I always think that before two people get married, the so-called house, car and other material conditions are insignificant. If you love him, don't let the question of whether the other person wants a house become an obstacle to your marriage. Similarly, if he loves you, I think all he can do is work hard and promise to give you a new home.
My good friend Jessica Hester Hsuan and her boyfriend Chen Chen have been together for seven years, including three years in high school and four years in college. In these seven years, they quarreled and broke up, but they finally chose to be together. I also witnessed their seven years of hardship. Mary is a very introverted little girl. She is always sad about everything and never tells anyone. This also makes their four-year love in college particularly difficult. Fortunately, she met Chen Chen, a particularly mature and outgoing boy. Everything will be showdown with Mary. Every time we quarrel, Chen Chen will go to the city where Mary lives to find her, give her a big hug, and then coax her.
After graduating from college, I always thought that Xuan Hui and Chen Chen would be the first married classmates I knew. After all, they have been together for so many years, and it's time to make it right. Then one day I got a call from Xuan. She told me in tears that she and Chen Chen had broken up. I asked her why. She said it was because her parents thought that Chen Chen didn't have the money to buy a new house, so they tried every means to block it and decided to break up.
No new house, no marriage? I don't know what people think now. I think the house is just a thing in the body. It can be used as a reference condition before marriage, but it is not a necessary condition. I hope our attitude towards love is that it is best if you have the conditions to give each other better conditions. If not, please let's work together to create better conditions after marriage.