As many people know, reading is language learning, knowledge accumulation and spiritual food. In that case, why should "reading" be regarded as a punishment? What do you think of reading? When you punish your children with "reading", do you think reading is boring, responsible, heavy and boring?
In the process of our growth, it seems common to be punished by adults for reading, reciting, copying and reading texts; This makes our experience and impression of "reading" extremely poor-because almost every time we read, our mood is terrible, and we are only asked to read by adults when we are scolded or banned-as if reading is really so inaccessible that it is always difficult to taste the delicious food in the book, which is the most effective punishment. So gradually, people are regarded as afraid of the road and dare not avoid it.
Yan Ruyu, expecting children to love reading, actively find him in the book, and be sure to provide him with a positive reading experience.
For children, the attraction of the words and pictures in the book lies in that he can laugh heartily, gallop his imagination, answer his curiosity and find his own touch during reading. The key to the cultivation of reading habits lies in how children approach books and find their own experiences and growth in books. This kind of reading experience is not to hand him a book and ask him to sit well, read aloud and talk about his own experience, so that the child will understand and have the will. It is actually very unwise to regard reading as a punishment for misconduct, which not only further strengthens the temptation of other acousto-optic and stimulating activities, but worse, the meaning and fun of reading are easily erased. Reading can actually be very relaxing and enjoyable. Different plots, different moods, different observations, different ideas; These are all important sources to broaden children's horizons and satisfy his doubts. Can parents exchange them for other behaviors of their children at will?
Children need your company when they study.
Looking at it from another angle, you don't use "reading" as a tool of punishment, but are willing to do everything possible to lure children into this world. Reading and telling stories with children is the most comfortable moment between parents and children. Whenever someone asks, "What is the first story or book that impressed you the most?" ? At this time, mother's bedside story and father's heroic deeds usually make many people unforgettable. In the process of stories and adventures, parents and children have a safe and unconstrained style and a tacit understanding of life. New sharing will become a profound experience for children's growth. These are thoughtless in the case of punishment. Children need your warm company when they study.
Invite the children to read your little book together. The corner where a family can read a book is very comfortable, casual and kind.