First, in communication with the opposite sex, never use the imperative audit mode.
Many people in life don't really know much about chatting, and even think that chatting is just a casual talk, so when they meet, they are all kinds of questions such as "how old are you" and "what do you do". Maybe you think the problem is normal, but you can understand it from another angle. What do you think if the other person asks you these questions as soon as they meet?
Especially in software communication, it is very common to ask these questions in exchange for each other's silence, perhaps. " . . "After all, in daily communication, these imperative questions are really hard to accept and even make the other party feel disgusted.
Second, in the communication with the opposite sex, I know the mode of sharing first and then consulting.
When communicating with the opposite sex, we must pay attention to one problem: two people are not so familiar. If you want to know each other's information, you must share your own information. For the opposite sex, blind questions will only make you feel disgusted, and it may be better to consult from another angle.
When communicating with the opposite sex, you can use the method of information exchange. For example, if I want to know the other person's age, I can say, "Hello, I am XX years old this year. How old are you? " Through polite information exchange, let the other side have a good impression, which can be conducive to future communication.
Refuse to check the household registration consultation method, and use the information exchange method from another angle, and you will find that communication is not so difficult.