It turns out that people with "incomplete identities" are really swindling and cheating on the website. Obviously, this man is the victim.
There must be something wrong with the real-name user authentication of dating websites. Earlier, I saw many netizens commenting on posts and forums, saying that there were often wine trays and scammers on the website. As a college student who just graduated, I haven't touched these websites, and I'm not in a hurry to get to know them. However, looking at the relevant screenshots, the victim said that his ex-wife deliberately concealed her marriage history and finally sued her ex-husband for 200,000. The victim also indicated that she spent millions on the woman before marriage ... This is enough to show that the woman's motives are impure, not to mention "professional marriage fraud", but it can also be characterized as marriage fraud. Although the dating website issued a statement saying that it has cooperated with relevant departments to investigate and collect evidence, it has actually fully admitted its dereliction of duty in platform supervision.
Many people discuss that the victim's emotional intelligence is too low, and I won't comment on this. Personally, I may not like to use some derogatory terms to describe others. I'm sure that low EQ is negative, and even low EQ doesn't exist. App developers, corporate legal persons and people who can make achievements in their careers should have excellent IQ and EQ. Rather than saying that his emotional intelligence is low, it is better to analyze his psychological activities more accurately by combining his experience.
I have also read many netizens' analysis on the loss of the victim's self-esteem caused by the unequal status of men and women, and that she was too kind inside, so she listened to the woman's words, and because she was holding the handle, she was threatened and threatened, and she chose to commit suicide because she was desperate for her emotional career. I want to say, in fact, these factors may be there. He also regretted signing the agreement without consulting his relatives and friends earlier, and regretted not taking corresponding measures, so in fact, he didn't want to make such a choice. He felt really cornered. It's useless for him to analyze again. He left. What the incident itself can bring us is how to avoid similar situations, communicate with relatives and friends in time, seek the help of lawyers in time, and even conduct psychological counseling.
About the online marriage fraud group. As ordinary people, most of us may be at a loss when we encounter such a thing, but we may ask others for help at the first time. But the victim may be too independent or have secrets, so he chose a person to bear it. The key is that he didn't have a correct and clear understanding of this matter, and his ex-wife just broke through his psychological weakness and occupied a dominant position. What do you think of this scam? It's just that the victim was grabbed by the handle and coerced, and the psychological pressure was too great, which led to misjudgment. The agreement that the lawyer got from his ex-wife is also full of loopholes, which may prove that they are a group. Maybe if the victim doesn't give money, his ex-wife will find a high-ranking uncle actor to threaten.
Many times, we are frightened by the false threat from the other side, which makes us lose our normal thinking ability and analytical ability, and then make irrational behavior.
Be careful when making friends, and be more careful when getting married. Some people may approach you and hurt you because of your kindness. Be vigilant and don't give others a chance to enter.