Although he only spent more than 30,000 yuan from beginning to end, he gave Lin a symbolic instruction of 20,000 yuan at home and spent more than 1 10,000 yuan at the wedding banquet. Lin instructed his family to help with the rest!
But Wang Fugui is a man after all. Although you don't have to worry about money, there are still many things.
Take wedding photos, accompany the forest and choose furniture. By the way, Lin instructed to get a car at home. Wang Fugui is very busy. However, Wang Fugui hasn't got a driver's license yet. He plans to get a driver's license after getting married so that he can try his father-in-law's luxury car. Listen to Lin Keke said this car is not cheap, the roof of this car is worth the price of a house in Liming County. Good things came to Wang Fugui one after another. If Wang Fugui felt sorry for Li Sijun before marriage. But at this point, Wang Fugui has forgotten Li Sijun, at least for now! Because in Wang Fugui's eyes, he always thought marriage was a big deal, and he needed a lot of money and a house. That's what his parents told him But now it seems really simple, Lin indicates strength, and everything seems to be going well!
People in the village began to envy Wang Fugui, and everyone thought that taking the civil service exam was king! Although the salary is not particularly high, but the social status is high, it is easy to marry a daughter-in-law, and you can save a lot of dowry money!
Liming county is a county with high cost of marrying a daughter-in-law! More than 65438+ 10,000, and there is a unified standard! There is a unified growth every year. Generally speaking, it can only be higher than this standard, not lower! For example, if someone else's girl gets married, she can get a dowry of 65,438+10,000, and you only need 80,000! People in the village may say, "Maybe there is something wrong with the girl in this family, so the price is lower than others!" " "In addition, people will think that this company has violated the rules, destroyed the market situation and depressed the price. If these words reach the man's home again, the man may not cherish the girl because of it. So, getting married at this time is like shopping. When you are not sure whether something is good or bad, it is generally not wrong for us to buy expensive things!
Perhaps the woman's family has fully understood this, so the dowry for marrying a girl is getting higher every year. Wang Fugui remembers that when my cousin got married two years ago, the market price was 60,000 yuan. In just two years, the dowry money rose to 65,438+10,000 yuan. The woman's family generally says that wages are rising, prices are rising, and dowry money will naturally rise. In addition, with more men and fewer women, it is naturally difficult for many young people from poor families to get married!
This is the comparison psychology at work. It is also a common phenomenon in inland poor provinces. Because they are poor and worried about their daughter's poor life, parents ask for expensive bride price for their daughter. In order to get a wife, the man began to scrape together and borrow money everywhere. Of the 654.38 million dowry, 60,000 may be borrowed from other places. After marriage, the man's parents will call this huge debt famine in their hometown and transfer it to their son. This also means that the new daughter-in-law needs to bear foreign debts when she gets married, so that less than two years after marriage, the new daughter-in-law has no good face when she was a girl, and there is only a kind of maturity after experiencing life in her slightly dull eyes. Wang Fugui calculated an account. If he marries Li Sijun, the bride price will be 654.38+ 10,000 yuan, and the county will buy a 70-flat house with 300,000 yuan for decoration. The cost of the wedding day and the wedding banquet is * * * 50 thousand, and some odds and ends add up to almost 500 thousand! Where did rural people get so much money at once? Wang Fugui has just started to work, and his salary is in his early 3000 s. Originally, Wang Fugui also knew that she would have a long way to go to get married like ordinary people! But marrying Lin Keke, I think it's very simple! Life and career have soared since then.
Wang Fugui may think that this is the reality, no matter what his classmates say about him. Maybe others think that Wang Fugui wants to struggle ten years less. But Wang Fugui didn't actually take the initiative to this step. Wang Fugui felt at ease, not because he enjoyed himself, but because he made a choice in the face of reality, so that both his parents, Sijun and himself could suffer less.
Wang Fugui admitted that he was timid, had no definite view since childhood, and needed to act according to his mother's instructions, just as the students later commented on Wang Fugui: Wang Fugui generally didn't make mistakes, but he always did what was best for him, but he lacked a kind of courage, a kind of responsibility and a kind of spirit that a man should have. Perhaps this is what makes people hate and pity Wang Fugui!
Anyway, Wang Fugui and Lin Keke got married, and more people blessed them. I feel that the whole county is celebrating for them! Sometimes a person's judgment on things does not follow his own heart, but blindly obeys the eyes of people around him! How ridiculous it is to know whether you are happy or not from the words of people around you!
Wang Fugui feels happy now, because almost everyone envies Wang Fugui, although some people privately say: "You look at Wang Naiwang's family, just like marrying a daughter-in-law, just marrying a son, living directly in the woman's house, with two shoulders and one head!"
Although Wang Fugui has heard such comments, her mother said in September that rural people love to talk, and their tongues grow on others, so they can say anything they like. Her mother comforted Wang Fugui that everyone in the village was jealous!
There is jealousy, because Wang Fugui's marriage is too easy and too beautiful. Suddenly broke the rules of the village and married a daughter-in-law. The women in the village, especially the daughters at home, were not married at the age of marriage, which really arranged a lot for Wang Fugui's family!
Envy or jealousy, the wedding will be held as usual. The wedding day was really lively. More than 30 mid-to high-end cars drove from the county seat to the remote village of Wang Fugui's hometown. Everyone in the village came out to watch the fun. For the combination of Wang Fugui and Lin Keke, almost all the people in the village came to help. Only my cousin Li didn't go. When she is with her, Li often goes home with her. Whenever the jujube tree in front of the Li family hangs red, she always asks her niece to go home for dinner. Since college, Wang Fugui, Li Sijun and Niu have had many wonderful memories under that jujube tree.
In summer, enjoy the cool under the tree, with a small round table and three chairs made of rattan. There are delicious meals on the table, as well as bean jelly that Wang Fugui likes and small cold dishes that Li Sijun likes. During the Mid-Autumn Festival, I was still enjoying the moon under that jujube tree, eating walnut moon cakes and apples, and naturally there was a bumper harvest of dates. During the winter vacation and when I go to the Li family, I always take out red dates with thin skin and thick flesh to entertain and.
Now, I am standing on the roof of my house, looking at the familiar and unfamiliar jujube tree in front of Lijiamen across the ravine. It was late summer and early autumn, and the temperature began to drop. You need to put on your coat when you go out in the morning and evening. At this time, most of the fruits of jujube trees have been hung red, round and bright red, like a red windbreaker worn by a girl, which is particularly eye-catching. Especially the jujube trees in the sunset are more beautiful, and the breeze is blowing. Jujube seems to be wrapped in a golden coat, swaying in the breeze, looking from a distance, like a small lantern, bringing people infinite beautiful reverie. However, I have never walked into this jujube tree or Li's home since I broke up with him.
The jujube tree now is still the same jujube tree, and people are still those people. It's just that the relationship has changed ......