What about the marriage where women are strong and men are weak?

There is a couple in our community, Zhang Xiaoping, who is the business manager. After ten years of hard work, she is very competitive, and her monthly income has gradually increased from over 10,000 to over 20,000. My husband is a civil servant and has been a clerk. His work is leisurely and stable, but his salary is only over 4,000, which is not a big increase. Buying a house, buying a car, paying off the mortgage and giving up the children and the elderly are all borne by Xiaoping. Gradually, Xiaoping was dissatisfied with her husband and didn't want to make more money with less salary, so he muddled along without making progress. Xiaoping began to be strong and uncompromising. When her husband made a mistake, he yelled at him, thinking that he was temperamental, unattractive and useless. Her family also felt that her husband was not good enough for her, which was ironic in the Ming Dynasty. Whether intentionally or unintentionally, she often praises the handsome and capable work unit and the great boldness of vision of Boss Yang. The two often quarrel. Later, her husband began to suspect that Xiaoping was having an affair, was suspicious, checked his mobile phone and turned to WeChat, eavesdropped on Xiaoping's phone, became more and more reticent, and even followed her. He began to suffer from insomnia at night, made mistakes at work and was in a bad state. Zhang Xiaoping even despised him for not doing his job well. Later, her husband began to think that she was cheating, and no matter what she said, she couldn't dispel his thoughts. Don't want to do any more, the leader advised him to rest at home. Later, he was in a trance, and he talked about his wife's infidelity when he met people for a while. Xiaoping and his family discovered that something was wrong with her husband. Take it to the hospital for examination, schizophrenia! Xiaoping felt that the sky was falling and he was much older. Her husband can't work, and Xiaoping's work has also been greatly affected. She often goes to the hospital to see her husband in hospital. She regretted it. How can it be a beautiful day? ......

When my cousin David was in love, they were inseparable. Now they have been married for several years and have two children, but they often fight. When they start, the bench will hit them on the head, just like the enemy. Under the same roof, we are like strangers, doing our own things and eating our own meals. The child was taught by his mother to hate and despise his biological father. Pointing at his father's nose and calling him a loser is useless. I can't wait for the two of them to jump on him and beat him up. The reason for the fight is that my brother dislikes my cousin for not making money. My cousin also sold mobile phones and worked as a house salesman, but he didn't earn much. Sister-in-law is also a powerful person. She sold clothes, toys and shoes, and didn't make much money. The main reason is that she has a bad temper and has no patience to serve others. If the guest asks a few more questions, she will get bored. She doesn't like the picky attitude of the guest and often offends the guest. I have no ability, so I put all my hopes on my cousin. As a result, my cousin also let her down and became an enemy. Home is not home, and life is stumbling. Children are also the biggest victims. They learned to treat men with power. Children under ten years old! Their future life is doomed to be more bumpy.

These two things around us are marriages in which women are strong and men are weak. At least the woman is psychologically strong and the man is weak. Although they are contemporary women, many women still have the traditional concept of "marry a Han, dress and eat". Men have to support their families and work hard to earn money outside, while women are more or less dependent on men. If the situation is reversed, even the fashionable women now will find it hard to accept. However, what should I do if I encounter such a marriage?

In the American drama Desperate Housewives, there is a woman who is smart, beautiful and capable. However, her husband is a loyal person and has no ability. She went into battle shirtless and sheltered her family from the wind and rain, which broke her heart. At the same time, her husband became a second-class citizen at home. It's only a few minutes before she holds him. However, after more than ten years of accumulation, my husband turned over and got married late, and because he really couldn't stand his wife's strength, he came together with another woman who admired him and divorced her. He and his girlfriend had already talked about marriage, but when he saw the lonely and strong back of the hostess and thought of the ups and downs of more than ten years, his wife devoted herself wholeheartedly. Like the audience, he was in tears and his heart was broken. Finally, the two got back together and the man returned to his family.

Ada Choi, the "Queen", pushed her way through the crowd when she became popular and married Max Zhang, an unknown little boy who only knew kung fu, a typical combination of a strong woman and a weak man. Almost no one thinks highly of them, and the whole world is waiting for them to break up, but Ada Choi has become a "husband dazzler" and a diehard fan of her husband, "her husband is so handsome", "her husband is so sexy" and "her husband is so great". As long as her husband is present, she becomes obsessed with her sister and stars, extremely excited, and really loves her husband and shows her true feelings. This gave Max Zhang great dignity and confidence, and more importantly, gave him unconditional support and love. Later, Max Zhang made great achievements and his career became better and better. "The Grand Master" and "Breaking Wolf 2" won him the Golden Award and the Huading Award for Best Male Matching, making him a promising new star player. The two love each other more. People say that she married true love and got happiness. Actually, didn't He Jie and Hao fall in love at the beginning? How similar the beginning is, but the ending is quite different.

In fact, men are more vulnerable than women, and they need their wives' encouragement, care, trust and support. When a woman is strong and a man is weak, instead of accusing her of demanding, despising and abandoning her, give her love and time, and she will repay you with a better husband and a better home. This is the best win-win outcome. Even if a man's ability is really limited, husband and wife should help each other in the same boat, and Qi Xin should work together to give full play to their strengths. It doesn't have to be a man or a woman, as long as it is suitable. With the progress of society, we should also abandon old ideas. As long as we steer our marriage boat steadily, see more beautiful scenery and live a happy life hand in hand, everything is worth it.

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