If a girl is born in this country, her face will be full of brilliance, and she will have a big feast to celebrate. If it is a boy, he will be locked up for three days and dare not say anything.
Unmarried women are called "A-mei" and unmarried men are called "brothers". A-mei of marriageable age usually gets married by "robbing relatives".
It is a good time for brothers and sisters to get together at the annual traditional song festival, or on the night of Spring Festival, Dragon Boat Festival and Mid-Autumn Festival.
A group of brothers boarded A-mei's wooden house and asked A-mei to sing a song. Clever A-mei often knows his brother's personality, hobbies, intelligence, sentiment and ideals through singing. When my brother and sister see each other right, they will try their best to keep him, carry him, drag him or pull him, in short, to keep him.
After my brother stayed, he slowly entered the stage of love and then began a trial marriage. This trial marriage is very interesting. A-mei's parents will leave all the dirty work to their brother, and it will take three years to try! Ha, three years later, A-mei and her parents were satisfied before they could get married formally. Ha! Interesting!
We pay attention to three sets of wedding dowry here, one is huge cash, the other is the house, and the third is the car. When the Dong people got married, my brother also gave my sister a three-piece suit. A silver comb is for his wife; A silver bowl and a pair of silver chopsticks are for future children; A set of silver ornaments is also for my wife (including silver headdress, silver necklace, silver hexagrams, silver earrings, silver bracelets, silver anklets, etc.). ).
When getting married, my brother will carry the meat, vegetables and daily necessities prepared at home to my sister's house. They didn't have a wedding motorcade, and a group of brothers shouldered the burden and lined up leisurely to A-mei's house. This is a culture passed down from history, because they first took the mountain road! Even after the completion of expressway, this culture was still passed on.
All married women have a remarkable feature, that is, they should wear a "marriage certificate"-a silver comb on their heads. There is a lovely name after marriage-Xiaoguzi, which can be called by men, women and children.
Within one year of marriage, my brother must get A-mei pregnant, or A-mei will dissolve her marriage. Ha! This is completely different from our traditional culture of Han nationality ... I am happy when the tour guide says so! Smile three times! Ha ~ ha ~ ha ~
That day, I climbed Yaoshan by cable car. After we came to the top of the mountain to watch the wedding performance of the Dong people, I enthusiastically chose a set of their national costumes and gave them a good compliment.
I think, let me be a high hostess, too. Ha ha!
When I put on a bright red embroidered dress, a shiny silver crown and a string of equally shiny silver rings on my chest, I stood leisurely in front of the mirror, oh! I can hardly recognize myself.
Look! A beautiful Dong will soon appear in front of your eyes!
Their language is also very special. "Tooth comes" means hello, "grandma comes" means welcome, "sticky teeth" means thanks, "Ga Lao" means Dong people's big song, and "Yao says" means I love you. ...
I said to my husband: Haha, you learn quickly. Please say "distal teeth" to me when you learn!