How to make girls want to chat with you?
1, words should be concise.
Chatting with your sister online should be stingy. If you can express it in a few words, don't send a word, don't let her say a few words, and then you will reply to him for a long time. The more words you send, the more people will think you are trying to please her. When your sister thinks so, you will no longer belong to the same level. In the future, she won't take your information seriously, and the reply will naturally be slow or even not.
2. Response time
The time for you to reply to your sister's message should be basically the same as the speed for her to reply to you. Don't wait long for your sister to reply to you. If you reply immediately, you will naturally feel that your sister is slow to reply, and the second message also exposes your sense of need. Your sister will think that you are an idle person and will reduce your value invisibly.
3. Don't send messages all the time.
When your sister doesn't reply to you, don't keep sending her a lot of messages. Maybe she is busy, but you can't wait for this moment, which shows that you lack self-confidence and make her less interested in you. Many men think that they made their sister angry by saying the wrong thing, and then they keep sending messages and asking questions. If you ask, she will be even more reluctant to talk to you.
Skills to make girls want to talk to you.
1, learn to listen
All annoying guys have one thing in common, that is, "they don't consider other people's feelings at all." I believe many people have met a "torture-type" speaker. Open your chat record with him. 10 conversation, 90% are questions he is asking you, from where your parents work to your income and personal life.
2. Get accurate information about women
Many people are annoying and can't get to the point, often because they can't accurately understand the information conveyed by women, or they think they are smart enough to understand the meaning expressed by the other party. When chatting with a woman, you should understand her state and mood at that time and know how to put yourself in the other's shoes.
3, identify with each other's feelings
When a beautiful woman is in a bad mood, it is really annoying for you to pretend to know a few words "this is life" and "this is your choice". Who doesn't understand these truths and who won't say them? Sometimes, when a woman confides in you, it's actually a sign of trust.
4. Be good at expressing your emotions
Women usually chat with men not to find solutions to problems, but to find someone to talk to and communicate with. Therefore, whether on the Internet or in life, when you chat with women, don't talk seriously, just like a business negotiation.
5. Know when to end the topic
So when the other party reacts, we should know that the other party doesn't want to continue to communicate with us, right? When the other party shows the following performance, you should realize that the other party is serving tea to see the guests off and doesn't want to communicate with you at all.
6. Make sure that the topic you are talking about is of interest to the other party.
Sometimes people are not interested in your value. You should know what level the person you are talking to is pursuing, so that the value you show can make people want to listen. It's not that you are worthless, it's strange that you didn't show the value that the other person wanted to see.
How to ask questions to arouse girls' interest?
1, extraordinary and unique.
Chatting with the girl WeChat, hello, are you there? May I ask you a question? These platitudes are boring, which makes people feel bored and have nothing to say. What's more, girls may be greeted with this trite greeting every day, which is numerous and commonplace, which makes girls feel bored.
2. create problems.
For example, if you see a girl posting a picture of a circle of friends, you politely ask this girl: Hello, excuse me, I want to ask you, one of the pictures of your circle of friends, especially my comrade or classmate when I used to work or study together, what is his or her name?
3. Sincere consultation.
For example, if you find that a girl has sent some picture information about travel in a circle of friends, you just need to find an excuse to go to the same place and sincerely ask about the road tour route of the scenic spot and some related scenic spots. Because girls like to travel, they will take the trouble to talk to you and tell you the details.
4. Ask questions as an excuse to show your erudition.
If you find out what girls are keen on and what you are good at through the information in girls' circle of friends, you can make excuses for girls: I like this interest, too, and I always feel that some methods are the best. Now I feel that your method is much better than what I have been using. Can you ask me?
Not suitable for chatting with girls.
1, it must be shelling the household registration, how old, how tall, what are you doing, what do you like to do, and so on. If you send this question for more than three times in a row, you will definitely die.
2. Is it an appointment? Before you have established a strong sense of familiarity, it is inevitable to say it directly.
3, vent emotions, such as complaints, anger, anxiety, mostly when girls don't reply to your information, maybe brothers will have this kind of emotion, and then send a lot of content to girls, and this situation will also die.