The child stayed with his grandparents for a long time and cried as soon as he left them. She only knows the language of her grandparents' hometown, but she doesn't know what Mandarin I speak.

(1) Grandparents have helped you with your children for so long, you need to appreciate their help.

(2) It is normal for children to leave their mothers at an early age and get close to their grandparents.

(3) Following grandparents for a long time, children can't speak Mandarin and are indifferent to your mother and son, which can be cultivated;

(4) Try to take your child with you and cultivate education. You still have a long way to go to cultivate feelings with your children.

If you have any questions, you can continue to discuss. The counselor wants to help you. I wish you happiness!