelings.
There is an old saying in China: As you sow, you reap. So much for marriage and friendship. If you plant a happy fruit, you will get happiness. If you plant an emotional fruit, you will get feelings. Naturally, if you plant a sad fruit, you will definitely become sad.