Is a man who can't afford a house qualified to live in this world?

Dear Jiang Mumu: I fell in love with my boyfriend in college. After graduation, I don't want to stage the tragedy of graduation breakup. Let him come to the city where I work anyway. But after I came, I introduced him to my family, and my family didn't agree that I was with him. They locked me at home, checked my mobile phone communication records, and they followed me when I went out ... in short, they did everything that might prevent us from meeting. I had a quarrel with my family and cried a lot, but they just disagreed, thinking that his family was too poor (he was from the countryside) to afford a house. I want to make money, dear: the house is the lifeblood of all China people at present. In the eyes of many women or their parents, people without houses simply don't deserve to live in this world, let alone dare to dream of such a sacred thing as marriage. Therefore, the idea of losing love and making money is right. The world was originally driven by countless people whose sexual desires were not satisfied. Many people can't afford to buy a house or marry a wife, so love becomes a tragedy. So they tried to start a company, set up stalls, sell cookies, evade taxes, and go up and down for a job. Finally, they succeeded, bought a house, and the GDP and CPI of the motherland also increased significantly. The only drawback of this inspirational story is that the woman who finally lives in a mansion with a successful person who can afford a house is often not the one who inspires him to succeed. My advice to you is: if you really want to be this man, then carefully evaluate your boyfriend's success potential. If you feel that a man who can't afford a house has the potential to make money bravely under the stimulation of his girlfriend's parents, you can write a "house purchase plan" together and try to persuade them to look at the problem from a developmental perspective. Or you actually think that the house is just a cloud in front of the chicken wings. You have a strong nerve to see the pressure of your parents and the real estate anxiety that is widely infected by the whole society. Then, you can rent a suite with the person you love for life, and then say who you love. Of course, you'd better make sure that big chicken wings really give you strength and support you to spend a long time with your boyfriend in the future. As for yourself, if making money can bring you happiness, you can of course do sales or any work that can make money. Even if you fail, you can go back to your parents. They love doing everything for you anyway, and I don't think they will mind doing it again. They can praise themselves for being right again.