1, sexual awareness suddenly increased. Due to the acceleration of physical sexual development, teenagers are particularly interested in sexual knowledge, have a strong desire to communicate with the opposite sex, and their curiosity and mystery about sex are increasing day by day.
2. With the rapid improvement of intelligence, the accuracy and generality of questions have developed rapidly, and the transition from image thinking to abstract logical thinking has gradually taken place.
3. Strong but unstable self-awareness. The desire for independence increases, and people can make their own judgments and opinions on things. However, they are often troubled by some contradictions, such as the contradiction between the desire for independence and the lack of independent ability, and the contradiction between the "adult feeling" in their hearts and the "childish" in the eyes of adults.
The emotional world is full of storms. Often manifested as childish emotional impulses and temporary instability, loneliness, sadness, excitement, joy and anger are subtly intertwined, forming a strong, shaken and uncoordinated emotional world.
5, hobbies are increasingly extensive, curiosity and thirst for knowledge are strong, full of ideals, love life, positive, willing to participate in various creative activities, and more interested in competitive, adventurous and interesting activities.
6. Adolescent students gradually alienate from their families, communicate more with their peers and make like-minded students. They talk about everything, are inseparable, regard friendship as supreme, and even do anything for their friends. At the same time, adolescence is the embryonic stage of sexual psychology, which shows that people begin to pay more attention to their own image, especially the evaluation of the opposite sex students, and try to communicate with the opposite sex. However, in the process of communication, their psychology becomes very complicated. On the one hand, they are eager to get close to each other, on the other hand, they are afraid of being discovered by others. In this way, the communication process is mysterious and shy, but it is embarrassing. In general, they don't really love each other, but they have the same language and like to communicate and appreciate each other. However, due to their different performances, they become the talk of students. Once they are exaggerated by students, they become colored news, which makes the parties very embarrassed. In this way, the communication with students of the opposite sex has caused a serious psychological burden, which directly affects the study and life of many people. This is the distress of adolescence. ...
7. During this period, teenagers' emotions expanded from their initial love for their loved ones to their respect and follow-up for classmates, teachers, stars, scientists and leaders, and from self-love to their love for the collective, hometown, people, motherland and all mankind. In other words, teenagers' emotions fully reflect sociality; At this time, their moral values have also changed. They worship successful people and celebrities, hate bad people and pursue fairness and justice. Once someone is found to have selfish distractions, they will sneer at it, because people and things with different opinions cannot be compromised and accommodated in real life, so they are vulnerable.
(1) Adolescent psychological barrier to the opposite sex: At the early stage of adolescent development, adolescent psychological young men are particularly sensitive to gender differences. Adolescent psychological young men are confused, shy, instinctively alienated and disgusted with the opposite sex because of the psychological changes of their second sexual characteristics. Young people's psychological indifference to each other is difficult to reconcile in study, work and games, which obviously improves their mood. Even childhood friends, the boundaries between men and women are very obvious. This period is about half a year to 1 year.
(2) Adolescent psychology is a period of fanaticism towards the opposite sex: with the gradual maturity of sexual development, sexual behavior will be initiated in the hormonal psychology of young men. The most significant psychological change is the rejection of the opposite sex at first, and then it turns into attraction and admiration for the opposite sex. At this time, young boys have a strong interest in women who are not far apart in age. Young boys suddenly have a tendency to approach the opposite sex actively, and the phenomenon of deliberately alienating the opposite sex no longer exists, and they always remain sensitive and close to the opposite sex. Due to the psychological phenomenon of adolescence, young teenagers are more and more fond of communicating with the opposite sex, so young boys will have psychology and behavior that need to attract the attention of the other party. In collective activities, adolescent psychology always wants to attract the attention of the opposite sex, pay attention to how they evaluate themselves in the eyes of the opposite sex, observe their reactions, and are unwilling to be criticized and accused in front of the opposite sex. Adolescent psychology always bluffs in front of the opposite sex to show their knowledge and talent.
They began to pay attention to their appearance, hair style, clothes and so on. And began to pay attention to listening, understanding and pondering the words, manners, moods and emotions of their loved ones, hoping to do something for each other. But at this time, adolescent psychology is often accompanied by a psychological state, that is, the psychological tension of adolescent boys. There are many reasons for the psychological tension of teenagers, such as secular ideas and external public opinion. The most important thing is the mentality and aimless behavior that even you feel puzzled, so that you lack the necessary self-confidence in your behavior and form the inner tension of self-feeling.
(3) Adolescent psychology produces romantic love period: After adolescent boys and girls complete their youth development, they focus their psychological feelings on the opposite sex they love, often get along with each other, help each other in work and study, take care of each other in life, and look forward to a happy married life. At this time, adolescent psychology's concern for other heterosexual friends is obviously reduced. He always tries to find opportunities to date his loved ones alone, and he doesn't want other friends to attend. At this time, adolescent boys' strong desire to love others is satisfied by the sense of * *.
There are many psychological changes in adolescence, especially for girls. In the early adolescence, children tend to maintain some psychological characteristics, which are naive, but adolescent psychology has some psychological characteristics of adults, can master more abstract concepts, have active thinking, and begin to like the opposite sex. In the late adolescence, the mind is highly developed, and he can master knowledge systematically and logically, master more general abstract concepts, and his understanding ability is constantly improved, approaching the adult level. Teenagers are simple in thinking, lack of social experience, lack of understanding of their own physiological changes, and are easily influenced by people around them.
15 is the epidemic age. Children are curious about the world around them and have a strong thirst for knowledge. They also take the initiative to establish contact with their parents. If their parents are not friendly enough, they will choose to establish contact with other elders or peers. This stage is the best time to educate teenagers about the rules of life. They are full of curiosity, clear thinking and strong enterprising spirit.
With the advent of adolescence, students have undergone tremendous changes in physiology, which will inevitably have a great impact on their psychological activities.
First of all, because of the changes in students' physical appearance, they have a sense of adulthood. So psychologically, they also hope to enter the adult world as soon as possible, and hope to get rid of everything in childhood as soon as possible, find a brand-new code of conduct, play a brand-new social role, get a brand-new social evaluation, and re-experience the meaning of life. In this new pursuit, they feel all kinds of confusion.
Secondly, due to the maturity of sex, students have developed curiosity and interest in the opposite sex, sprouted some new emotional experiences related to sex, and bred a desire for sex, but they can't publicly express this desire and emotion, so they feel a strong impact.
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