Psychologist
Children's psychological growth should be put first.
The reporter interviewed the national psychological counselor on this matter. According to experts, it is not uncommon for students to commit suicide by jumping off a building. On the one hand, it is caused by exam-oriented education, on the other hand, it is caused by the closed management of schools and parents.
Experts say that exam-oriented education makes students' lives monotonous and even makes children feel lonely. Poor life will make students lack emotional understanding of society and family. Therefore, it is necessary to let students practice in nature and society and enhance their ability to communicate with others, so that children's minds will be broader.
Closed family management is mainly reflected in that parents take learning as the core, regard learning as their only life, pay too much attention to academic performance, but ignore the instability of children's learning emotions and a series of psychological and physical disharmonies caused by the rapid development of organisms. At the same time, when parents encounter these problems, they don't try to solve them, which leads to catastrophe.
Parents should put their children's psychological growth first. When children grow up psychologically, learning will change from passive to active.
Schools should also pay more attention to children's psychological growth, teachers should know how to care about children's psychological changes, students' knowledge can't keep up, teachers should give correct guidance, and happiness is based on achievements, so that children will have a sense of accomplishment and a happy mood, and they will learn more actively. In addition, schools should have more psychological counselors, and a school with 2,000 people needs at least 4 psychological counselors.
At the same time, students must keep calm, think calmly and don't panic when encountering problems.