"Feng Luan Deloitte was alarmed, when love bound? The living ghost is together, and the fate is still breaking up. I'm ready for you. I am wearing a cangue and want to break the enemy and find my way out, so I check the fish water. 」
Phoenix and Phoenix are legendary birds. Husband and wife and lovers refer to partners and spouses. Husband and wife are like husband and wife. "When will love stop?" When will love stop? I have struggled all my life, countless lives, countless lives. So far, it has not stopped. Do you want to continue this endless entanglement? "Living ghosts stay together", pretending to be like living ghosts, staying together and loving each other. "When fate comes, we will break up", and you will be inseparable again. When fate comes, we have to go our separate ways and go with the flow. You can die at the same time, but you can't go together.
The ancients said, "Husband and wife are birds in the same forest. When disaster strikes, they will fly separately." "Endless Classics" is quoted by many people: "People are in love, only children die alone, go alone, come through thick and thin, and have no generation. Good and evil change, pursuing life, and different ways will be uncertain. So the Buddha advised us: "Why not try to cultivate goodness when we are strong?" What shall we do? 」
Some people don't do enough to be husband and wife all their lives, and swear to be husband and wife all their lives. Making such a wish is doomed to reincarnation again, but it is not so lucky to get another person. I'm afraid this is inhuman. Some news reports about the love between man and beast, and some people fall in love with dogs, dolphins, cows and horses. This is an obvious example of reincarnation. In my last life, my feelings were too good. In this life, I fell into the path of animals.
Song of Eternal Sorrow is a long narrative poem by Bai Juyi, a poet in the Tang Dynasty, which vividly describes the love tragedy between Xuanzong and Yang Guifei in the Tang Dynasty and reveals the bad and bitter love. Tang Xuanzong was forced to put Yang Guifei to death, deeply grieved and miserable. It is said that on the night of July 7th, they vowed to be husband and wife forever in the eternal palace. Then they held hands and cried. At the end of the poem: "On the seventh day of July, in the palace of longevity, we secretly told each other in the quiet midnight world that we hope to fly in heaven, and two birds grow together on the earth with one wing, and the two branches of a tree ... the earth will last forever, and the sky will last forever; One day, both will end, and this endless sorrow will last forever. " Making this wish is the wish of reincarnation, and it will come back endlessly.
"Well, I'll take care of it for you", alas! I am deeply attached to you and have deep feelings. "With rafters and flail" is a metaphor. Feeling concerned about my heart, like shackles and other instruments of torture, binds people to the six divisions of the wheel of karma, making them uncomfortable and unable to get rid of it. Therefore, the Buddha said in Chapter 42: "People are bound to their wives' homes, more than prisons; There is a release period in prison, and the wife has no desire to stay away. People are bound by their wives, children, houses, homes and other things, which is worse than going to jail. Prison has a release date, and his wife and children have no desire to stay away.
Father and daughter, mother and son become husband and wife, and this kind of reincarnation farce has been staged too much. The Buddha in the Shurangama Sutra said: "You accept my life and I will pay you back, so it is karma. After hundreds of robberies, it is often a life-and-death situation; You love my heart, and I pity you, so it is karma, and after thousands of robberies, it is often bound. In reincarnation, I love you, you love me, I care about you, and you care about me. As a result, I tied you and you tied me. They were tightly tied together in reincarnation and could never leave each other. " Life and death are endless and evil ways are endless. "
"Fighting against the enemy" means that he has seen through it. See through couples, often past friends to collect debts. Some couples, who are very painful together, want to be separated but can't be separated, torturing each other and torturing each other. This is a typical debt collection type. You owe him. The awakened ones "seek their own way out", each in his own place, and decide to live in the west by chanting Buddha, which is the most aboveboard way to live and die.
"Therefore, put the couple of fish and water together." Fish can't live without water, and the couple of fish and water means intimacy. There is an idiom called "caring for each other", which means that when the water is dry, the fish's saliva gets wet with each other. Metaphor is to help each other with meager strength in difficult situations. This word is usually used to describe the love of the elderly. Although the old people are not as vigorous as the young people, they can feel sorry for each other for decades. This feeling has always been praised by the world. People in the world always think that the stronger the love, the better. I don't have the heart to tell you that caring for each other is doomed to reincarnation. If the old couple can't let go of their inner worries, they will come back to reincarnation. Therefore, master lianchi suggested that we should write off the relationship between husband and wife, which is as inseparable as fish and water.
It must be explained that it is not to persuade you to divorce, but to give up this life from your heart. Fortunately, we should still do what we should do. (from the network)
What do you think of emotion when you return to the Pure Land Method? In human nature, some people value human feelings, others despise human feelings, and the roots are different. Just like women in general, they are more important than men. What shall we do, Buddhist? I think it's the same sentence. Don't do this. Buddha will do it.
Pure land method is a special method. We don't need to change a root machine to practice. Of course it can be better. It's just that most people really can't stand the root machine, and Amitabha has no obstacles to the Buddha. As long as ordinary men want to die, they will not be tied up by their girlfriends, boyfriends and couples, and they will devote themselves to Buddhism. There is no obstacle to death in the west.
Abstinence can't give us death, and love can't stop us from dying (as long as it conforms to what I said above). As long as this love does not replace the position of chanting Buddha and dying first, that is to say, the girlfriend is good, but when we have to choose between Amitabha and Amitabha, we will not hesitate to choose Amitabha, so there is no problem.
Buddhism is inseparable from life, and life is inseparable from Buddhism. This is the only way. What should I do if I get divorced because I read Buddhism? Don't do it, Buddha will do it. That's the end of fate. You can't throw it away. It's not yours. Can't rob. You must get off at the station. No one can jump before you get there. Who do you have what kind of fate with? Amitabha 10 robbery can be seen clearly, and Amitabha will even use these feelings to make you die eventually. (Master Zongdao)