When the river of years flows through your arms, carefree childhood has long been like a dream. Will you sigh that time flies? Spring flowers and autumn fruits, forest summer and winter snow, will you feel the true meaning of life? Feel life, you will live out the value of life, you will live out the quality of life, you will live out the wonderful life.
Life is a bud with crystal dew on the wasteland in spring; A withered and yellow weed, swaying in the autumn wind and Shan Ye. Life is a rose in bud in spring; Autumn is full of branches, a bunch of heavy golden fruits. Life is like a fiery red sun spewing out from the eastern sky in the morning, painting a beautiful scenery for the sky. Life is like a golden leaf in autumn, falling quietly and peacefully.
From genes, particles and electrons to elephants, hippos and whales; From a grain of dust to mountains and rivers, to the earth, solar system, galaxy and even the whole universe, it constitutes a complete and huge organic whole. Compared with the galaxies in celestial bodies, human life is really very small. However, on this planet, only human beings can create an incomparably splendid civilization and make our earth full of vitality.
Feel the life and look at the starry sky. In the nebula deep in the universe, new stars are born, old stars are dying, and the earth and the moon are everywhere. Both the sun and the Milky Way have their own ages. They have gone through childhood, adolescence, youth and middle age, and are gradually moving towards old age and twilight. Compared with the sun, moon and stars, human life is too short, but there are more than 20 thousand days and nights. When people come to this world, it is fate and opportunity. We should cherish this fate, cherish life, care for life, walk through the four seasons of life without regrets, work hard to cultivate our own world and let the fragrance of life spread all over our beautiful planet.
Life is an experience of life, an experience. On the hurried journey of life, everyone's pace is different, and the experiences and results are more colorful and different. Objective environment and conditions certainly play an important role in people's destiny and future, and sometimes even play a decisive role; But people's subjective efforts are always the fundamental factor.
In a limited life, setbacks, failures, grievances, pains ... everything can be encountered. We should regard all this as experience, experience is wealth, and ups and downs are nutrition. We should keep a philosophical and ordinary traveler's mood and feelings at any time and under any circumstances. We should treat every day with a smile, treat every job with diligence and treat everyone with frankness. Grasp life with a detached attitude, calmly face the complicated world, and face up to the embarrassment and misfortune of your own living time and space with dignity. Taste the beauty of life with a leisurely mood.
[Example 1]
Three stories told by my mother
Wang ling
When I was a child, my mother told me many stories, but as I grew older, most of them were like passengers drifting away on a long-distance train, but three stories always hit my heart. They once told me a truth so profoundly: repay kindness with kindness.
(A) the fish in the deep sea
Legend has it that there is a kind of fish in the vast deep sea. After giving birth, the female fish will lose her eyes and can no longer find food. If there is no food in between, the female fish will starve to death. In order not to let mother starve to death, newborn fish swam into her mouth in droves and willingly let her eat herself. In fact, why don't they know that they are supporting their mothers with their lives? However, they still do it without hesitation. A month later, my mother finally recovered her sight.
(2) Rats and elephants
In a dense forest, there lived a handsome elephant. Its tall body is like a wall, and its thick limbs are like four stakes. One night, when he went out for a walk, he met a mouse that fell into a trap and asked him for help. The elephant said doubtfully, "How did you fall into the trap?" "A wild cat chased me and accidentally fell in!" The mouse replied gloomily. "all right." The kind elephant put its long nose into the trap and the mouse climbed up smoothly. "I want to repay you!" Standing at the elephant's feet, the mouse said loudly. The elephant smiled and walked away. One day, the elephant was caught by the hunter, and the next one was about to be taken away. Very sad. After hearing this, the mouse gathered a group of friends and kept gnawing at the net rope, and finally rescued the elephant before dawn.
(3) Scholars and ants
During the reign of Emperor Taizong Zhenguan, a scholar and several fellow villagers were in Beijing to catch the exam. Rest in the ruined temple and take out dry food to eat. While eating, the scholar found a small ant on his steamed bread, and he gently pinched it down. The companion shouted, "Pinch it to death and steal our dry food!" " The scholar shook his head, gently put it on the ground and said to it, "Go, poor little ant!" " "The ant stayed for a while and soon crawled away. After the exam, the scholar suddenly remembered that the word "master" was written a little less and became "Wang Ren". He sighed with anger that this year was hopeless. However, after the list was issued, the scholar topped the list. It turned out that the little ant knew this and lay on the test paper, but the examiner didn't see it.
I often think of these three stories, and I often think of a sentence hanging on my mother's lips: My child, you should be grateful for your kindness. I admire the nobleness of "the grace of dripping water, the reward of gushing water", and I admire Meng Jiao's filial piety of "only an inch of long grass is a little affectionate, and three wisps of spring scenery are a little rewarded". Maybe I will experience a bumpy road in my later life, but no matter where I am, I will never give up a virtue-gratitude.
[Comment] At the beginning of the article, the reasons for writing are pointed out in refined words, and the opinions are put forward closely with the materials: gratitude and kindness. The main part does not adopt the traditional method of "inheritance and transformation", but calmly tells three short stories of "gratitude and kindness", and clarifies his own views in interesting narratives, which is quite a legacy of various schools of prose using fables to reason. Quoting famous aphorisms at the end can also summarize the connotation of the story and make the theme clearer and deeper.
[Example 2]
A reminder of life
Jiang Haiyang
The bright moonlight, burning red leaves, lush grass and gentle breeze weave us into a picturesque world garden, with butterflies flying, swallows chirping, birds singing and insects singing; Unique green plum, flowers bloom. How wonderful life is, it not only gives us spiritual pleasure, but also enlightens our hearts and benefits people for life.
Life is a thick book of life, and its glorious title page is full of poems that stir life's enthusiasm: If life is a ship, don't berth, don't go with the flow, raise high sails and March towards unknown areas! If life is an eagle, don't wander, don't hover at low altitude, you should soar to higher blue sky.
Life is a polyphonic lyre. With a flick of your finger, you will play the philosophical tune of the richest man: you can't treat yourself as a piece of loose sand and let others trample you into a road; You can't think of yourself as an erratic catkin and let the wind blow you upside down; You can't treat yourself as a model of decoration and let others' eyes wander on you; You can't think of yourself as a grain of sand, always covered with yellow sand; You should be a pearl, shining in front of everyone; You should be a flying dragon, wandering in the sky; You should be a thin flame, burning into brilliant light!
Life is an old man who has experienced many vicissitudes. He told me earnestly: only rolling rivers can create smooth and beautiful beaches; Only a struggling life can create a colorful life; After experiencing failures and setbacks, we can move towards success and glory; Only after experiencing the pain of loss will we know the preciousness of possession; Only when you have experienced the sharpening of steep rocks can you forge a sword and directly cut down the peaks and rocks that hinder your progress.
Some people say that life is a glass of brewed wine, whether it is sweet or bitter, you have to drink it; Some people say that life is a self-acting play, whether it is good or bad, it must be performed; Life itself tells me that life is a kaleidoscope in your hand, and its color is dominated by you. You are the master of life, and you are the master of your own destiny. ...
[Comment] The article focuses on depicting a beautiful picture of life at the beginning, with a beautiful voice at the beginning; The main part uses three metaphors: life is a thick book of life, life is a polyphonic six-string, life is an old man who has experienced vicissitudes, revealing the enlightenment of life; At the end, life is compared to a "kaleidoscope". Its color is dominated by the owner of life, vivid and full of philosophy.
Example 3
Fill the heart with sunshine
Huaming
A person's state of mind, like the sky, is sunny and cloudy.
There was once a painter who painted a picture that he thought was perfect, and he hoped to be recognized by others. So he took the painting to the street and hung it up, asking passers-by to circle the shortcomings of the painting. A day later, when he took the painting home, it was full of circles-it didn't do any good. Desperate and heartbroken, he decided to wash his hands of it. Later, his friend suggested that he try again, but this time he asked passers-by to circle the advantages of the painting. When he brought it back to see it, he was surprised: what was once considered bad in the circle was now circled-there was no defect. So, the painter picked up the brush again and painted with confidence. Finally, he became a world-famous painter.
How can the same person have such different results? There is no doubt that what matters is the painter's mood. For the first time, let others comment on this painting, throwing a pot of cold water on the hopeful painter, dousing his hope and letting the shadow cover his mood; The second time I asked others to comment on this painting, his heart was full of sunshine, and the fire of hope was rekindled. He confidently advanced towards his goal and finally realized his ideal.
Perhaps, we have encountered such a story.
Once, I went hiking with a classmate and walked halfway up the mountain. I was panting and sweating. At this time, my legs seem to weigh a thousand pounds, and my whole body strength is not enough to breathe, let alone climb the mountain. You can look up at the front. The steep peaks are getting higher and higher, and the winding mountain roads are getting longer and longer. It seems that you can climb as many mountains as you can, and you can walk as far as you can. It is simply a scene of chasing the moon when you were a child. I began to worry about whether I could reach the top of the mountain, so I just sat down and never wanted to go again. At this time, my classmate shouted at the foot of the mountain: "Look, we climbed so high!" " "I turned to look at the road I had walked. Really, unconsciously, we walked so long and climbed so high. The mountain road is like a long ribbon, tied at our feet calmly and elegantly. I have never walked such a long mountain road, and I began to admire myself. Since I have climbed so high, I am sure I can climb the rest. Thinking like this, my body seems to be much stronger and my legs are much lighter. The mountain road no longer seemed so difficult to walk, and finally I climbed to the top of the mountain.
From this, I think there are mountains in our life. If you want to climb these mountains, you must first remove the mountains in your heart and let the bright sunshine shine on you. Otherwise, we will be overwhelmed by the mountains in our hearts.
This reminds me of another story.
There is a young man named Henry in America. He is only in his thirties, and he has accomplished nothing yet. He sighed all day and felt that he could do nothing but idle away his time.
One day, one of his good friends found him with a magazine and said seriously, "This magazine says that Napoleon had an illegitimate child who lived in America, and this illegitimate child had a son. He has all the characteristics like you, he is short and speaks English with a French accent ... "Henry took the magazine with a grain of salt, thought for a long time, and finally believed that he was Napoleon's grandson.
Since then, Henry has completely changed his view of himself. In the past, he felt inferior because he was short; What he appreciates now is this self. "It's good to be short! This is the image of my grandfather commanding thousands of troops! " He used to think he couldn't speak English well, but now he is proud of speaking English with a French accent! When encountering difficulties, he will think that "the word' difficulty' is not in Napoleon's dictionary". In this way, with the belief that he is Napoleon's grandson, Henry walked out of the haze in his heart and walked into the confident sunshine. He walked out of the house with a smile, looked for a job easily and devoted himself to everything. He believes he can do it because he is a descendant of Napoleon. Three years later, he became the chairman of a big company.
Later, he asked someone to investigate his life experience and realized that he was not Napoleon's grandson. But he said, "Now it doesn't matter whether I am Napoleon's grandson or not. The important thing is that I know the secret of success: when I am confident, success is approaching me. "
Henry's success is the information about his "life experience" in that magazine, which fills his gloomy heart with the sunshine of accepting himself, believing in himself and even appreciating himself. Under the sunshine, he worked hard and lived hard, and finally succeeded.
A person's mood can determine a person's fate. On the road of life, why not let your heart be full of sunshine and reap the fruitful results in the sun?
The opening title of the commentary article: "People's mood is sometimes sunny and sometimes cloudy." Then, with the topics of "painters let people evaluate paintings", "mountaineering experience" and "Henry's story", the first paragraph of "sunshine and shadow" outlines and guides the full text, and the outline of the full text is clear and clear. The writing material is rich and the connotation is rich, which enhances the appeal of the article.
Example 4
Experience the distance of life
In our life, there is something called distance, which you can get or lose.
From the beginning to the end, there is always a distance between pursuit and reality. Not pessimistic, the ideal shore and the road at the foot often cannot overlap, and are always separated by such dangerous beaches and gaps, or even insurmountable. [Personality Thinking: There is always an insurmountable distance between pursuit and reality. ]
The passers-by crossing the river are full of compassion and persistence, breaking the waves and clouds and fog, taking distance as their destiny, being calm and right, having tears to shed, but never being sad again. Facing the fate of life frankly, "tears can be shed, but I will never be sad again" is really a thorough understanding of the existence of life. ]
Inspired by Greek mythology, Camus, a French scholar, expounded the most positive and inspiring theory after World War II: Sisyphus pushed stones up the mountain day after day and could never get rid of them. The distance on the hillside trapped him in endless labor. Since we know that the ending is unchangeable, please go through the process and conquer the distance of life with your thoughts. The Nobel Prize's "award speech" said: Camus's theory has made outstanding contributions to the reconstruction of human ideals. ["Conquering the distance of life with thoughts" is not unique, but it is undoubtedly profound and shocking from the handwriting of a high school girl. ]
The gap in life is between pursuit and reality, and countless beautiful wishes of human beings have become wishful thinking. After World War II, the rubble can be cleared and the ruins have been rebuilt, but the trauma of the soul can not be calmed for a long time. Material wealth is increasing day by day, but the gap between the rich and the poor is difficult to build a bridge to a beautiful spiritual home. Distance has become the reason why human beings cannot understand the way of self-existence. The beginning of life is life, the end of death is death, and the long journey in the middle is left for us to face. Go forward with compassion and perseverance, and the light of endless yearning will be amplified, and the distance will no longer be hidden in the dark night, and the face will be ferocious. From Sisyphus's pushing the stone to the reconstruction of the homeland in World War II, from individuals to human beings, the style of writing is getting thicker and thicker, which vividly interprets the meanings of "taking distance as the fixed number" and "being calm and just", with a broad and lofty realm. ]
Shi Tiesheng's feet are always separated from the altar by a wheelchair, but his examination of the road of life and his mixed feelings of sadness and joy endow him with extraordinary spirituality and vitality. Helen? Keller's eyes always have a dark distance from the colorful world, but she guides countless people with normal vision with open-minded and sincere feelings, looking for light and beauty all the way; Scott is a step away from the Antarctic polar center, but he falls into the ice and snow with a smile and no regrets ... [Give many examples to support that the distance between reality and desire will always exist, but facing it bravely is the greatness of mankind. ]
Pursuing the distance from reality makes life more awesome, but it is not out of reach. In the persistent struggle of compassion, or rather, not seeking the final conquest, but seeking to experience life and be grateful, this is the truly beautiful and great human nature. The idea of the article has been promoted at different levels and should be stopped. ]
The opening paragraph gives a comment on the composition of the examination room, which means to continue writing. This requires giving consideration to its limitations and openness, and giving full play to its fists and fists within limited boundaries. Like a fish, you can only swim in your own water. When judging the meaning of the question, we should not only talk about the end of "far" or "gain and loss", but also grasp the relationship between "far" and "gain and loss" as a whole. Knowing this meaning, we can think a lot about society and life.
What the article discusses is actually a philosophical proposition: how to face the distance between reality and ideal in life. When life is doomed to be in trouble, we should walk calmly and firmly in it with compassion and persistence. Putting this kind of life experience in the background that human beings are often in trouble, with a unique perspective, the article has a rich and colorful philosophical color, which is amazing.
What needs to be pointed out in particular is that this flamboyant article did not bid farewell to the pipa. The opening is simple and purposeful. Under the guidance, the writing is full of inspiration and thinking, and the arguments are sufficient, sometimes opening and sometimes closing. The structure is quite regular, leaving no trace.
Example 5
The heart of gratitude
In short, a person's life has been nurtured by his parents since childhood, educated by his teachers at school, and cared and helped by his leading colleagues after work. When he is old, he will inevitably accept the kindness and care of his younger generation. Generally speaking, as individual members of society, we all live in a multi-level social environment, and we all get certain living conditions and development opportunities from this environment first, that is to say, this social environment is beneficial to each of us.
? With this sense of gratitude, people will have a strong sense of gratitude-to repay the kindness of all people and the kindness of this society with their hard work and selfless dedication, and they will have a sense of responsibility to pay unconditionally for others and society, regardless of whether they suffer or not.
? When it comes to gratitude, we should naturally think of repaying our parents for their upbringing. The ancients in China emphasized filial piety, which was originally a traditional virtue, but the ancients often made it absolute and extreme. Even the younger generation made "crying bamboo" (during the Three Kingdoms period, Meng Zong's stepmother liked to eat bamboo shoots, and Meng Zong went out to pick them in winter. Meng Zong burst into tears after arriving at the bamboo forest, and a large piece of bamboo shoots miraculously grew out) and "lying on the ice" (liked by Wang Xiang's stepmother in the Jin Dynasty), "tasting filth" (Yu Qian's father was prone to illness in the Southern Dynasty, and Yu Qian tasted his father's feces in order to find out his illness), "cutting stocks" (it is said that the ancients cut off their thighs to decoct medicine to treat their parents' serious illness) and other "foolish filial piety" will naturally be met by future generations.
? However, today, if we don't care about the upbringing of our parents at all, only care about their lives and don't care about their health, we will overcorrect and go to the other extreme and absolute. A mother in Nanxun Town, Huzhou City, Zhejiang Province gave birth to a pair of promising twin sons. The youngest son is about to go abroad, and the eldest son is also wearing a doctor's hat in domestic universities. But this eldest son, when he graduated from college at the age of 22, stopped calling his mother "Mom" just because his mother reminded him that clothes soaked for three days would stink if they were not washed. When his mother didn't agree with him to marry his partner with hepatitis B, he insisted on getting married, never said anything, and never recognized his mother again. He returned all the letters written by his mother intact; In order to avoid his mother's "entanglement", he didn't even tell his teachers and classmates his address; The kind teacher told his mother his pager number, but as soon as he heard her voice, he hung up with a bang.
? This sad true story typically reflects that some young people who call themselves "trendy" have completely abandoned the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation to respect the old and love the young, completely lost the minimum human nature and degenerated into completely cold-blooded animals. After all, parents are parents. Although what they do is not necessarily right, they can't deny their kindness and love for us. To say the least, even under some special circumstances, their goodwill and care for us are very limited, but as elders and elders, they have every reason to get our respect and support. The ancients said, "I'm old when I'm old, and I'm old when I'm young, and I'm young when I'm young" (respect and support my parents and others' parents, and love and raise my children and others' children). Now some people are old and don't even want to be old, let alone old. I wonder if he (they) ever thought: I am old, and my children treat me like my parents. What should I do?
? Another similar phenomenon is that some of our college students try their best to study abroad and try their best to stay abroad for development. Their reason is that the scientific research and living conditions abroad are much better than those in China, and I have greater development potential abroad. Why should I go back to China to "suffer"? This statement sounds reasonable, but it can't stand scrutiny at all. It is true that the scientific research and living conditions in foreign countries are better than those in China, but don't forget how much manpower, material resources and financial resources the country has invested in your growth from primary school students to college students? Your wings are hard, just like your son left without saying goodbye to his parents when he grew up. How can you stand it? Besides, studying abroad is a good thing, and it is even more natural to come back to serve the motherland after graduation. It is precisely because China is still a developing country, and many conditions, including scientific research conditions and living conditions, are not satisfactory. Therefore, successful overseas students are urgently needed to return to China to change this relatively backward situation with knowledge and technology. In my opinion, those China students who insist on staying abroad and only care about their own enjoyment are not much better than those "black sheep" who clamor for separation from their parents as soon as they have a skill, and never care about their parents' illness and death.
? Gratitude means that a person has a correct understanding of his relationship with others and society; Gratitude is the sense of responsibility arising from this correct understanding. Without the gratitude and gratitude of members of society, it is hard to imagine that a society can develop normally.
Example 5
Lack of "gratitude consciousness"
According to the report of Beijing Evening News on July 2nd1,a female college student studying in a university in Beijing had a little conflict with her father because her computer was broken, and she needed money badly, so she posted five "notices for borrowing money" in her residential area, with the purpose of "My father is poor".
? Such an alternative approach may only be a special case, but it reflects that college students lack understanding and gratitude to their parents, but it cannot be regarded as a joke. Indeed, lack of gratitude, lack of understanding for parents, and treating parents as cash cows are phenomena that occur in some teenagers today and deserve attention.
? Children's lack of gratitude is related to their parents' love and doting. Especially the only child, most of them grew up in the pampering of "being poor again" and were spoiled since childhood. They don't know that a porridge and a meal are hard-won, and they are used to the days of "having food with their mouths open and clothes with their hands stretched out", and rarely understand the hardships of their parents to make a living. Individual children from charming to horizontal, from love to hate, and even bite back. To some extent, parents are hard to blame for this phenomenon.
? Let me talk about school education. At present, many primary and secondary schools often ignore the guidance and education of children's morality and cultivation under the pressure of further studies and exam-oriented education. Some children blindly keep up with the joneses and pursue high-end and luxurious life consumption even if their family circumstances are average or even difficult. At the same time, they neglected their studies and had no sense of crisis of survival and self-reliance.
? Crows have the meaning of feeding back, and sheep have the grace of kneeling and nursing. For the majority of teenagers, gratitude consciousness is by no means a simple return to parents' upbringing, but also a sense of responsibility, self-reliance, self-esteem and the spiritual realm of pursuing a life achievement.
? Not long ago, it was reported by the media that a university in Chengdu carried out gratitude education among students, requiring them to write "thank-you letters" to their parents, so as to let them know the selfless love from their parents and the hardships behind every sum of money given to them by their parents, aiming at guiding them to establish a sense of responsibility and self-reliance, and to overcome the problems of extravagance and waste and comparison and enjoyment. This kind of gratitude education is really necessary to promote.
? If you don't know how to be grateful, you will lose the emotional foundation of loving your parents. If you don't even love your parents, how can you love your career and society? Therefore, the lesson of cultivating gratitude consciousness should not be underestimated and must be started from an early age. For college students, it's a little late, but they have to make up for it.
life
What is the meaning of life? I often think, and I am often confused. I think: If I understand life and myself, do I also understand the meaning of life? Lin Qingxuan's words are very thought-provoking: we open a flower for ourselves and increase our wisdom; We dedicate the heart of the world and make a flower for the world. On the way home, I walked with my head down and looked glum, because my monthly exam results were a mess today. Just then, an abandoned can appeared at my feet. Without thinking, I stretched out my leg and kicked it hard, watching it roll out of the distance. With such a punching bag, I feel a little better, and then I catch up and make up a heavy foot. Deep in thought, I stood stupefied by the roadside, watching the cleaners sweep small piles of garbage into the garbage truck and push it away slowly, leaving a clean street behind me.
Silent all night. When I carried my schoolbag on my back the next day, I relaxed a lot. What knowledge should give people, not a burden, but a pleasure. We grow wisdom in our study. No matter what the result of growth is, we should be happy. What can the score prove? It can prove the past, but not the future.
Try to open a flower for yourself, a spring kapok, dedicate bright colors to yourself, and then try to open a flower for the world and give love to others.
The canned food groaned at my feet and flew to the side of the road. There were a pair of gray shoes on the roadside, and then an old man bent down and gently picked up the cans. That's a gloved hand, red rubber gloves. I saw a cleaner on my arm. He bent down and swept the rubbish by the roadside with a broom.
The afterglow of the sunset is particularly soft, which casts a layer of orange on the street. The kapok on the roadside is blooming, and it is already spring. "If a person's life is not carried out and is not beneficial to the world, then he will live in vain?" The opening of a flower reports the arrival of spring for the world, and the work of a cleaner contributes to the cleanliness of the city.