My wife divorced and stayed calm for more than a month. She's still not answering her phone or returning messages. What should I do?

Your wife is experiencing mood swings, and she may need time to deal with her emotions and decisions. In this case, the most important thing is to respect her feelings and personal space, but also to express your concern and love.

Here are some suggestions:

1. Give her time and space: Although you may feel anxious and uneasy, it is important to respect her decision and the time she needs. Try to avoid exerting pressure or forcing her to communicate with you, and let her handle her emotions independently.

2. Send a short and gentle message: Although she may not reply to your message immediately, you can try to send some short and gentle messages to express your concern and love. This information can include support, encouragement, understanding and apology for her, but care should be taken to avoid overemphasizing her position or needs.

3. Seek professional help: If your wife is experiencing emotional troubles or difficulties, you can consider seeking professional help, such as marriage counseling or psychotherapy. These professionals can provide more specific advice and support to help you cope with difficulties together.

4. Self-reflection and improvement: If your wife mentions some changes that you can make, you can take these suggestions as opportunities for self-reflection and improvement. Try to experience these changes to show your sincerity and concern, and at the same time better meet her needs and expectations.

5. Keep a positive attitude: No matter what the situation is, keep a positive attitude and believe that you can solve the problem and that your relations can overcome the difficulties. This positive attitude can be passed on to your wife to help her feel your support and love.

Finally, it should be noted that everyone's situation is different, and the specific coping style needs to be adjusted and adapted according to your situation. If you feel that you can't deal with this problem effectively, you can consider seeking professional help and support.