Seven years and three months, which is lighter or heavier, is clear at a glance. But the reality is that it is so easy to give people a heavy blow. Some things are irregular, the world is changing, but it is not as cool as people's hearts.
The human heart is separated by the stomach. Sometimes you will think that the person in front of you is a couple and a sweetheart, and you should be sincere and honest. If you think so, you are wrong, your sweetheart, or maybe you are not his sweetheart.
Everything you think is indestructible is actually fragile. You don't even know which link has gone wrong, so everything is reshuffled, unprepared and without warning.
Mu Mu is most proud of his love. She met him at the age of 23. When she was traveling, he picked up Jiang Mumu's cell phone and called her back. As soon as the phone was connected, Jiang Mumu was fascinated by his voice.
She said excitedly, "Intuitively, I think this must be the person I like." Considering this, she lied that she was in a foreign country, delayed returning her mobile phone for two hours, went home and put on beautiful makeup before going out to see him.
There is nothing wrong with Mu Mu's feeling. When he appeared, Mu Mu felt his heart beat a beat slower. His clothes are all in line with Mu Mu's aesthetics, only tailored to her requirements.
Mu Mu had a plan. When she meets him, she will get his contact information. That night, she chatted with him and learned that he went to college in this city and didn't fall in love, so she started her own plan to pursue love.
She didn't leave a trace, and she was very excited. It wasn't long before he started chasing. Even many years later, he always thought that he chased him first.
To tell the truth, Mu Mu is not suitable to stand with him in terms of appearance and height. He is much more dazzling than Mu Mu. But he said it doesn't matter, he likes to soak his interesting heart.
02
I met them that year, and they were both seniors. He was Mu Mu's first love, but Mu Mu was not his first love. Originally, people around him didn't think highly of them, because just looking at their looks, he didn't seem so reassuring. Many people think that Mu Mu can't win his heart for a long time.
But later, they walked through the university, persisted for a year after graduation, and did not break up.
Their love still looks sweet. Mu Mu liked to bask in happiness at that time, sometimes it was a chat record of two people, and sometimes it was a photo of going out to play.
When two people stand together, the gap is inexplicably smaller. Some people say: It is said that two people together for a long time will become more and more like husband and wife. It seems that this is true.
Mu Mu always teased him when he heard such words: "You see, what they mean is that the longer you and I are together, the uglier we get. What should we do? " He also smiled: "I think the longer you follow me, the better."
At that time, they really loved each other, and everyone could see that.
Therefore, when two people love running all the way, everyone just wishes them well. After all, there were many couples who were together in college, but after graduation, many people were separated from each other, but few of them persisted.
No one ever said that he was unworthy, and even became a love fairy tale in a circle of friends. Some people say that if Mu Mu can break up with him, he will never believe in love again.
But in fact, Mu Mu has always had his own anxieties.
03
That is, he refused to marry himself.
At the age of 28, they had been in love for five years. Mu Mu was the first to propose and the first to get married. He said, "At present, my career is in its infancy and it is still unstable. Can you wait for me for another two years? "
Mu Mu was a little unhappy, but she agreed. Two years ago, Mu Mu expressed the idea of getting married from the side. At that time, he said that he hadn't bought a house yet, and he didn't want Mu Mu to follow him without a home. Mu Mu, can you wait for him for another two years?
His family is in poor condition. After graduating from college, he stayed in this city and worked hard. Everything depends on him. At that time, he said, "If Jiang Mumu doesn't want to suffer from him, he will accept Jiang Mumu's breakup."
Mu Mu was moved by his frankness. When he said this, she turned her back and said, "I want to be with you no matter what." I am not afraid of suffering. "
At that time, he gave a promise that he would get married and take a bath after the two had established themselves in the city. Mu Mu didn't care about this before. All she cares about is that he likes himself.
But later, as he grew older, Mu Mu sometimes worried that he had paid the price for his youth over the years.
She had no doubt about their feelings, and Mu Mu knew that he loved himself. Once he woke up in the middle of the night, he suddenly sat up in a panic and touched his side with his hand. Mu Mu asked him what happened, and he said, "I just dreamed that you left me, which scared me to death."
At the age of 30, he got married, and the bride was a girl who had just known her for three months, not taking a shower.
04
After seven years of long-distance running in love, when Mu Mu thought that they should all live a habit in each other's lives, and they can't live without each other, he left without hesitation and started a new seven years with a marriage certificate and another girl.
"After seven years of love, he had a flash marriage with a girl he had known for three months." Mu Mu said: "When I broke up at the age of 30, I knew that he didn't want to get married after a long time."
Why did he choose to break up with Mu Mu?
No one knows the real reason. Mu Mu guessed: Maybe two people have been together for a long time, and they are not interested in each other. He thinks that the rest of his life will be like this. He feels bored and monotonous, and he doesn't want to live it, right?
Or, he just likes the new and hates the old?
But in any case, this is a love that is willing to "admit defeat" after all. Mu Mu didn't make any noise or trouble. She watched him step into marriage quickly and healed herself for a long time.
Later, she often said, "it won't be long to be with someone." It is better to get married after the love period, and then use the responsibility of marriage to bind each other. " So it is not easy to separate easily. "