Communicate frequently
Strengthening the ideological communication between parents and children can not only let parents know their children's real thoughts and motives, but also let children understand their parents' sufferings, gradually learn to share their worries and solve problems for their parents and learn to take part in family responsibilities.
Observe children
Parents should consciously observe the friends their children often make. At the same time, children's textbooks, exercise books and lecture notebooks are also their inner monologues, from which parents can learn a lot of information.
Expand information sources
Go to school often and ask the class teacher to find out how the children behave in school, how they get along with their classmates and whether they can receive the teacher's education. This information can usually fully reflect the child's mental state. In order to correct children's shortcomings and mistakes more comprehensively and deeply, we can take children's playmates and classmates as the objects of understanding, and if necessary, we can establish regular contact with parents of children's friends so that they don't have to worry about their own thoughts and behaviors.