Mentioned this matter, the mood is undoubtedly painful, it is estimated that everyone has not forgotten this tragedy!
Jiangge's mother is a very strong and independent woman. Because of her husband's old idea of son preference, she often beats and scolds Jiangge. Jiang's mother divorced Jiang's father for the sake of her children and raised them alone.
Mother teaches well, daughter does well, and is excellent in all aspects. I went to Japan to study. I thought the good days were coming, but I didn't expect to meet the bad news that my mother Jiang was killed with her daughter.
After the incident, mother Jiang continued to avenge her daughter, and the bad guys got some punishment. But sadness is greater than heart death, and the pain of losing "independence" may take a lifetime to lick.
And will Liu Xin, who is afraid of death and causes his friend to die for himself, be on tenterhooks all day?
Over the years, Jiangge's mother, who lost her independence, failed to get out of the pain and often went to Lacrimosa.
There is nothing wrong with kindness, but kindness must have a certain bottom line. Learn to protect yourself while being kind, and don't hurt yourself and your family.
What will happen to those children who don't know how to protect themselves?
1, easy to be bullied
Some children don't know how to resist and protect themselves when they are bullied. In the face of the blind compromise of bullies, it has become even worse.
This will do great harm to children's physical and mental development, and will cause psychological trauma to children and affect their lives.
2. Lack of understanding of people
People will make many friends in this life, and everyone's temperament is different. If children don't know how to protect themselves, they may make friends carelessly, and others will sell you and still count money for others.
You should know how to protect yourself, learn to know people, and don't make friends with people with ulterior motives. Make friends first.
3. Easy to be cheated
Abduction of children is a common occurrence. Many abducted children are "cheated" Children are insecure and can easily fall into the trap of others. Parents should cultivate their children's awareness of self-protection from an early age.
4. Being in danger without knowing it.
Weak sense of security, often encounter danger unconsciously, just like a family in a fable, with a straight chimney and a lot of firewood next to the earthen stove.
The guest reminded him that the chimney should be bent and the firewood should be piled far away, otherwise it would easily cause a fire, but the host didn't think so. He didn't expect a real fire.
This is a true portrayal of being in danger without knowing it, lacking safety awareness and not knowing how to prevent problems before they happen.
5. Be at a loss in the face of danger
Parents should always educate their children about safety and teach them some emergency measures. Otherwise, children will be at a loss when they are in danger, have no coping methods and don't know how to save themselves.
What should parents do? 1. Cultivate children's safety awareness from an early age.
Safety education must be done well, and parents cannot be indifferent. There is never a shortage of bad people in this world.
A little lizard is very naughty. He didn't listen to his parents and went out to play. He was caught by two children and made his family very anxious. Finally, the child's mother released the lizard, and the lizard was reunited with the whole family.
Parents must not be careless in their children's safety education. When you are young, you can tell your baby some safety knowledge. When you are older, you should cultivate your baby's safety awareness. For example, don't run around, don't take things from strangers, don't go with others, and so on.
2. Teach children how to deal with danger.
Parents can let their children know what to do when they are in danger in various ways. For example, you can watch videos, tell stories, role play, read picture books and so on.
Let your child know that there are many people who can help you when you are in danger. The first thing is to call the police, whose purpose is to serve the people. If there are no policemen nearby, find staff in various places and even ask passers-by for help. After all, one more person has one more chance.
Also, you should learn to shout loudly and ask others for help, so as to attract the attention and vigilance of people around you. Many hands make light work, and you have a better chance of being saved.
3. Teach children to distinguish right from wrong
Establish a correct view of right and wrong for children from an early age, let them know the difference between right and wrong, see the essence of others when making friends, and avoid being cheated and hurt when confused and sincerely paying.
Don't make friends with morally corrupt people, because you never know when he will stab you in the back. You can only be a thief for a thousand years, but you can't prevent thieves for a thousand years. We can't always guard against villains, we must put an end to them from the source.
Helping others is a virtue, but never put yourself in danger by helping others. Protect yourself before helping others.
Life is precious, everyone has only one time. Parents must cultivate their children's awareness of self-protection and don't let the Jiangge tragedy happen again.