Yan Yu, a poet in the Ming Dynasty, once wrote such a poem: "I am afraid of lovesickness, and I have already missed it. It was my turn to miss it, and there was a trace between my eyebrows. " In fact, it means: I am afraid of being tortured by acacia, and I have been worried for a long time. When I get to acacia, I can't get rid of it. My heart is slightly calm and my brow is slightly obvious.
It can be seen that the love of acacia can't be resisted or hidden. No matter how depressed you are, there will always be a trace of lovesickness on the table.
It is said that men are not good at expressing their feelings, but in fact they are just disguises. In the face of the women they love deeply, their thoughts can't be hidden.
If a man loves you, everything he says to you will reveal his love for you.
So don't always doubt a man's feelings, whether he wants you or not, you can feel it from his words. Wechat sends these five messages, which can dominate whether a man has you in his heart.
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"Are you there?"
"Are you there?" This is a sentence, which is the most commonly used opening remark when people chat. Familiar people can ask such a sentence. Although it is so common and popular, it can best measure whether a man misses you in his heart.
When the average person receives this sentence, he may only reply to you with "What's the matter?" But if he misses you, his first reaction will be "You finally remember me". Although he complained, he was secretly happy. No matter how late it is, he will reply to your message and chat with you.
"How long has it been since we met?"
When you finish this sentence, if the man replies "It seems a long time" or "Not long!" This is specious. If you don't have much expectation, it means that he doesn't miss you.
If he can clearly answer the time, such as "we haven't seen you for a month and four days", it means that he misses you every day, so he can know the time when he hasn't seen you. Not only that, but he will also hear from your words that you miss him very much, so after you say this to him, he will plan to see you. No matter how busy he is, no matter how far away you are from him, distance can't stop him from wanting to see you.
"Are you asleep?"
Late at night is a gathering place for missing, and a person's feelings of missing are most likely to flood at night. Men can be sentimental sometimes, but they hide in the middle of the night.
So, at this moment, you say, "Are you asleep?" If a man replies to you every second, I'm glad to hear from you, which means he misses you so much that he stays up at night. I'm glad you're awake as he is. Send this message on WeChat, and you can know if a man misses you.
"I'm going on a business trip again recently"
If a man misses you very much, he will definitely want you to spend more time with him and see him more. So, when you send a message saying "I'm going on a business trip again recently", if he doesn't respond in particular, he just says he knows, which means he doesn't miss you.
But if he expresses surprise and dissatisfaction, it means that he feels that his time with you is too short. He misses you and wants you to spend more time with him.
"Do you miss me?"
The most direct way to know whether a person misses you is to ask directly. Ask him directly: "Do you miss me?" If he just answers "I miss you!" Then he doesn't really miss you.
But if he replies "Of course I miss you" and then keeps talking to you, then he really misses you. Only men who really miss you will do this, and they will keep talking in front of you.
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As the saying goes: linglong dice's red beans, bone acacia know. Acacia was originally induced by the heart of love.
Expressing feelings, infiltrating thoughts, following one's inclinations and being confused always make people suffer, but they enjoy it.
Strange, wonderful, strange, but like poppies, people can't help but want to immerse themselves in it. This is the charm of missing.
You must be very happy to be missed by such a man. Acacia is bitter and similar, but it is a gathering place.