0 1
Wen Wen, who is still in college, has been in love with her boyfriend for almost three months. Recently, a girl suddenly found her and said that Wenwen had robbed her boyfriend.
Wenwen doesn't even know she exists. Why rob her?
Later, Wenwen learned that the girl was her boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, or rather, an ex-girlfriend who had not broken up.
This man has never made it clear that he wants to break up, just saying that he hates her or something. He broke up with Wenwen without a clean break-up.
Wenwen became a third party inexplicably.
Well, there is a story that Wen Wen immediately ended this relationship. This hesitant man will get into trouble in the future, especially in marriage. This kind of man will cook a girl from an innocent girl into a bitch. Otherwise, how can he defend his dignity and survive this life?
My friend Xiaoli's marriage is because of the man's indecision, and the days are getting harder and harder.
Xiaoli has been very angry recently and feels that she is going to have a heart attack. The reason was her husband's indecision, which finally made her home a wedding room for her husband's younger brother.
02
Xiaoli and her husband have been married for more than five years and have a two-year-old son.
Last year, my mother-in-law said that she would come to live in their house, but Xiaoli disagreed, because her mother-in-law would certainly have a lot of things, and it was inevitable that she would be unhappy with the old people. After all, it's not good for my mother-in-law to hurt her heart.
But her husband didn't refuse or agree, so he let things develop. Xiaoli made it clear that she disagreed, but her husband still refused to give her mother a positive answer.
In this way, after a month, her husband received a phone call from his mother at the station. He had no choice but to take it home.
In this way, Xiaoli began to live with her mother-in-law. Although the elderly are a little stressed and inconvenient, it is still good to help with the children. Xiaoli slowly accepted the fact that her mother-in-law was here.
However, after half a year, my husband's younger brother is getting married, and the woman's house there insists on a building with two rooms and one living room, and the younger brother's house is a small apartment with one room and one living room.
As for Xiaoli's mother-in-law, she agreed to lend Xiaoli's house to her brother to get married, and then return it when they are stable. Xiaoli's house is two bedrooms and one living room. Her husband bought it before marriage.
Xiaoli didn't agree this time. She didn't think so much. She felt that the trouble of moving around was over. She told the woman directly not to lie about her family, or even if she got married, she would know that she had been cheated, which would be even worse.
But my mother-in-law kept saying, "That won't do. I'm finally getting married. It's not too late to get married now because the house was bombed. "
Xiaoli told her husband what she didn't agree with, but he was still indecisive, hesitant, didn't make a decision, neither agreed nor refused.
The mother-in-law thought that the eldest son must have acquiesced, so she informed the younger son. As a result, the younger son brought his luggage the next day. No way, Xiaoli had to take the child to her brother's cabin.
03
Xiaoli thinks that her brother has been married for almost half a year and wants to move back. After all, children need a separate room when they are older.
It's really not good for a family of three to squeeze into this one room and one living room now. If the child is older, he can't share a room with his parents.
Xiaoli discussed with her husband, who actually said, "I'm too embarrassed to ask. We just got married, so we moved back. If my sister-in-law doesn't do it, that's not good. "
Xiaoli is crazy, so the house is theirs?
She was unwilling, so she went to her mother-in-law. As a result, her mother-in-law said, "What can I do for you? This house belongs to my son, and he wants to give it to his brother with your permission. The two brothers are closely related, so don't play tricks. "
Xiaoli never dreamed that her mother-in-law actually wanted them to exchange houses from the beginning and ran back to argue with her husband: "Did you agree to give them the house?" Are you all calculating me? "
Her husband said, "I didn't expect my mother to be like this. I thought it was just for them. "
"Then you go with your mother and come back! You did buy this house, but we were in love at that time, and I spent a difficult time with you. When you buy a house, your hands are tight and the food is mine. You can't give the house to your brother now, can you? " Xiaoli said angrily.
As a result, Xiaoli's husband said, "This is not good. After all, how can a family, one is a mother and the other is a younger brother, pull this face? "
Xiaoli was surprised, so she ate this dumb loss.
04
Xiaoli is still crying. How could she marry such a loser and give her nest to someone else? I don't know what else she will give.
Suppose from the beginning, Xiaoli's husband can make a decision that he doesn't agree with anything at the beginning, and today it won't be so embarrassing.
In fact, many things, because of our inaction, let things develop, and finally get out of hand and get worse.
This indecisive man is extremely hateful in marriage. Sometimes, it is obvious that simple things need his decision, but they become eternal problems.
If you meet a woman who is a little sloppy, you can still defend your dignity in marriage. When I meet a shy woman like Xiaoli, I can only let my husband's family eat, and I don't know how much to eat.
05
As a man, being rational and decisive is really many times stronger than being indecisive and not knowing.
A rational and decisive man may make people have no expectations in the dribs and drabs of life, but at least he won't let you down in the face of right and wrong.
An indecisive man will only make people fantasize, and as a result, a pot of cold water will be poured out, making people unable to repent.
The immediate decision of this decision can avoid many unnecessary contradictions.
Many people can scoff at the hesitation of a girl to buy a dress, let alone a man.
In life, men have to face too many choices. How many evils will indecision bring to people around you?
Hesitation is a sign of harming others and yourself.
In marriage, there must be many contradictions behind a hesitant man. Everyone should defend his own interests, no matter his wife or mother-in-law. When the interests involve two people, it is inevitable to let the husband of the head of the family speak.
At this time, how many girls' fantasies were ruined by hesitation, or wronged, or were out of control on the provocative road.
I can't help it I can only be strong without protection.
So, when you see those abusive women, please believe that there must be a man unique to Nuo Nuo behind her.
Everyone wants to be spoiled as a princess, but reality is always joking with you. The men you meet always make you strong, and that's how the potential of women is tapped.
06
Many men say that their wives are not gentle, have no emotional appeal and look like shrews. I want to say, if you don't bitch, this family will break up.
Who doesn't want to be treated gently, who doesn't want to be charitable everywhere, but the reality is that I give you charity. What about my life?
So, women, stay away from those indecisive men as soon as possible. If you can't stay away, be strong. Don't be like Xiaoli, just eat some YaBaKui.