Rake the ear, the word in Chongqing dialect means a man who is afraid of his wife. "Lie on your ears" is a Sichuanese saying that men are afraid of their wives, which is often said to be henpecked. If Sichuanese say that a man "rakes his ears", it means contempt, because Sichuanese believe in "marrying a wife without a square head and being a man without raking his ears".
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