For married middle-aged single women wandering in Spain, once they have feelings with men around them, most of them are "practical". In layman's terms, it is my woman's commitment to a man, and what benefits your man can bring me. Therefore, the emotional world of middle-aged single overseas Chinese women, especially married middle-aged single women, is very rational, not romantic, not as simple, impulsive and persistent as young people. A woman and a man can come together, largely based on the interdependence and support in daily life, business and work. If the balance support point of this dependence and support is lost due to subjective and objective factors, this dependence and support will be out of balance in an instant, so that men and women who can still maintain a little ambiguous relationship in the past will not hesitate to part ways and find the other half who they think is worthy of relying on in life according to their own positioning. Once you feel that there is no need to continue, men and women who are reunited will break up again, and there are few tears and sadness. This cycle explains the cognitive degree and value orientation of middle-aged men and women to the westward journey in real life, forming the same colorful kaleidoscope. Behind these emotional entanglements between men and women, it reflects the cruelty and helplessness of real life.
Meet the first man and break up because of his illness.
According to Spain's Oulang. Com, in 200 1 year, Amy (pseudonym), who had reached middle age, came to Spain to seek gold and worked as a bar in a Chinese restaurant in the suburbs of Madrid. At that time, there was an imbalance between men and women in Spanish Chinese restaurants, and there were few women. Although Mei is a semi-immortal woman in Xu Niang, and can't rank among women in China, in the eyes of men in Spanish Chinese restaurants, Mei is a slender and delicate fairy. After slowly finding out the details of singles in May, a group of restaurant men quickly launched an emotional offensive against May. At first, Amy despised those who made kitchens from her heart, but later she thought that she had no place to live and was always bullied by her boss and some people in her life, so she wanted to find a man to be her backer.
In the position of Chinese restaurant workers at that time, the chef was the highest and the boss valued it most. So after repeated weighing, Ah Mei threw herself into the arms of a restaurant chef, a man in Zhejiang in his fifties. The chef's wife is in China, and Amy threw herself at him, which made him very happy. She also gives full play to her strengths and takes good care of Amy in her life. She cooks stew for Amy every night after work, and the chef supports her. Amy's life in the restaurant has changed. May is very satisfied with this. However, as the life of "living together" with the chef continued, Mei gradually began to get tired of life. At this point, in Mei's eyes, the chef is no longer the original glorious image.
Although the chef takes good care of May in life, he seldom gives money to buy some clothes, shoes, hats and perfumes that women like, which is very stingy. When shopping with the chef, Amy took the opportunity to give directions, but the chef gave Amy the feeling that she was confused and just unmoved. So Mei decided to change partners at the right time and break up with the chef as soon as she met the right owner.
People often say that people are inferior to the sky. A year later, the chef was hospitalized with cerebral thrombosis, but after recovery, he left sequelae. Although he can still go to the kitchen, he can't speak clearly and walk a little unbalanced. Seeing this, Mei gradually became indifferent to the chef, and then simply found an excuse to move out of the workers' house and rent a house alone. Although the chef still can't forget May, he visits May's residence every once in a while, but May is lukewarm to him, and gradually the chef feels that May has been left out in the cold, and finally he is well-advised to leave, thus ending the relationship between May and the first man.
I met the second man because my wife came to West to break up.
After breaking up with the chef, Mei's life was relatively calm. At this point, she has left the restaurant, stayed in a foreigner's potato factory, and shared a home with several China people in the same factory. In the following days, Mei met the second man in her western life.
The person who broke into Mei's life came from the same town as Mei. Seeing the villagers in tears, the local accent quickly narrowed the emotional distance between Mei and this fellow villager. Unlike the chef in the restaurant, this fellow villager, while pursuing May, is not only meticulous in life, but also dares to spend money and is extremely generous. As long as it is something that Mei likes, men will pay for it when they say it, which is very generous. This made Amy, who loves vanity and likes to dress up, very useful, so after a period of emotional running-in, Amy became the second woman of this fellow man.
The man in the same village has a wife in China and is going through the formalities of wife reunion in the west. Nevertheless, this does not affect men's feelings for May at all. In their days together, men poured their love for Chinese wives into May. When Mei's relatives left for Spain to search for gold, the man asked for leave to meet him in Paris, France, as busy as his relatives. People have feelings, which makes Mei gradually develop real feelings for this man who originally wanted to take part in accidental amusement. In the interview, Mei said that her love life was the most unforgettable day since she came overseas, and it is also an unforgettable day for her so far. If this man's wife doesn't come to Madrid in the end, she will live with this man like a real husband and wife. But God is against her.
A year later, a man's application for his wife and children to reunite in Spain was approved. Mei felt lost and sad when she saw the beating of Yuanyang. As the arrival time of a man's wife approaches, this feeling becomes stronger and stronger. So Amy confided to the man, and the man comforted Amy, saying that even if his wife came to Spain, they would not break up and keep this relationship in private. When Mei saw this scene, she felt a little comforted.