Miss Wang has been in contact with her boyfriend for many years and has a good relationship. But when her boyfriend mentioned marriage, Miss Wang hesitated. The reason is that Miss Wang has an inexplicable fear of marriage. She is afraid to get along with a man day and night. Finally, she went to the psychological clinic for consultation. Psychologists tested Miss Wang's personality and gave psychological counseling. Finally, Miss Wang decided to get married. Miss Jia and Miss Chen were classmates from high school until they graduated from college. Now they are working in Nanning. They are going to register for marriage next month. A few days ago, they listened to their friends' advice and went to a psychological counselor to test whether their personalities were "compatible". Psychologists tested their personalities and told them that they were "complementary" and very suitable for marriage.
Experts say that pre-marital psychological counseling shows that people attach importance to the quality of marriage and inner world, which is the improvement of self-awareness and the reflection of people's living standards. More and more prospective couples consult themselves and their "other half" from the aspects of mental health and personality harmony, which can reduce the divorce rate and improve the quality of marriage.
Convenient "suit the right medicine"
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Teacher Liu and Ms. Wang are both remarried. Because their first marriage broke up because of personality differences, they were very cautious about getting married again. To this end, they will also go to a psychological counselor for a personality test. After testing, experts believe that although their personalities are quite different, if they can overcome their weaknesses and tolerate each other's weaknesses, they can also achieve marital harmony and form a happy family. Through the "pulse-taking" of psychological counseling experts, they know their future marital status like the palm of their hand. 10 year1On October 25th, they got married.
It is understood that general psychological counseling before marriage includes three aspects: the coordination of psychology and physiology, and the matching of sexual psychology and personality temperament. Dr. Huang, a psychological clinic in Guangxi District Hospital, believes that it is a prudent performance to pay attention to each other's personality and psychology before marriage. Whether the marriage is happy or not and whether the husband and wife are "well matched" is an important factor. Premarital psychological examination is necessary. Psychologists can take the pulse and help them understand each other's personality characteristics, so as to "prescribe the right medicine" in the future, adjust their psychology in time when conflicts occur, and maintain a happy and harmonious marriage.
According to a related person from Nanning Civil Affairs Bureau, family breakdown often involves many reasons, and examples of personality disagreement account for a large proportion. Some husbands or wives are narrow-minded, jealous, suspicious and often make much ado about nothing; Some people have a bad temper and often vent their dissatisfaction on their families; Some people have dark and negative attitudes, sharp words and extreme contempt for each other. But these psychological problems are not necessarily manifested in love, so it is necessary to have a "psychological physical examination" before marriage to understand each other's personality.
Happiness depends on tolerance.
Experts believe that "psychological examination" is just a kind of staff. Real marriage depends on the feelings of two people, and the accumulation of feelings cannot be separated from full communication. Therefore, we must not neglect our understanding of each other in our daily communication because of "psychological examination". Marriage is complicated, and there are many factors that affect marriage. However, the current psychological test is not accurate and scientific enough, and the result of psychological test is still only a reference index. To ensure the quality of marriage, the key is that both husband and wife should respect and tolerate each other after marriage.